Hello,
I've been in the U.S. coming up two weeks now, got my SSN yesterday, and I'm slowly getting things in order to start chiseling out a presence and life here with my partner: new phone number and phone, joint bank accounts, currency transfer, car insurance, driving license, car, job...
In the mix of all this, my OH's family are voicing their concerns in regards to my UK grades. They don't believe they'll be accepted when I begin my job hunt after all the so-to-speak foundation work is done, and believe I'll need to study and sit a GED. Of course this doesn't apply to all jobs, but they tell me anything that isn't entry level or menial will need some kind of grade translation.
My grades are from secondary education (high school) and college (BTEC diplomas) in the UK. To complicate things further, my institutes of education no longer exist. I can't give potential employers numbers to trace and fact-check because they've long been bulldozed. So do I look into WES.org and pay to get my credential equivalents, or should I hold my ground and see what jobs require what first? What have others done and what has your experiences been in settling here?
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This is supplemental, but I want to be a little honest here and forgive me if I'm showing too much of my heart on my sleeve. Apologies in advance if this comes across as 'snowflake'y.
Frankly, I've had a hard time of it growing up where I have in the UK regarding my career: from pigeon-holing, lack of progression, limited career choices along with crippled job opportunities... It's had a severe impact on my Mental Health over the years, and I'm very worried about finding something that's worthwhile and fulfilling. I worked very hard when I was younger to get the grades I needed for the profession I had some talent in (art and design - I have a distinction in Animation), but those jobs simply didn't exist back then. I ended up in menial and poor work environments (contact centres, Amazon warehousing) to put bread on the table, and now my grades are too old based on dated technology to be worth a dime.
Please don't misread this - I'm willing to do whatever it takes to support myself and the family I'm hoping to start here soon. But my age is working against me in terms of going back to study towards a more reputable career, along with the monetary costs of such and my current residency status (some places require 1 year+ residency). I'm worried. And I apologise again if this simply isn't the place for venting like this, but it would very much help me just knowing I'm not the only one faced with this dilemma. Past or current.
Thank you for reading all this, regardless.