FormerlyKnownAs

Did I not mention that we don't yet live together and that I KNOW things will change when our living arrangements change? I'm not 12 and this isn't my first relationship. Yes, he happens to do everything right now. I don't ask him to nor do I expect it. Not that I should have to explain myself... Thanks for judging, though, and calling my fiance a doormat. It's appreciated.
Maybe some people, not mentioning names, should read all of my posts and consider for a moment that they don't really know me AT ALL before resorting to sniping and back biting. I mean, really... I've not said a thing on this forum to give the impression that I'm going through any sort of "lollipops and rainbows syndrome". And before you repeat that you didn't mention a name, it was *my* post that was quoted, so that would be me that you're talking about. I just asked for a variety of opinions on a specific matter and this turned into senseless mudslinging. I don't get it.
Anyway... No point in wasting my time trying to explain to some of you what is and isn't appropriate behavior toward another human being. The rudeness can continue in my absence, but I'm not going to get in the mud with you. Let me just say before dropping out of my own thread that this group of people seems to be like the cliques in high school and Heaven forbid some new person come to school and try to befriend anyone. I assumed we were all adults with at least one common interest and I guess I assumed also that most of the adults here would treat me as I've treated them, but no such luck. To those of you who have been decent people, thank you. To the rest of you, enjoy your drama.

I'm sorry, but you made it *everyone's* business here when you posted on a public forum. No need to be rude to people who are only responding to your questions and offering their advice. Just start your own account, get your divorce finalized and come back for help with your K1 once you've done that if you still would like some guidance.

I think it's very important to consider, as mentioned before, that the CO will see some men coming back through with their shiny new young woman from Morocco once they've finished sucking the USC dry. They are surely more aware of the relationship failure rate than we are. Each one of us as an American citizen really need to attempt to understand that they are trying very hard to do a difficult (and quite thankless) job. I'm sorry for those of you who've been denied, I know how much it hurts to be separated from your loved one, but do try to see things from the view of the CO. Try to imagine your case in the context of all the cases they've seen over the course of a career... It's certainly not an easy job and we *are* the ones they're trying so hard to protect from fraud.

I think it's very important to consider, as mentioned before, that the CO will see some men coming back through with their shiny new young woman from Morocco once they've finished sucking the USC dry. They are surely more aware of the relationship failure rate than we are. Each one of us as an American citizen really need to attempt to understand that they are trying very hard to do a difficult (and quite thankless) job. I'm sorry for those of you who've been denied, I know how much it hurts to be separated from your loved one, but do try to see things from the view of the CO. Try to imagine your case in the context of all the cases they've seen over the course of a career... It's certainly not an easy job and we *are* the ones they're trying so hard to protect from fraud.

I think it's very important to consider, as mentioned before, that the CO will see some men coming back through with their shiny new young woman from Morocco once they've finished sucking the USC dry. They are surely more aware of the relationship failure rate than we are. Each one of us as an American citizen really need to attempt to understand that they are trying very hard to do a difficult (and quite thankless) job. I'm sorry for those of you who've been denied, I know how much it hurts to be separated from your loved one, but do try to see things from the view of the CO. Try to imagine your case in the context of all the cases they've seen over the course of a career... It's certainly not an easy job and we *are* the ones they're trying so hard to protect from fraud.

I think it's very important to consider, as mentioned before, that the CO will see some men coming back through with their shiny new young woman from Morocco once they've finished sucking the USC dry. They are surely more aware of the relationship failure rate than we are. Each one of us as an American citizen really need to attempt to understand that they are trying very hard to do a difficult (and quite thankless) job. I'm sorry for those of you who've been denied, I know how much it hurts to be separated from your loved one, but do try to see things from the view of the CO. Try to imagine your case in the context of all the cases they've seen over the course of a career... It's certainly not an easy job and we *are* the ones they're trying so hard to protect from fraud.

Mr. Thai,
yes, you are correct, you have a problem, and it's a big one.
See, the B1/B2 is a non-immigrant visa. Not only have you been inspected, but you have been pulled into what is known as "secondary" inspection. The fact that you have such documents with you on a vacation indicates immigration intend. You were specifically asks about this and you . . . uhhh . . . lied when telling CBP that you felt insecure leaving those documents at home.
I am absolutely sure that CBP entered your statement, and that's what that is, into the computer under your file. The way I understand your post, you now got married and are planing to adjust status. If you do that, you will be denied based on material misrepresentation. It carries a lifetime ban from the United States.
If I were you, I would return to Vietnam and take the CR-1 route. Seriously.