Mogambi

Wow, your quick response to your fiancé's posting and the tone of your voice makes it pretty clear that you DO intend to lie and fake an employment that doesn't exist.
Hey, good luck with that!
And WE'RE the uninformed ones? Gee, thanks boss. Yes, why don't you move along since you clearly know everything, and us ignorant rednecks will just sit around drinking moonshine...

Glad to hear things went well. To all the people here saying it's no problem to come and visit your fiancé while waiting for a K1 application, be CAREFUL to say such things. It's NOT automatically true that you can visit.
In fact, MANY people are turned away and denied entry here if the customs person suspects at all that perhaps you intend to stay in the US, and having a fiancé here is a good reason to want to stay.
It's very irresponsible to say 'oh it's no problem, I heard someone else did it'.
You might get away with it. But it's a pretty expensive proposition if they turn you away and put you on a plane home!

The chance is too high you will get turned away at this point if you try to visit, it's not worth the risk. And since his injury isn't life threatening, the likelihood that they're expedite it are slim to none. As it should be. I don't mean any offense, but this isn't an emergency that warrants an expedite. That might sound harsh, I don't mean it to be, I'm sure any of us in your situation would want to get on a plane and get here, but we don't have that luxury.
If you want to try a tourist visit, be prepared that they not let you in, being as far along in your visa.

No need to make personal attacks against this person. Be nice to her. She didn't do anything wrong. When love is involved, rational heads do not prevail. That's why she posted here, she needed guidance. For a lot of people from poorer countries, the promise of a new life with someone they truly love is a strong emotion. Pretty hard I would think to 'walk away' from what you thought would be your entire new life. So be easy on her.
It's very easy for us to say 'My god what a pig, walk away'. And I truly also believe he is not a good man at all for behaving that way, and she should find someone better than him. He is a lying cheater and he will not change.
But we don't need to call her a fool. Show some compassion.

You're slightly confused about one of Darren's posts? I'd be slightly confused if I ever WASN'T 'quite' confused at one of his posts...

You're slightly confused about one of Darren's posts? I'd be slightly confused if I ever WASN'T 'quite' confused at one of his posts...

You're slightly confused about one of Darren's posts? I'd be slightly confused if I ever WASN'T 'quite' confused at one of his posts...

Don't send those type of chats. The fear is that the CO will think your relationship is based purely on sexual things, and it comes off in a bad way. Everything I've read says to cross those things out, or just don't print those pages.

I agree, it sounds much more that Darren's wife IS suffering from depression, and this isn't a communication error. But he wants to wear blinders and pretent, oh this is just because she's a simple girl who doesn't understand anything that is going on, and needs me to do everything for her.
Or maybe your wife needs help because she is suffering from depression! Nothing wrong with that at all too.

Nevermind.

Nevermind.

Yes best to get your fiancé on here too so we can really understand what happened.

Agree, your visa was not DENIED. This is a good sign I think. They requested additional documents. You sent them. They requested her passport. Why would they request the passport unless they were going to put the visa in it? If they were truly going to deny your visa after the documents you sent in, they would have just sent a letter.
So pretty for sure your visa is on the way!

Don't be sad, be happy that you are approaching the time when you should see your approval. Fingers crossed.

No need to make personal attacks against this person. Be nice to her. She didn't do anything wrong. When love is involved, rational heads do not prevail. That's why she posted here, she needed guidance. For a lot of people from poorer countries, the promise of a new life with someone they truly love is a strong emotion. Pretty hard I would think to 'walk away' from what you thought would be your entire new life. So be easy on her.
It's very easy for us to say 'My god what a pig, walk away'. And I truly also believe he is not a good man at all for behaving that way, and she should find someone better than him. He is a lying cheater and he will not change.
But we don't need to call her a fool. Show some compassion.

Yeah it would be easier to load up some photos on a flash drive, and head to any Targer, CVS, Walgreens, etc. They can and will print them cheap, and I think most of them can also print the time and date stamp that is in the file, onto the photo, which in the past was always recommended. Not sure it matters much these days, but it wouldn't hurt.
I wouldn't print onto regular paper, in my mind, at least I think it looks tacky, but there is no technical rule. But as they are sometimes looking for fake pictures, having it on real photo paper will have more resolution, and look more 'professional'. Since you are projecting an image, being organized, and showing that you take the whole thing very seriously probably helps. Just my two cents.
But again, you can get photos printed on photo paper all over these days, Costco, Target, probably K-Mart, Walgreens, CVS, etc.

I'm very sorry to hear again about this. But you must trust all of us, and draw strength knowing that he was not the right man for you if he cheated on you. I can't imagine how hard it is to see what looked like a whole new live for you vanish. But remain strong, people are here to support you too.
If I saw that guy, I'd punch him in the face for you!

No need to make personal attacks against this person. Be nice to her. She didn't do anything wrong. When love is involved, rational heads do not prevail. That's why she posted here, she needed guidance. For a lot of people from poorer countries, the promise of a new life with someone they truly love is a strong emotion. Pretty hard I would think to 'walk away' from what you thought would be your entire new life. So be easy on her.
It's very easy for us to say 'My god what a pig, walk away'. And I truly also believe he is not a good man at all for behaving that way, and she should find someone better than him. He is a lying cheater and he will not change.
But we don't need to call her a fool. Show some compassion.

Very sorry to hear it, but you should probably end the relationship with that man. It's completely not true that men 'have to have sex'. That's just an excuse he is making up now because he has been caught. Think about it, not only did he CHEAT on you, he has been in another ongoing relationship with another woman, and hiding it from you. If trust is the key to any relationship, how can you ever trust him? You do deserve much better than him. And then for him to make up a sorry excuse of 'well men have to make boom boom' what a ridiculous thing to say.
If you love someone, you remain faithful to them. Period.
If he is behaving this way now, he will not change. He will never be faithful. He might really love you, but he's not a real man if he behaves that way.
As much as it will hurt, you will be better off finding a better man.
That's my opinion.

I'm kind of shocked at how many times this seems to happen. Don't people look and trust the website? Why would you assume your neighbor who filed years ago would know the proper fee, and the website would be wrong? Makes no sense...
Luckily, easy enough, new check, re-submit...

I'm kind of shocked at how many times this seems to happen. Don't people look and trust the website? Why would you assume your neighbor who filed years ago would know the proper fee, and the website would be wrong? Makes no sense...
Luckily, easy enough, new check, re-submit...

Also, if you have an itinerary that you print out before the flight, include a copy of that. It has the flight details too.

No need to make personal attacks against this person. Be nice to her. She didn't do anything wrong. When love is involved, rational heads do not prevail. That's why she posted here, she needed guidance. For a lot of people from poorer countries, the promise of a new life with someone they truly love is a strong emotion. Pretty hard I would think to 'walk away' from what you thought would be your entire new life. So be easy on her.
It's very easy for us to say 'My god what a pig, walk away'. And I truly also believe he is not a good man at all for behaving that way, and she should find someone better than him. He is a lying cheater and he will not change.
But we don't need to call her a fool. Show some compassion.

Very sorry to hear it, but you should probably end the relationship with that man. It's completely not true that men 'have to have sex'. That's just an excuse he is making up now because he has been caught. Think about it, not only did he CHEAT on you, he has been in another ongoing relationship with another woman, and hiding it from you. If trust is the key to any relationship, how can you ever trust him? You do deserve much better than him. And then for him to make up a sorry excuse of 'well men have to make boom boom' what a ridiculous thing to say.
If you love someone, you remain faithful to them. Period.
If he is behaving this way now, he will not change. He will never be faithful. He might really love you, but he's not a real man if he behaves that way.
As much as it will hurt, you will be better off finding a better man.
That's my opinion.

No need to make personal attacks against this person. Be nice to her. She didn't do anything wrong. When love is involved, rational heads do not prevail. That's why she posted here, she needed guidance. For a lot of people from poorer countries, the promise of a new life with someone they truly love is a strong emotion. Pretty hard I would think to 'walk away' from what you thought would be your entire new life. So be easy on her.
It's very easy for us to say 'My god what a pig, walk away'. And I truly also believe he is not a good man at all for behaving that way, and she should find someone better than him. He is a lying cheater and he will not change.
But we don't need to call her a fool. Show some compassion.