user19000

So if things were iffy from the start why did you go through the rest of the process? And you haven't really said she did anything bad...you said she took away your cell phone and is ruining your life and your business,how so? If she took your phone just replace it and transfer your number to your new phone, I still don't get how taking away ones cell phone can ruin them...I hope you find away to sort things out though....good luck

1) A lawyer would be able to (advise you).
2) People are not commodities to be "sent back" if you don't like them.

so reading more stories on VJ about scam "victims", I noticed a lot of them seem to be Older US Citizens (significantly older, 20+ years age gap) and young Beneficiary. Oftentimes, these ppl never met in person, or met online, had a quick "relationship" and quick decision to get engaged or married. I also noticed a lot of these USCs also seem to have a fetish for a particular ethincity of girls (ie. asian, filipina, chinese, etc...)
A lot of these USC also seem to be financially challenged for their age (ie. low salary by American standards for someone 40+ years of age). So to sum these USCs up: they are old (& probably ugly due to their age), poor, stupid (so dumb as to believe that a young pretty girl would want to marry them after a few meetings online) and fetishists. So basically, they are lousy "catches" in America. Which girl in their right mind would want to marry these losers?
So these beneficiary girls are trading off their youth, beauty, and leaving behind their family and friends...to marry a loser USC? Some take their "trade off" seriously and fulfill their end of the bargain and are genuine in trying to make the marriage work. Others are "scammers" who don't like the trade and run as fast as they can once they get their green cards. But can you blame them? Why would a young, beautiful girl want to stick with a loser USC?
Or am I being too harsh?

Bit judgmental without knowing his side of things.

Why? Because they divorced? That's just ridiculous

There's no vengeful ex-spouse number to call, although the idea of divorced spouses being rounded up and put into freight containers and shipped back to their respective countries tickles me pink.
I hope he has a job of his own, or else you may find yourself paying alimony.

Sorry to hear of your situation... a shock i am sure... however, Sorry... No returns... You cannot do anything to get anyone shipped back, a spouse is not a package... If they came on a CR1 and have their green card, they can file to remove conditions without you and remain here as long as they can prove they entered the marriage in good faith. Things end, people divorce all the time... But there is no divorcing from your obligations on the 864... You are on the hook for 10 years or when they become a citizen.. But I do advise you to move forward with your life... Good lick

I implore all immigrants with children of USCs to marry and get a spousal visa, not to have children out of wedlock and come on a fiance visa.

This is wishful thinking and bad advice.
A USC child does nothing for her.
There are plenty of foreign parents who have been deported despite their USC children.

I'm sorry for your situation, but I'm not sure what your point is in posting it in my thread.
If you are trying to imply that my marriage was not in good faith on my behalf, that I was 'faking it', then I respectfully request that you no longer comment in this thread.
All of us here in this forum are aware that many, many people who engage in relationships in order to gain immigration benefits. But I assure you, I am not one of them. I gave up a good job, my family and friends and life in Australia to move here to be with the person I loved. But despite my moving here initially for him, I now have established a new life and friends here.
I merely asked for some suggestions of evidence that I may not have thought of, so that I can hopefully prove to USCIS that I was genuine in my intentions and in my marriage. I've already been through the hurt and distress of the break-up of my marriage... I'm trying to avoid further upheaval in losing my GC and having start a new life AGAIN.

Is there any need for everyone to take the p*ss out of her when she's posted asking for advice and help? So what if she's listed roadside assistance - I think it is quite simple to understand that she has already built a life here, doesn't want to go back and is asking for advice on ROC. People can be so rude sometimes.

Mrs lost_at_sea is my mother. Also, "Mrs" (and often "Miss" to show an un-married woman) indicates marital status, whereas "Mr" and "Ms" do not. It's just another sexist thing that bothers me - why should only a woman have a salutation that indicates marital status? My husband doesn't have to change his salutation. Why should I?
I enjoy being married to my husband. It's a commitment we made to one another. My salutation has nothing to do with my commitment.
I don't dislike the technicalities of marriage - I have taken part in every single legal one! Changing one's name, however, has nothing to do with the technicalities of marriage. Both name and salutation changes of the type discussed here are both non-required and simply cultural (sexist) traditions. Nothing more.

My name is ABC and my husband is XYZ. If I change my name to ABZ ( which will never happen) I will be known as Mrs. Z. Instead I would like o be known as Ms. C, my legal and only name. Marriage has nothing to do with being called Mrs. (The man's last name).
The technicalities are sexist. If a woman wants to change her name, I don't care. But it doesn't make the "tradition" any less unfair to women. Note there is no reference to a man's marital status. Something is very much off with that.

I bloody well hope it's not a red flag, because I will not be changing my name.
In short: it's not a red flag - it's the 21st century and women can keep their names or change them to whatever they please.
I also choose to go by "Ms" not "Mrs" on all forms and paperwork that request a salutation.

Why are you even considering changing your name?
I know I will get hammered for this, but don't you find it a bit sexist? A red flag because you don't assign your husband's name to you? Did he change his?
This is a non-issue.

I have read many of your comments in the recent past, every single one of them you suspect the beneficiary had some ulterior motive and they are only out to scam their significant other. If someone was going to scam they wouldn't go through the entire process, get married, and then decide to just leave to go home without adjusting status. Scammers don't do that, they do everything in their power to get that green card in hand and then follow through with their plan. If she was going to scam her husband why on Earth would she go home with no hope of coming back unless a new petition was filed, and then go through the entire process AGAIN? You need to stop trolling threads accusing everyone of being a fraudster.

My thoughts are that, your thoughts are hateful & jealous,
I'm not condoning what she is SUPPOSEDLY doing however
the excuses U make about the back of the line although truthful
U harbor & got benefits from her as a room-mate, Its one thing to
want to do right it another when Judas-priest sets in.
What does it matters for you to come on a forum talking about her
son who has done nothing to U, how do U know she and her ex
don't want to make another go at things and straighten out her
papers....I cant judge U, but from the words of your mouth you
prove to be not a great person to call friend...what if they arrest
U for harboring her , would you like it? Live & let live, sometimes
you got to let go and let god...bad thinking on New Years day

Are you going to let this person define the entire rest of your life, or are you mature enough to put it behind you, where it already long ought to be and MOVE ON?
What the investigation found out, what he did or didn't, do are things all in the past. The past. As in behind you. Following your ex around the rest of your days seems to be a poor career choice. It isn't up to you to keep him from taking his new wife "for a ride". And sure as the sky is above you isn't your job to punish him either.
The USCIS will do as they please with him Not your business either.
The direction people are meant to be looking in is ahead. As in what are your plans for the rest of your time on the planet.

What you really need to understand now is that if the other woman(ur ex's wife) find out how you have been stucking her marriage, you will get charged, and everything would be use against u in the court of law.
Your ex can still deny all the allegation and the uscis are not stupid, they understand how impatient women can be so jealous and try to rope their husbands. USCIS has nothing to do with your ex concealed previous marriage in Russia. They would throw it out of the window because even Obama would not sponsor them to go verify ur prove in Russia.
The innocent woman that u called Obese can do everything to make the USCIS believe that all your allegation are false and out of jealousy............I am speaking from experienced... Your ex would definitely get approved again.....
*Repent and stop being noisy and move on with your life*

You reported what pertained to you and him as you should. Of course he will be more closely scrutinized.
Sorry this happened to you but you have been divorced for 10 months now and after almost a year don't you think
it is time to move on from trying to control or monitoring the situation ?
It is being handled and you are wasting time and energy to 'understand' the process. No one can foretell what will happen.
Let it go. Live your life. Refocus. Wanting him 'punished' is negative energy. It is now out of your hands. Accept it.
Until you couldn't care less you are still emotionally entangled and attached. Cut the cord.

It dosent matter anymore,you have reported the case accordingly....Why are you still worried about his private life now or whoever he is with and what makes you think you are better than the woman she is with right now by calling her obese or over old woman...or is this just jealousy. ..thats #######....And because even if she is whatever you said she is...,she derserve to be love...and...I advice you get your life together and move on and stoppppp stalking your ex because thats purely against the law....

It was your business to report... but I hardly see how it is your business what happens now. Sounds a bit vindictive to me... and maybe he does see something in this other woman, or, maybe she is being used... it's still not your business anymore.

Sounds like a bit of jealousy to me... which will lead to bitterness... I understand your fraud thing and I'm so happy that you were strong enough to recognize it...but I am 51 and married to a foreigner much younger and very attractive... he is very attracted to me because of me... so please don't stereotype. Age or looks have nothing to do with what he did to you... if you consider yourself attractive... he went from you to her... he has an agenda... looks or age not included.
I hope you can forgive him...God is in control. As for him being able to do it again... there will be so many red flags...if you have proven fraud against him he will most likely be denied... there are other avenues that can maybe be taken... but it's going to be very very tough for him to prove himself legitimate in the near future...
Good luck...I hope you get peace from this mess soon. God Bless.

No, it isn't your business any longer, not to be rude. Just real. It's their business now. If her takes he for a ride, as you so fervently hope, it is HER business. Hers.

accusing your ex that he comiited fraud doesn't mean that he comitted so. since, you already divorced him and you did your best to get him deported why you still care. he still can file a waiver. the uscis officer told you he will interview him that means they need to hear his side of the story. Even if the waiver got denied your ex can still fight it in court and it's up to immigration judge to decided finally. He still can file a new petition with his new USC, he will be questioned about his priror marriage but he still can get approved. My advice, Just move on. keep chasing your ex news won't get you any where.