I guess I am a foo;

[110889 0]

Well,

My Fiance and I have known each other 6 months, and I just found out some bad news....I'm crushed. After some prying and begging, my fiance told me that she did some prostitution while she was a college student in Thailand. I forgive her, but the reality seems to be from what I read that I am an idiot. I am because I still love her. I met her and have spent much time at her village on two trips and love her family as they love me.

She hopes I get better and can forget, but from what I read, these girls never turn out to be good spouses. I am crushed beyond words and will end this relationship because a relationship without trust is not a relationship at all. She has always treated me well, shared me with her family and never asked a thing from me. She says she stopped the bad things shortly before she graduated from college.

So, I guess unless someone has some true words of revelation, my Visa journey is soon to end. It has been a pleasure following all of your dreams with you and I wish you all the best.

Edited September 13, 2007 by bb_30_63

[Ban Hammer 15,173]

lemme get frances and the

[almaty 19]

this is going to be a good thread

[mRx 16]

That sucks man. Contrary to common stereotypes, there are plenty of Thai women out there that have never sold themselves. Best of luck to you.

[Ban Hammer 15,173]

this is going to be a good thread

i think we need more details before any advice can be given

[110889 0]

this is going to be a good thread

maybe....but please dont be too hard on me. I'm feeling pretty low.

[almaty 19]

yes, more information is needed and true, Thai women are know for being fine women with good hearts...

[110889 0]

this is going to be a good thread

maybe....but please dont be too hard on me. I'm feeling pretty low.

ok...what do you want to know?

[Ban Hammer 15,173]

this is going to be a good thread

maybe....but please dont be too hard on me. I'm feeling pretty low.

i don't know why you'd feel low.

[almaty 19]

this is going to be a good thread

maybe....but please dont be too hard on me. I'm feeling pretty low.

was she poor? or in a crisis when she did this behavior?

[110889 0]

this is going to be a good thread

maybe....but please dont be too hard on me. I'm feeling pretty low.

was she poor? or in a crisis when she did this behavior?

first....I still love her.

She said she did this because she was a crazy kid and for the money. She appears crushed that I know about it.

[Ban Hammer 15,173]

this is going to be a good thread

maybe....but please dont be too hard on me. I'm feeling pretty low.

was she poor? or in a crisis when she did this behavior?

along with was she doing this to pay for college? or for drugs? there's a world of difference between a crack ho and a high end call girl. there is also a multitude of different things she could have been hired for too.

[Nagishkaw 510]

You said you forgive her. You said you still love her. You said she treats you well and has never asked you for anything. So what's the problem?

It is called a PAST. It's history. Are you going to beat her over the head the rest of her life for something that happened to her BEFORE you two met? Is YOUR past perfect?

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Did you meet her through a foreign dating site?

[Jenn! 918]

You said you forgive her. You said you still love her. You said she treats you well and has never asked you for anything. So what's the problem?

It is called a PAST. It's history. Are you going to beat her over the head the rest of her life for something that happened to her BEFORE you two met? Is YOUR past perfect?