MatthewNCarolina

Ditto to both! However I have more... here goes (clears throat):

I miss my baby and I'm sick of waiting. I fell in love with him close to three years ago and it has been both the best and most difficult time of my life. He showed me how to truly love and how to love myself as well. He showed me that I deserve the love of the most generous and gentle, kind and loving man on this planet. Every moment spent with him, every night beside him, glimpses of his perfect sleeping angel face during the night has been pure heaven and the moemory of those precious moments is what keeps me going. He is my soulmate, and to all of the people in our lives that say "oh well you shouldn't have picked someone who lives so far away", well they can just f**k themselves because we didn't choose we were chosen. Chosen to experience the love, trust, partnership, and pure miracle of finding your soulmate, the one person who utterly completes you. Many people go their whole lives without finding this so once you are lucky enough to find it don't ever let go. We say goodmoning over the phone every morning, text all day long, chat on webcam every night, but it's bittersweet. I can see his face but I can't see the most amazing glints of green in his beautiful eyes. I can't smell the scent of his skin. I can't feel the warmth of his breath. I can't kiss his lips. I can't feel the comfort of his embrace. I carry all of these things in my heart, and each night I take them out and visit with the memories of them as my tears hit my pillow while I wait for him. I love this man so completely, I only pray the government sees this. I pray we don't have to wait too much longer to begin forever...

Awwww I totally can relate to that!!! Very beautiful words and I don't think I could describe it better... *claps hands*

Whine of the day now:

COME OOOONNNNNNNNNNN NVC!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT'S THAT?? SUMMER BREAK???? THAT'S A NO NO!! HERE IT'S WINTER, SO GET YOUR LITTLE POPO'S BACK TO WORK!!

... phew.

Thanks Matt&Carolina!! and thanks to everyone else! I was surprised the website was actually updated right away,my girl called me telling me that she received a text where it was stated that our case was updated,so I logged in immediately to see if It wasn't an RFE. . .what a relief to see that "approved".

Btw M&N,how is it going with NVC? any news?

You're welcome... no nothing yet from NVC, they might be on summer break! :angry: but we're hoping that this week we'll get the case number so I can totally annoy the consulate to try to get an early date!!!

I'm a March Filer. I think. I sent my petition in late March but got my NOA1 on April 4. Does that make me an April filer or am I a part of your club?

Oh, everyone is welcome here! Consider yourself both then!!!

@ Mimi & Sean ... AND

Congratulations!

HA! Guess somebody else deserves more...

Geor & Dante... AND Max!!!!!! CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :dance: :dance:

@RUGBY, welcome!!!!

Totally perfect quote!! I feel just this way, it's unbearable!! All I want to do is marry him and be together again, unfortunately I'm an idiot who picked a foreign boy and thought it would be a reasonable process (as if I had a choice, he's my soulmate, don't get me wrong!), so now I have to ask the government's permission. The least they can do is be efficient, treat us all with some respect. I sometimes think, how long would it take people to rebel if EVERY young engaged couple had to do what we do, had to wade through government forms and bureaucratic nonsense. PROVE to me that you are financially soluable. Haha yeah right, have you ever been 22?? I'm just trying to land a job. Luckily my parents are 100% on my side, or I wouldn't be able to marry him (yes I am back in the 1800s, please daddy can I marry him). Hopefully by the time we start the AOS process, I'll be financially independant. Phew okay rant over Just, dammmmnnnnnnn. Thanks VJers, we'd be lost without you!!!

NOA1: 4-08-11

NOA2: 6-24-11

Those two parts totally made sense to me...You can't choose who's gonna be your soulmate, it's just natural... And I said that to my fiancé the other day... What hurts/frustrates me is the fact that I gotta wait for somebody else -who I don't know, who never met us, who never seen us together, who doesn't give a ###### to us, etc etc- to believe that what we have is real... this is just CRAAZAAAYY!!!

And the yes lol tell me if you was ever stable in your early 20's!!! Not even those officers at USCIS, NVC, Consulate, whatever!!! Ahhhh I'm whining because I just miss him so bad, and every day gets harder and harder to stay away

Don't whine, be patient. NOA2 is just a step in the process that may take longer than Sept. Filed in January & got the NOA2 in June. Fiancee just received the packet, last week, which involves more info gathering & appointment setting on their end. Originally, we set a 7/30 date - ain't gonna happen. Next I was hoping process would be done by her b'day, August 12 - ain't gonna happen either! So maybe by late Aug or Sept, hopefully. - So don't whine, just whistle & wait!

This is a NO NO ... the name of the thread isn't ''Whistle and Wait''.. its to WHINE!!! ... so only welcome who wants to whine!!! Whistle & Wait thread needs to be posted yet...

could I whine too cuz its hard for me everytime I get off with my wife on yahoo she starts crying :crying: :crying:

surely you can my friend! We all can whine here...

I'll do my last whine of the day, here it is:

I cannot stand being away from my man, I'm not waiting too long to see him I know but I'm almost dependent of his love that it makes too hard to be apart. I wish NVC could be smooth on us, and to many others here waiting, because I miss him like mad this month. We just sign off of skype has a couple minutes and every time we do that, it breaks my heart not being able to see his face until the next day... I want to be there, to wait for him to come home, to make him dinner, to ask about his day, take care of his injuries if he has any, to hug and cuddle, to be goofy watching a movie, to go sleep right beside him and whisper that I love him before falling asleep. I wanna be his wife, that's all. I know others could be hurting more than me, and I feel for them too... but I'm the only one who knows what I'm missing.

I want to wish you all a great new week, that is beginning. I want to wish you all more peace, more love and more patience (that applies to me) and luck, especially to my march filers! They're great!!! Love you guys!!! Good night from Brazil!

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!! WAAA WAAAAAA WAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!! Thank you very much. I needed that.

No no Garmar... you gotta explain whyyy are you whining, what makes you whine?? tell us.. come on, you gotta do it!

dang... forget to look at the toy store.... thanks for reminding me.....

but she doesn't have the barbie figure.....

Philippine's Barbie Doll maybe?

Hey talking about drinks who was in charge of getting the beer and vodka and all?

I can bring some beer!!! AAAAHHH NO BEER YET??? THAT'S ONE MORE REASON TO WHIIIINE!! :cry:

No whining unless you are 15 months pregnant walking up-hill in the snow just to post on Visa Journey!!! otherwise whining!!

hahahahahahahahahaha We gotta change this rule here, Dizzy lol

You too Carolina, you can do better then that, go ahead take a deep breath and tell us how many weeks, days, hours minutes and seconds you have been waiting on NVC and all the times that they've said wait 15 days and how rude they have been and all that good stuff.

Come on, I mean must we teach you proper whining technigue!

LOL okay.. I have been waiting 8 business days for NVC.. if i count the hours, holy ####### I'll go crazy They messed with us saying that our petition was coming to Brazil already, and the next 7 times they said don't even know about our petition

Last operator on NVC, said to call this week, so yea.. I WANT MY CASE #!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks Looky, for teaching me.

Join the club.. as long as you WANT TO WHINE! YOU'RE WELCOME HERE, if not..

LMAO, this is getting great to read... Is there any room for me to whine about NVC?????

I want my case numbeeeer!!!! PHEWWW glad to have a place to whine here!

I braided my hair on the first day that we started seeing March Filers getting approved, from VSC anyway... so this does work

Anyone need tissues?

Congrats... Go MARCH FILERS.

I have no idea why it seems VSC is slowing a bit this week, is so discouraging for all of us who are waiting! Maybe is just people isn't updating timelines? I rather prefer thinking this instead of VSC slowing down again! My VJ timeframe from approval is coming soon... let's hope and pray for everybody over here!

I like this post... Chill people..

That's just it, the OP wasn't complaining about 3 months waiting, it was the October filer that jumped in and changed the topic of the thread from VSC slowing down it's approvals to a: "you've only been waiting 3 months so shut up cause I've been waiting longer" thread.

If people read the OP again, they will see that the post includes ANYONE waiting on VSC and being frustrated by no action on Igor's list.

That's what I read too. ?

I will never understand why those of us who already have our NOA2 get so upset that others are bothered by the wait. Why is their frustration so offensive? I hated the wait also. I think we all did. This

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I remember the wait. It sucked. In the beginning it wasn't so bad because I was still so excited about starting the process, but at around 3 months I started to hate the wait. I know the USCIS says the wait time is 5 months but what can I say; I'm human and I miss my fiance. and this

easy people, if you dont like this kind of thread, just don't read it..

Okay, it's about perspective and we all understand it... who got approved or not, we still keep hope and faith. But the point I'm trying to show is, it's not March Filers' fault that others are waiting 10 months.

The OP said sorry for the vent but if you don't wanna see this kind of thread, since it bothers you because you're hurting, because you're waiting more than others, it's just easy to do not click the link and don't read it if you'll get upset/bothered/annoyed. We have been reading and supporting others waiting over the 5 months mark, this process isn't fair, just don't think you deserve it more than others because USCIS and the service centers aren't working on your case, the members here aren't the ones who pursue the guilt. No need to be rude to others, this website isn't a place to put your anger towards this process onto others, so let's just keep the discussion fair and clean.

Good luck to everyone.

As if nobody ever made a little complaint... everybody is hurting here, nobody is more special than others and isn't March Filers fault that some are waiting 10 months. If you are tired of seeing people complaining just don't read the thread, simple. Good luck to everyone waiting over the 5 months mark or not.

I bet on bloody mary lol