CarlaDave

Felt like a made up number to make his cheating seem completely okay and acceptable.

Even though you are mailing them together, they may get split up. Our I-130 was approved before the I-485,
my thoughts to you ... if each form asks for a copy of the marriage/birth certificate, etc... send it for each one. So in essence, you may have 5 copies in total.
Hope that makes sense.

Emails can be easily manipulated/doctored. You are going to need more substantial documentation if emails are all you've got.

Emails can be easily manipulated/doctored. You are going to need more substantial documentation if emails are all you've got.

Put them ALL in one package. There's no need to have separate packages.

Woohoo! This has been a good week!

We walked away from our interview with a "Decision will be mailed" letter ... at 4:45 pm last night we were approved! My I-130 was approved today!
We're so happy to be done with immigration for the next year and a half. Although, we will be spending the time collecting documentation for Dave's ROC. Thank goodness that's only one form!
I did some research and found out if anyone has an interview at the Fresno field office, they DO NOT approve applications on the spot. Everyone gets a "Decision will be mailed" letter.

Good luck today, Clydesdale!
Waving the US/St Andrews Cross flag for ya!

Here is the updated table as of 6/20/13 based on the information in everyone's signatures. Lots of EAD and interview dates in the table now

You are obviously not European or a backpacker. Some companies in Europe give employees unpaid sabbaticals for months. Some even allow them to take an advance on their vacation. Backpackers live on little money for a long period of time. Backpackers learn to budget money carefully, take public transport, eat cheap food, and avoid expensive items. Staying with friends cuts down on expenses. If you have lodging for 6 months, then USD $7,000 is more than enough.

I love the condescending responses from so many people on this site. Mr Canada and Noah..why can a bartender not afford a 6 Month Trip? Why would you blast him in such a way? I had a friend from GB that came all the time for a 6 month stay over the last 10 years. He lived at home and saved money for that purpose. $7,000 was more than enough as he only helped us with food. Get off your horse and just be nice! Sounds to me you just think he is a lying. Nice help you offered.. Maybe we should focus on answering the guys question and not be a butt about it.

Yep, go back home.
Why do people insist on staying here, after their relationships turn to ####??? If you moved for a person, and that relationship failed, go back home. Why the constant need for advice on what can one do to stay? It almost seems like the green card was the real goal rather than the person...

If you can't sleep, pick a room and clean it. (Just saying.....)

This is completely off topic, but I would urge you to contact all 3 credit bureaus and freeze your credit report.
You have given him an incredibly complete dossier for identity theft.
Good luck.

Add that to the fact no other information is given except she's cheating with a married man and we're supposed to give her advise how to continue hurting his wife.
Funny how all the questions being asked regarding the immigration status is ignored.
I feel no empathy for the OP.
If you don't want to be judged, moral standards or otherwise, then don't post on a public forum.

Add that to the fact no other information is given except she's cheating with a married man and we're supposed to give her advise how to continue hurting his wife.
Funny how all the questions being asked regarding the immigration status is ignored.
I feel no empathy for the OP.
If you don't want to be judged, moral standards or otherwise, then don't post on a public forum.

My my ... you're awfully bold calling the FBI to ask about your FP

Add that to the fact no other information is given except she's cheating with a married man and we're supposed to give her advise how to continue hurting his wife.
Funny how all the questions being asked regarding the immigration status is ignored.
I feel no empathy for the OP.
If you don't want to be judged, moral standards or otherwise, then don't post on a public forum.

Add that to the fact no other information is given except she's cheating with a married man and we're supposed to give her advise how to continue hurting his wife.
Funny how all the questions being asked regarding the immigration status is ignored.
I feel no empathy for the OP.
If you don't want to be judged, moral standards or otherwise, then don't post on a public forum.

Add that to the fact no other information is given except she's cheating with a married man and we're supposed to give her advise how to continue hurting his wife.
Funny how all the questions being asked regarding the immigration status is ignored.
I feel no empathy for the OP.
If you don't want to be judged, moral standards or otherwise, then don't post on a public forum.

Made this real quick to keep track of everyone in our March filers... couldn't go through every page but here it is for now

Add that to the fact no other information is given except she's cheating with a married man and we're supposed to give her advise how to continue hurting his wife.
Funny how all the questions being asked regarding the immigration status is ignored.
I feel no empathy for the OP.
If you don't want to be judged, moral standards or otherwise, then don't post on a public forum.

Add that to the fact no other information is given except she's cheating with a married man and we're supposed to give her advise how to continue hurting his wife.
Funny how all the questions being asked regarding the immigration status is ignored.
I feel no empathy for the OP.
If you don't want to be judged, moral standards or otherwise, then don't post on a public forum.

My perspective of a "bona fide" relationship, which needs to be proven at his interview, is lacking due to exactly that...the absence of good morals. There is no bona fide foundation for an immigration future in my opinion. If you think we are giving you a moral beating just wait until an interviewing officer will start asking some serious questions.
It will be an uphill battle.
You said in your second post : I see now that I missed out on including some information necessary for help, but you are all simply harping on the ethics involved.
If someone can provide actual advice that does not involve the morals involved, I thank you.




Since your and his morals will be questioned in an interview, I personally feel morals are a valid point to bring up here to advice you. You still didn't answer the questions about the exact
immigration details. The situation may 'appear' potentially fraudulent with the information provided and that is exactly what you are up against. We have bona fide couples here getting denied without any of the drama you mentioned so please don't expect that the lack of ethics won't be mentioned here. It certainly will be scrutinized by an interviewing officer and you will need solid answers to overcome their speculations and assumptions whatever they may be. Morals, a bona fide relationship with plenty of evidence and the immigration process go hand in hand
and you can not distance yourself from that. The timing of meeting, marrying and divorcing is of importance in regards to filing. This triangular background is not in your favor.

Please give us more information that you left out ...... And I will tell you Im sorry if you felt I gave you a moral beatin ..... Im not a lawyer so i can not give you legal advice .... If you want legal advice you need to go to a lawyer or legal aid many do free consultations....... I do not know much about you and yours life, and the people involved ect ect..... but I can tell you this It saddens me that 100s of people are on this forum waiting to be with the one that they love we wait and wait and wait for the day we get our approvals and you come on here and speak of this wonderful relationship you have with your man who has a wife that brought him here to the USA out of love......and you dont expect to get a lil moral beatin....you are what we wives in waiting fear most .......So please call a lawyer, call his wife, call immigration but dont expect some of us to understand......You need to do what is good for you ..... not whats good for him .... not whats good for anyone else.....I really pray you work things out and you get the most of your life with or without him.....just sayin