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    Wally G! reacted to tcTTct in Bad News   
    Anytime brother. Glad things worked out. Happy to help.
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    Wally G! reacted to WeatherEmperor in Bad News   
    I just got off the phone with Tuan (TcTTct). His fiancee called Thu and spoke with her. I was told that the doctor said if Thu had shown up to the hospital even 1 day later or something like that, she may have died
    Thu did not answer my phone calls because she was afraid I would panic or get angry. My God we dodged a bullet here. My older brother was killed in a car crash 13 years ago and I would not be able to handle losing my Thu. I am so relieved.
    I want to thank Tuan for coming to my rescue. You will be a dear friend of mine forever
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    Wally G! got a reaction from Darnell in confused   
    Mmmmmm Lawyers don't you love them . Sorry you did not DIY (Do it Yourself) you would have save cash and probably time . Again I feel a immigration lawyer is only needed when you have extreme circumstances in perusing or obtaining a Visa.
    The instruction letter is a ####### shoot. Sometimes you get one. Sometimes you won't. More on the side of you won't or way after you completed your process.
    Now here is my contribution of help to you. Fellow VJ'er.
    At this point you should start preparing your fiancé’s Packet 3.
    http://manila.usembassy.gov/wwwh3224.html
    Download the K1/K2 Interview Preparation Instructions. Make sure to have all the requirements in the instructions. Review and go over it 3 or 4 times to make sure all is filled correct.
    Now your fiancé will pay and schedule the USEM appointment.
    http://www.ustraveldocs.com/ph/
    Click on the apply button (Green Button " Apply Now ". Fill out the registration information. It is straight forward.
    Click Schedule Appointment
    Select Immigrant Visa
    Click continue
    Select K Visas ( Visa for Fiancée , Visa For Spouse )
    Select K1 - Fiancé or Fiancée of U.S. Citizen
    Click continue
    Fill out all information
    Click continue
    You will receive a confirmation email of you appointment.
    If your are not comfortable with the online appointment system. You can always call and set appointment via phone.
    To schedule a visa appointment for IV or K petitions, please contact the Embassy’s Visa Information and Appointment Service at (632) 982-5555 or (632) 902-8930.
    http://manila.usembassy.gov/wwwh3238.html
    You will now pay for you the fiancé I-129f petition there in Philippines. Fee is U.S. $350 / P15,218. Send a little extra as it is bases on current exchange rate. Cash payment at any Bank of the Philippine Island (BPI) branch. Just go into the branch nearest to her and tell them you are paying for K-1 Visa application fee. They will know what to give her to fill out. If she is unsure on what to fill out ask the staff there to help her fill it out.
    BPI Branch Locator:
    http://info.bpiexpressonline.com/bpiprod/prodserv.nsf/Pop-Ups/BranchesSearch
    Require documents at BPI:
    Passport and MNL number
    When filling out the online applicant or speaking to the USEM agent. You will need the receipt number on the receipt from BPI.
    USEM will give her some dates to choose from. Once she selects a date. Appointment is set!! You can reschedule but they will push you further in the month or next month.
    Your fiancé will need to prepare for her Medical at St. Luke's Medical Center Extension Clinic (SLEC)
    Required Documents:
    http://www.slec.ph/us-visa-applicants.shtml#required-docs
    Pre-register online and have her print out this letter. This is the appointment letter she needs to present at SLMEC.
    http://www.slec.ph/us/registration/
    Medical fees are: 15 years and older USD 213.35 / PhP 9,387.50. This is paid at SLMEC.
    ST. LUKE'S MEDICAL CENTER EXTENSION CLINIC
    1177 J. Bocobo St. Ermita, Manila 1000 PHILIPPINES
    If your fiancé passes her Medical They will give her a date to come back to SLEC and get her results and medical will CD of chest X-ray
    On the interview date she will have a time most likely 6:00 - 6:30 AM to be at the Manila USEM. She needs to have all her required documents in hand, appointment letter, and passport. Again refer to K1/K2 Interview Preparation Instructions as for what is needed. Make sure she has all papers organized. It makes for a easier processing at the embassy and shows seriousness. Buy a organizer with tabs. Label the tabs for each requirement.
    Once at the embassy, she will fall in line. They will take her appointment letter, check passport and assign her a number. At the embassy they don't allow any electronic devices.
    You are not allowed to enter the U.S. Embassy/Consulate while carrying any of the following items:
    battery-operated or electronic devices such as mobile phones, digital diaries, digital watches, pagers, cameras, audio/video cassettes, compact discs, MP3s, floppy disks, laptops, or portable music players
    large shoulder bags/purses - only bags that can be carried by hand will be permitted
    bags such as travel bags, backpacks, briefcases, suitcases, leather, cloth bags, and zip folders - you can only carry plastic bags containing application-related papers
    food items (refreshments are available for purchase in the waiting area)
    sealed envelopes or packages
    cigarettes, cigars, match boxes, lighters
    sharp objects such as scissors, pen knives or nail files
    weapons or explosive materials of any kind
    If she needs her cell phone they will ask her to check it in at the security section. They will give her a card so she can retrieve at the end of interview.
    They will give her a form to fill out on how to deliver the passport with visa. Either it's deliver to her home address or she can go pick it up at a 2GO location.
    Once inside, she will need to look on the board for her number to be called. She will go to the window and ask for her paperwork. Then she will be finger printed. They will tell her to wait again. Once her number flashes again, she will have her first interview with Filipino consulate. They will ask her a few questions and check and process her documents. (MAKE SURE SHE HAS ALL REQUIRED DOCUMENTS). If all is in order she answered all questions to satisfaction. She will then wait again for her number to flash again on the board. Then she will have her final interviewer US consulate. Consulate will process her paperwork and ask a few questions. If all is in order she will be told to wait again for her number to flash. Then she will go to the 2GO window where they will take her passport. They will give her a receipt (make sure to ask if they do not give one).
    That's it for the USEM interview. You can now breathe a little easier.
    Now if there is a problem. They will give a 221g form and state what the issue is. Now you will need to get them whatever they want in order to proceed. Now this is pull a long process when your in Admin Review. Look on VJ for Admin Review stories.
    It will take 5 - 10 days for 2GO to receive visa and passport from USEM.
    2GO locator:
    http://www.2go.com.ph/CustomerSupport/tools/outlets.asp
    2GO Tracking (enter MNL number):
    http://www.2go.com.ph/CustomerSupport/etrace/index.asp
    Once you have received your passport with visa. Now its time for CFO (Commission on Filipinos Overseas). Now CFO seminar can be done in the beginning before obtaining the visa and passport. You will need to return to get the CFO sticker and Stamp in the passport after receiving the visa passport upon approval and delivery.
    St. Mary Euphrasia Foundation - Center for Overseas Workers.
    CFO (Commission on Filipinos Overseas) Information.
    CFO Seminar is a 1 day seminar and process.
    She will need to register for her seminar.
    http://www.cfo.gov.ph/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=1348%3Afiancee-spouses-and-other-partners-of-foreign-nationals&catid=140&Itemid=813
    CFO is to inform fipinos about the country they are traveling to. The Good, Bad and Ugly. They will ask her some questions and issue her CFO sticker and seminar certificate.
    Requirements for Registration:
    Original and photocopy of Passport;
    Original and photocopy of visa;
    Original and photocopy of Immigrant Data Summary for US bound/ Confirmation of Permanent Residence for Canada bound/ Certification of Eligibility (for Japan-bound);
    Original CFO guidance and counseling certificate;
    Duly completed emigrant registration form; and
    Payment of the authorized registration fee.
    Requirements for Attendance to Guidance and Counseling Program
    http://www.cfo.gov.ph/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=1348%3Afiancee-spouses-and-other-partners-of-foreign-nationals&catid=140&Itemid=813
    Two (2) valid identification cards (IDs) with photograph; (Postal ID, NBI Clearance, Passport w/ Visa)
    Duly completed guidance and counseling form;
    http://www.cfo.gov.ph/pdf/downloadable%20forms/overseasbasedemigrantform.pdf
    If married, certified true copy and photocopy of marriage contract on security paper from the National Statistics Office, or Local Civil Registry Offices; or original and photocopy of marriage contract duly authenticated by the Philippine Embassy/ Consulate (if married abroad)
    Other documents as may be required by the counselors; and
    You will pay a fee totaling PhP 650.00. The PhP 250.00 is paid as counseling fee at SMEF-COW or PRISM while the PhP 400.00 is for registration at the CFO.
    If you fiancee is under 25 yrs. She will need a written consent letter from her parents or a parent will need to be there with her to give consent of there child's marriage.
    > If you are between the ages of 21-24, CFO may require you to submit a letter of parental advice to marry.
    > If you are between the ages of 18-20, CFO may require you to submit a letter of parental consent to marry.
    Here's why you didn't see anything on the CFO website about those requirements:
    The following is from the CFO website:
    Requirements for Attendance to Guidance and Counseling Program
    Two (2) valid identification cards (IDs) with photograph;
    Duly completed guidance and counseling form;
    If married, certified true copy and photocopy of marriage contract on security paper from the National Statistics Office, or Local Civil Registry Offices; or original and photocopy of marriage contract duly authenticated by the Philippine Embassy/ Consulate (if married abroad)
    Other documents as may be required by the counselors <-----------------------------
    Payment of P250.00 counseling fee.
    CFO link.
    The following forms may come in handy:
    Sworn statement that advice of parents or guardian has been asked. (for those who are 21-24 years old)
    Consent to marriage of a person under age. (for those who are 18-20 years old)
    Marriage applicants who are age 18 to 21 must have parental consent in writing, those age 21 to 25 must have written parental advice (a written indication that the parents are aware of the couple's intent to marry). The revised Family Code of the Philippines, which took effect on August 4, 1988, prohibits marriage for individuals below the age of 18.
    U.S. Department of State link.
    The quote above is from the section where they are talking about getting married in the Philippines. However, the CFO has been known to require parental advice or parental consent from K-1ers.
    It's all on the Consular's discretion whether they require consent from a parent or guardian.
    SMEF-Center for Overseas Workers
    Good Shepherd Convent
    1043 Aurora Boulevard
    Quezon City 1108
    Philippines
    http://www.smef-cow-phil.org/
    Once CFO seminar, certificate, Sticker and stamp is completed, you’re done. Book the Flight!!
    You will need to pay a NAIA International Departure Fee: PHP 550 mandatory at NAIA.
    Good Luck and God bless!!!
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    Wally G! got a reaction from Ivie & Eguagie in NO Medical Exam For AOS! MUST READ   
    Correct and you do not need another medical as long as you files with one year of the medical exam overseas. People will caution on the side of better safe than sorry. They still pay the money for a civil surgeon to transfer the DS-3025 information to I-693 form. Then the Civil Surgeon will tell them they need a new blood test, TB shots etc. charging them from $50 - 300 or more.
    Trust me I was siding on safety and went to a civil surgeon. They tried to tell me the exam was not honored here in USA and would need to do a complete medical here for $400. You know my eyes crossed and looked at them like your crazy. I even broke out the VJ chalk board of information and they stood there ground. In the end, I laughed and said have a great day but I'll keep my money.
    All you need to do is attach a copy of the DS-3025 form with I-485 form. That's it.
    Thank you for the clarification for those who are unsure on the medical, civil surgeon, and DS-3025.
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    Wally G! reacted to Leatherneck in K1 frustrations   
    There are cases from July and August 2011 that have yet to be approved -- imagine how they must feel.
    Find something to focus on and relax, feeling despondent will make the time drag on. The only thing the government does "ASAP" is separate people from their money -- through taxes and fees.
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    Wally G! got a reaction from lakemurray in Requirements   
    The Medical and Visa Application part can not be completed until you get your NOA2 Approval letter and MNL case number from NVC. Also no sense in going to CFO seminar if you haven't even received the NOA2 and case number.
    You can start gathering all the documents needed from the Visa Application.
    Download the K1/K2 Interview Preparation Instructions. Make sure to have all the requirements in the instructions. Review and go over it 3 or 4 times to make sure all is filled correct.
    http://manila.usembassy.gov/wwwh3224.html
    Your fiancé will need to prepare for her Medical at
    St. Luke's Medical Center Extension Clinic (SLEC)
    Required Documents:
    http://www.slec.ph/us-visa-applicants.shtml#required-docs
    Pre-register online and have her print out this letter. This is the appointment letter she needs to present at SLEC.
    http://www.slec.ph/us/registration/
    Medical fees are: 15 years and older USD 213.35 / PhP 9,387.50. This is paid at SLEC.
    ST. LUKE'S MEDICAL CENTER EXTENSION CLINIC
    1177 J. Bocobo St. Ermita, Manila 1000 PHILIPPINES
    If your fiancé passes her Medical They will give her a date to come back to SLEC and get her results and medical will CD of chest X-ray
    Now your fiancé will pay and schedule the USEM appointment.
    http://www.ustraveldocs.com/ph/
    Click on the apply button (Green Button " Apply Now ". Fill out the registration information. It is straight forward.
    Click Schedule Appointment
    Select Immigrant Visa
    Click continue
    Select K Visas ( Visa for Fiancée , Visa For Spouse )
    Select K1 - Fiancé or Fiancée of U.S. Citizen
    Click continue
    Fill out all information
    Click continue
    You will receive a confirmation email of you appointment.
    If your are not comfortable with the online appointment system. You can always call and set appointment via phone.
    To schedule a visa appointment for IV or K petitions, please contact the Embassy’s Visa Information and Appointment Service at (632) 982-5555 or (632) 902-8930.
    http://manila.usembassy.gov/wwwh3238.html
    You will now pay for you the fiancé I-129f petition there in Philippines. Fee is U.S. $350 / P15,218. Send a little extra as it is bases on current exchange rate. Cash payment at any Bank of the Philippine Island (BPI) branch. Just go into the branch nearest to her and tell them you are paying for K-1 Visa application fee. They will know what to give her to fill out. If she is unsure on what to fill out ask the staff there to help her fill it out.
    BPI Branch Locator:
    http://info.bpiexpressonline.com/bpiprod/prodserv.nsf/Pop-Ups/BranchesSearch
    Require documents at BPI:
    Passport and MNL number
    When filling out the online applicant or speaking to the USEM agent. You will need the receipt number on the receipt from BPI.
    USEM will give her some dates to choose from. Once she selects a date. Appointment is set!! You can reschedule but they will push you further in the month or next month.
    On the interview date she will have a time most likely 6;00 - 6:30 AM to be at the Manila USEM. She needs to have all her required documents in hand, appointment letter, and passport. Again refer to K1/K2 Interview Preparation Instructions as for what is needed. Make sure she has all papers organized. It makes for a easier processing at the embassy and shows seriousness. Buy a organizer with tabs. Label the tabs for each requirement.
    Once at the embassy, she will fall in line. They will take her appointment letter, check passport and assign her a number. At the embassy they don't allow any electronic devices.
    You are not allowed to enter the U.S. Embassy/Consulate while carrying any of the following items:
    battery-operated or electronic devices such as mobile phones, digital diaries, digital watches, pagers, cameras, audio/video cassettes, compact discs, MP3s, floppy disks, laptops, or portable music players
    large shoulder bags/purses - only bags that can be carried by hand will be permitted
    bags such as travel bags, backpacks, briefcases, suitcases, leather, cloth bags, and zip folders - you can only carry plastic bags containing application-related papers
    food items (refreshments are available for purchase in the waiting area)
    sealed envelopes or packages
    cigarettes, cigars, match boxes, lighters
    sharp objects such as scissors, pen knives or nail files
    weapons or explosive materials of any kind
    If she needs her cell phone they will ask her to check it in at the security section. They will give her a card so she can retrieve at the end of interview.
    They will give her a form to fill out on how to deliver the passport with visa. Either it's deliver to her home address or she can go pick it up at a 2GO location.
    Once inside, she will need to look on the board for her number to be called. She will go to the window and ask for her paperwork. Then she will be finger printed. They will tell her to wait again. Once her number flashes again, she will have her first interview with Filipino consulate. They will ask her a few questions and check and process her documents. (MAKE SURE SHE HAS ALL REQUIRED DOCUMENTS). If all is in order she answered all questions to satisfaction. She will then wait again for her number to flash again on the board. Then she will have her final interviewer US consulate. Consulate will process her paperwork and ask a few questions. If all is in order she will be told to wait again for her number to flash. Then she will go to the 2GO window where they will take her passport. They will give her a receipt (make sure to ask if they do not give one).
    That's it for the USEM interview. You can now breathe a little easier.
    Now if there is a problem. They will give a 221g form and state what the issue is. Now you will need to get them whatever they want in order to proceed. Now this is pull a long process when your in Admin Review. Look on VJ for Admin Review stories.
    It will take 5 - 10 days for 2GO to receive visa and passport from USEM.
    2GO locator:
    http://www.2go.com.ph/CustomerSupport/tools/outlets.asp
    2GO Tracking (enter MNL number):
    http://www.2go.com.ph/CustomerSupport/etrace/index.asp
    Once you have received your passport with visa. Now its time for CFO (Commission on Filipinos Overseas).
    St. Mary Euphrasia Foundation - Center for Overseas Workers.
    CFO (Commission on Filipinos Overseas) Information.
    CFO Seminar is a 1 day seminar and process.
    She will need to register for her seminar.
    http://www.cfo.gov.ph/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=1348%3Afiancee-spouses-and-other-partners-of-foreign-nationals&catid=140&Itemid=813
    CFO is to inform fipinos about the country they are traveling to. The Good, Bad and Ugly. They will ask her some questions and issue her CFO sticker and seminar certificate.
    Requirements for Registration:
    Original and photocopy of Passport;
    Original and photocopy of visa;
    Original and photocopy of Immigrant Data Summary for US bound/ Confirmation of Permanent Residence for Canada bound/ Certification of Eligibility (for Japan-bound);
    Original CFO guidance and counseling certificate;
    Duly completed emigrant registration form; and
    Payment of the authorized registration fee.
    Requirements for Attendance to Guidance and Counseling Program
    http://www.cfo.gov.ph/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=1348%3Afiancee-spouses-and-other-partners-of-foreign-nationals&catid=140&Itemid=813
    Two (2) valid identification cards (IDs) with photograph; (Postal ID, NBI Clearance, Passport w/ Visa)
    Duly completed guidance and counseling form;
    http://www.cfo.gov.ph/pdf/downloadable%20forms/overseasbasedemigrantform.pdf
    If married, certified true copy and photocopy of marriage contract on security paper from the National Statistics Office, or Local Civil Registry Offices; or original and photocopy of marriage contract duly authenticated by the Philippine Embassy/ Consulate (if married abroad)
    Other documents as may be required by the counselors; and
    Payment of P250.00 counseling fee.
    If you fiancee is under 25 yrs. She will need a written consent letter from her parents or a parent will need to be there with her to give consent of there child's marriage.
    > If you are between the ages of 21-24, CFO may require you to submit a letter of parental advice to marry.
    > If you are between the ages of 18-20, CFO may require you to submit a letter of parental consent to marry.
    Here's why you didn't see anything on the CFO website about those requirements:
    The following is from the CFO website:
    Requirements for Attendance to Guidance and Counseling Program
    Two (2) valid identification cards (IDs) with photograph;
    Duly completed guidance and counseling form;
    If married, certified true copy and photocopy of marriage contract on security paper from the National Statistics Office, or Local Civil Registry Offices; or original and photocopy of marriage contract duly authenticated by the Philippine Embassy/ Consulate (if married abroad)
    Other documents as may be required by the counselors <-----------------------------
    Payment of P250.00 counseling fee.
    CFO link.
    The following forms may come in handy:
    Sworn statement that advice of parents or guardian has been asked. (for those who are 21-24 years old)
    Consent to marriage of a person under age. (for those who are 18-20 years old)
    Marriage applicants who are age 18 to 21 must have parental consent in writing, those age 21 to 25 must have written parental advice (a written indication that the parents are aware of the couple's intent to marry). The revised Family Code of the Philippines, which took effect on August 4, 1988, prohibits marriage for individuals below the age of 18.
    U.S. Department of State link.
    The quote above is from the section where they are talking about getting married in the Philippines. However, the CFO has been known to require parental advice or parental consent from K-1ers.
    It's all on the Consular's discretion whether they require consent from a parent or guardian.
    SMEF-Center for Overseas Workers
    Good Shepherd Convent
    1043 Aurora Boulevard
    Quezon City 1108
    Philippines
    http://www.smef-cow-phil.org/
    Once CFO seminar is completed, you’re done. Book the Flight!!
    You will need to pay a NAIA International Departure Fee: PHP 550 mandatory at NAIA.
    Good Luck and God bless!!!
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    Wally G! got a reaction from Matt & Bing in Being present during Interview & time to get visa   
    Every US Embassy in each Country has different rules. Some don't and some do allow Petitioners at the Interview.. In this case "Philippines USEM ". Petitioners are allowed inside and at the window during the interview for each CO's. The CO's may ask the petitioner a questions or two or not.
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    Wally G! got a reaction from Matt & Bing in Being present during Interview & time to get visa   
    Philippines Embassy does allow the petitioner to attend the interview. The petitioner is allow at each CO's interview window. The CO may or may not ask the petitioner any questions.
    Philippines Embassy only allows the petitioner in the Embassy at 7:30 AM. The beneficiary is allowed in first.
    Every country's US Embassy has different rules. Always review your country's Embassy page or VJ Embassy Information.
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    Wally G! reacted to pushbrk in Didnt met my fiancee in the last two years   
    The senior members here are aware of this apparent loophole in the regulations but we are also aware that such waivers are almost never granted. There is no strict and long-established custom in Pakistan where the bride and groom are actually prohibited from meeting prior to the wedding day. Such customs are extremely rare and obscure. In cases where they DO exist the couple has to do a lot more than present a few "convincing reasons" for not meeting. They must ACTUALLY establish that any and all other aspects of the traditional arrangements have been or will be met in accordance with the custom or practice they claim applies to them.
    Travel to Pakistan is not an issue. To take the hardship route, the couple must demonstrate that they've made every effort to meet in any country to which they both could reasonably arrange travel. (The UAE is good example.)
    None of the above applies to this couple. My advice is that the go ahead and presume their petition will be denied and either make the necessary arrangements to meet in person before filing again, or face the fact that without meeting, they will not be together in the USA.
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    Wally G! reacted to Ban Hammer in HELP! COMPLETE change of personality.... :(   
    and on that note, this thread is now closed. do not restart this thread.
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    Wally G! reacted to Hank_ in nbi clearance   
    I totally agree with the socks and a warm jacket or sweater, they do keep the airplane rather cool.
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    Wally G! got a reaction from Andie in HELP! COMPLETE change of personality.... :(   
    Everybody puts there best face on in the beginning. As time goes the true person is revealed. Now when you marry someone you have to say do I love the true person now that I know who and what he or she is. Can I deal with all the good bad and ugly of the person. The decision is yours at the end of the day.
    There is no such thing as a perfect person. A perfect relationship. A perfect marriage. Its about how you understand the person and can you love them for for what they are worth.
    The money you spend was all because you wanted and loved this girl. Don't complain now about the money part because all of us know in advance how much money we will spend on the petition, medical and visa applications alone. Not to mention the money you send to take care of him or her.
    Me personally. I have learned, the more you chase, the more she will run. You need to stop. Take a break and go to Bohol, Lapu Lapu and see the sights. Go to Cebu city and take in a night of fun at a club or bar. Relax your mind for a seconds and think it over. Is it worth the efforts and time running a never ending race?
    You seem like your a good hard working and dedicated person. You deserve better than this. Like the other people said. There are millions of others out there that would cut off their foot to treat you well and love you genuinely. There are women that don't care for the games, jealous rages and money. You are there in Philippines look once look twice and walaaaa!! You have a new potential friend.
    At the end of the day everybody in world can tell you all the advise on what to do. You will be the one to make ultimate choose. Stay or Leave...
    Good Luck and God Bless!!
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    Wally G! reacted to Leatherneck in HELP! COMPLETE change of personality.... :(   
    Why on earth are you trying to PUSH water UPHILL?
    You can't make her accept her faults or change her ways, she'll do that when she grows up and matures, if ever. It is what it is.
    You keep mentioning the amount of money you've spent on her, well, let me tell ya...have you seen the cost of a divorce?
    Have any idea what a DV (domestic violence) charge would cost to get your ####### out of that pickle? Not to mention your chances of petitioning another Pinay with that jewel on your record would be next to impossible.
    You want to try to put a price on a broken family?
    Ever heard of child support, and the clown-show of having to deal with judges, lawyers and DA's?
    Stop trying to make this relationship be what it is not - Wonderful.
    Stop trying to make her be something she is not - kind, caring and committed.
    I'm not saying any of this would happen to you, but you increase the odds when you marry someone that exhibits such behavior.
    Step back and out of the forest so you can see the trees, there are numerous RED FLAGS here.
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    Wally G! reacted to Darnell in HELP! COMPLETE change of personality.... :(   
    OP? Yer still in the PI, right?
    wei - walk two blocks, sit at a cafe, have a longish meal where the ladies can see you. within a few hours - some one will stroll by, her eye for you..
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    Wally G! reacted to normz-shane in HELP! COMPLETE change of personality.... :(   
    My advise is cancel the petition and find someone. You can easily find a new one / better one who will take care of you and treat you nice.
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    Wally G! reacted to Gary and Alla in HELP! COMPLETE change of personality.... :(   
    Move on. There are 3 billion more to choose from. I suggest...http://www.city-of-brides.com/profiles/ukrainian-wives/hot-ukrainian-wives.shtml There are about 10,000 or so there to get you started.
    No need to tolerate any nonsense. Seriously, don't be making up stories about getting kidnapped. Have a little diginity, move on.
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    Wally G! reacted to Leatherneck in HELP! COMPLETE change of personality.... :(   
    Do you think her behavior will improve or do a 180 after you marry her?
    "...she's too damn SELFISH and SELF-CENTERED."
    You said it yourself, so Is that what you want in a wife?
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    Wally G! reacted to Tim/Mav in HELP! COMPLETE change of personality.... :(   
    Agreed. And Cancel the Petition if your hopes are to find a true Pinay.
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    Wally G! reacted to mjkj in HELP! COMPLETE change of personality.... :(   
    If she acted like that now, that it's like she doesn't care, whats the use of continuing the process, its a waste of time, give your time for someone whose worth for your love and attention.
    Sorry to hear about your experience.
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    At this point you should start preparing your fiancé’s Packet 3.
    http://manila.usembassy.gov/wwwh3224.html
    Download the K1/K2 Interview Preparation Instructions. Make sure to have all the requirements in the instructions. Review and go over it 3 or 4 times to make sure all is filled correct.
    Your fiancé will need to prepare for her Medical at St. Luke's Medical Center Extension Clinic (SLEC)
    Required Documents:
    http://www.slec.ph/us-visa-applicants.shtml#required-docs
    Pre-register online and have her print out this letter. This is the appointment letter she needs to present at SLEC.
    http://www.slec.ph/us/registration/
    Medical fees are: 15 years and older USD 213.35 / PhP 9,387.50. This is paid at SLEC.
    ST. LUKE'S MEDICAL CENTER EXTENSION CLINIC
    1177 J. Bocobo St. Ermita, Manila 1000 PHILIPPINES
    If your fiancé passes her Medical They will give her a date to come back to SLEC and get her results and medical will CD of chest X-ray
    Now your fiancé will pay and schedule the USEM appointment.
    http://www.ustraveldocs.com/ph/
    Click on the apply button (Green Button " Apply Now ". Fill out the registration information. It is straight forward.
    Click Schedule Appointment
    Select Immigrant Visa
    Click continue
    Select K Visas ( Visa for Fiancée , Visa For Spouse )
    Select K1 - Fiancé or Fiancée of U.S. Citizen
    Click continue
    Fill out all information
    Click continue
    You will receive a confirmation email of you appointment.
    If your are not comfortable with the online appointment system. You can always call and set appointment via phone.
    To schedule a visa appointment for IV or K petitions, please contact the Embassy’s Visa Information and Appointment Service at (632) 982-5555 or (632) 902-8930.
    http://manila.usembassy.gov/wwwh3238.html
    You will now pay for you the fiancé I-129f petition there in Philippines. Fee is U.S. $350 / P15,218. Send a little extra as it is bases on current exchange rate. Cash payment at any Bank of the Philippine Island (BPI) branch. Just go into the branch nearest to her and tell them you are paying for K-1 Visa application fee. They will know what to give her to fill out. If she is unsure on what to fill out ask the staff there to help her fill it out.
    BPI Branch Locator:
    http://info.bpiexpressonline.com/bpiprod/prodserv.nsf/Pop-Ups/BranchesSearch
    Require documents at BPI:
    Passport and MNL number
    When filling out the online applicant or speaking to the USEM agent. You will need the receipt number on the receipt from BPI.
    USEM will give her some dates to choose from. Once she selects a date. Appointment is set!! You can reschedule but they will push you further in the month or next month.
    On the interview date she will have a time most likely 6;00 - 6:30 AM to be at the Manila USEM. She needs to have all her required documents in hand, appointment letter, and passport. Again refer to K1/K2 Interview Preparation Instructions as for what is needed. Make sure she has all papers organized. It makes for a easier processing at the embassy and shows seriousness. Buy a organizer with tabs. Label the tabs for each requirement.
    Once at the embassy, she will fall in line. They will take her appointment letter, check passport and assign her a number. At the embassy they don't allow any electronic devices.
    You are not allowed to enter the U.S. Embassy/Consulate while carrying any of the following items:
    battery-operated or electronic devices such as mobile phones, digital diaries, digital watches, pagers, cameras, audio/video cassettes, compact discs, MP3s, floppy disks, laptops, or portable music players
    large shoulder bags/purses - only bags that can be carried by hand will be permitted
    bags such as travel bags, backpacks, briefcases, suitcases, leather, cloth bags, and zip folders - you can only carry plastic bags containing application-related papers
    food items (refreshments are available for purchase in the waiting area)
    sealed envelopes or packages
    cigarettes, cigars, match boxes, lighters
    sharp objects such as scissors, pen knives or nail files
    weapons or explosive materials of any kind
    If she needs her cell phone they will ask her to check it in at the security section. They will give her a card so she can retrieve at the end of interview.
    They will give her a form to fill out on how to deliver the passport with visa. Either it's deliver to her home address or she can go pick it up at a 2GO location.
    Once inside, she will need to look on the board for her number to be called. She will go to the window and ask for her paperwork. Then she will be finger printed. They will tell her to wait again. Once her number flashes again, she will have her first interview with Filipino consulate. They will ask her a few questions and check and process her documents. (MAKE SURE SHE HAS ALL REQUIRED DOCUMENTS). If all is in order she answered all questions to satisfaction. She will then wait again for her number to flash again on the board. Then she will have her final interviewer US consulate. Consulate will process her paperwork and ask a few questions. If all is in order she will be told to wait again for her number to flash. Then she will go to the 2GO window where they will take her passport. They will give her a receipt (make sure to ask if they do not give one).
    That's it for the USEM interview. You can now breathe a little easier.
    Now if there is a problem. They will give a 221g form and state what the issue is. Now you will need to get them whatever they want in order to proceed. Now this is pull a long process when your in Admin Review. Look on VJ for Admin Review stories.
    It will take 5 - 10 days for 2GO to receive visa and passport from USEM.
    2GO locator:
    http://www.2go.com.ph/CustomerSupport/tools/outlets.asp
    2GO Tracking (enter MNL number):
    http://www.2go.com.ph/CustomerSupport/etrace/index.asp
    Once you have received your passport with visa. Now its time for CFO (Commission on Filipinos Overseas).
    St. Mary Euphrasia Foundation - Center for Overseas Workers.
    CFO (Commission on Filipinos Overseas) Information.
    CFO Seminar is a 1 day seminar and process.
    She will need to register for her seminar.
    http://www.cfo.gov.ph/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=1348%3Afiancee-spouses-and-other-partners-of-foreign-nationals&catid=140&Itemid=813
    CFO is to inform fipinos about the country they are traveling to. The Good, Bad and Ugly. They will ask her some questions and issue her CFO sticker and seminar certificate.
    Requirements for Registration:
    Original and photocopy of Passport;
    Original and photocopy of visa;
    Original and photocopy of Immigrant Data Summary for US bound/ Confirmation of Permanent Residence for Canada bound/ Certification of Eligibility (for Japan-bound);
    Original CFO guidance and counseling certificate;
    Duly completed emigrant registration form; and
    Payment of the authorized registration fee.
    Requirements for Attendance to Guidance and Counseling Program
    http://www.cfo.gov.ph/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=1348%3Afiancee-spouses-and-other-partners-of-foreign-nationals&catid=140&Itemid=813
    Two (2) valid identification cards (IDs) with photograph; (Postal ID, NBI Clearance, Passport w/ Visa)
    Duly completed guidance and counseling form;
    http://www.cfo.gov.ph/pdf/downloadable%20forms/overseasbasedemigrantform.pdf
    If married, certified true copy and photocopy of marriage contract on security paper from the National Statistics Office, or Local Civil Registry Offices; or original and photocopy of marriage contract duly authenticated by the Philippine Embassy/ Consulate (if married abroad)
    Other documents as may be required by the counselors; and
    Payment of P250.00 counseling fee.
    If you fiancee is under 25 yrs. She will need a written consent letter from her parents or a parent will need to be there with her to give consent of there child's marriage.
    > If you are between the ages of 21-24, CFO may require you to submit a letter of parental advice to marry.
    > If you are between the ages of 18-20, CFO may require you to submit a letter of parental consent to marry.
    Here's why you didn't see anything on the CFO website about those requirements:
    The following is from the CFO website:
    Requirements for Attendance to Guidance and Counseling Program
    Two (2) valid identification cards (IDs) with photograph;
    Duly completed guidance and counseling form;
    If married, certified true copy and photocopy of marriage contract on security paper from the National Statistics Office, or Local Civil Registry Offices; or original and photocopy of marriage contract duly authenticated by the Philippine Embassy/ Consulate (if married abroad)
    Other documents as may be required by the counselors <-----------------------------
    Payment of P250.00 counseling fee.
    CFO link.
    The following forms may come in handy:
    Sworn statement that advice of parents or guardian has been asked. (for those who are 21-24 years old)
    Consent to marriage of a person under age. (for those who are 18-20 years old)
    Marriage applicants who are age 18 to 21 must have parental consent in writing, those age 21 to 25 must have written parental advice (a written indication that the parents are aware of the couple's intent to marry). The revised Family Code of the Philippines, which took effect on August 4, 1988, prohibits marriage for individuals below the age of 18.
    U.S. Department of State link.
    The quote above is from the section where they are talking about getting married in the Philippines. However, the CFO has been known to require parental advice or parental consent from K-1ers.
    It's all on the Consular's discretion whether they require consent from a parent or guardian.
    SMEF-Center for Overseas Workers
    Good Shepherd Convent
    1043 Aurora Boulevard
    Quezon City 1108
    Philippines
    http://www.smef-cow-phil.org/
    Once CFO seminar is completed, you’re done. Book the Flight!!
    You will need to pay a NAIA International Departure Fee: PHP 550 mandatory at NAIA.
    Good Luck and God bless!!!
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    Wally G! got a reaction from Ivie & Eguagie in Wedding within 90 days?   
    How to Get Married in City Hall:
    Purchase wedding bands. Obtain the marriage license. Decide on a date. Call your local city hall and ask them to schedule your marriage ceremony. They can usually fit you in within a few days. Call up some family or friends to be witnesses to the marriage. Bring the marriage license, ID's (Driver's license, Passport or birth certificate) if needed. Dress attire is not required but you should want to looking spiffy for that day :star: . Bring someone to take the picture for you during the Ceromony. After the I do's. That's it!! :dance:
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    Wally G! got a reaction from Ivie & Eguagie in Wedding within 90 days?   
    Yes you can just do a simple civil wedding at your state's City Hall. Take pictures of the ring, inform the judge that will perform the ceremony that you need evidence for your AOS. Pictures of you, fiance, judge and two witnesses, rings on finger's.
    Your certified copy of the marriage certificate is proof of your actual marriage. Receipts for the rings purchased. You can do a small get together with family and friends. Take pictures with you parents, siblings and friends at home.
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    Wally G! got a reaction from LeftCoastLady in What do you think of this?   
    Wow Wow You don't need a lawyer for the visa process . Unless there is some kind of extreme issue in either of your lives. All you need to do is follow the K-1 visa guide here for FREE !!
    Step-by-Step Guide on How to File for a K-1 Visa for your Foreign Fiance(e)
    http://www.visajourney.com/content/k1guide
    If you have any questions. VJ is full of experienced and knowledgable members that will help you along the way for FREE!! We are all on this Journey and understand what the process is. We are willing and ready to help anyone with questions.
    If you don't have a complicated history for either of you and have not paid that lawyer. Dump the lawyer fast and come to VJ . We will help get you going and through the K-1 visa process for FREE !!!
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    Wally G! got a reaction from Chynna/gapamix in What do you think of this?   
    Wow Wow You don't need a lawyer for the visa process . Unless there is some kind of extreme issue in either of your lives. All you need to do is follow the K-1 visa guide here for FREE !!
    Step-by-Step Guide on How to File for a K-1 Visa for your Foreign Fiance(e)
    http://www.visajourney.com/content/k1guide
    If you have any questions. VJ is full of experienced and knowledgable members that will help you along the way for FREE!! We are all on this Journey and understand what the process is. We are willing and ready to help anyone with questions.
    If you don't have a complicated history for either of you and have not paid that lawyer. Dump the lawyer fast and come to VJ . We will help get you going and through the K-1 visa process for FREE !!!
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