Never met my fiance but sent in the K-1 application

[Adrians Mom 0]

I don't think he's a troll. I think he hasn't filed the papers yet, and wants to see if anyone got away with it.

But from the responses in this thread.....I think he gets the point.

[kitkat1 5]

I don't think he's a troll. I think he hasn't filed the papers yet, and wants to see if anyone got away with it.

But from the responses in this thread.....I think he gets the point.

He said he already filed.

I get that tons of people here are not capable of reading or understanding the instructions. But come on, it's not exactly a confusing or difficult form.

[~Nini~ 2]

I get that tons of people here are not capable of reading or understanding the instructions. But come on, it's not exactly a confusing or difficult form.

Yes, but we still get the same old "can we get married while we're waiting for our K1 to be approved" questions every week.

Edited August 15, 2007 by Nini & Bee

[truffles 2]

The only way i can see is on religious grounds - but again i would agree with other posters - slimmer than slim -

[StillThePrettiest 4]

I think many people still see the K1 as a potential 'get to know each other' visa... I know when I first scanned down the list of options it went through my mind (didn't take much reading to get it right out again, but not everyone does that level of research... or, indeed, any... )

[Jason-Sasha 1]

Um, this is a joke, right?

I immediately thought this was a joke. but it was a little funny to see how everyone pounced on this thread with force. And with the quickness too! If this poor guy was serious, there's no way he's coming back now! but I agree I think it was a phony question to give us something to do. Some of the replies were pretty funny, harsh .....but funny.

[Sheri&Carl 0]

I'm sorry but you people can be really rude. Maybe this person isn't a troll, maybe he/she just didn't read completely. Maybe they have a learning disability, who knows but who are you to judge. We are all going through this and it isn't easy at all. No question is a dumb question and if you don't want to read/answer it then just don't. There is no reason to make someone feel bad for asking a question. God knows I've asked at least one dumb one since being here. Sometimes your fingers rush ahead of your brain. So constructive answers or keep it to yourselves. I know it might be hard.. perfect people who never ask dumb questions or make mistakes...

[bora bora 1]

You have to admit that some people ask dumb a$$ questions. As stated by Nini & Bee, some people don't get the "fiance" part of fiance visa.

Edited August 15, 2007 by Bora Bora

[no name 1]

I'm sorry but you people can be really rude. Maybe this person isn't a troll, maybe he/she just didn't read completely. Maybe they have a learning disability, who knows but who are you to judge. We are all going through this and it isn't easy at all. No question is a dumb question and if you don't want to read/answer it then just don't. There is no reason to make someone feel bad for asking a question. God knows I've asked at least one dumb one since being here. Sometimes your fingers rush ahead of your brain. So constructive answers or keep it to yourselves. I know it might be hard.. perfect people who never ask dumb questions or make mistakes...

If one cannot read (and follow) the instructions of a simple form, they have bigger issues than getting flamed on a messageboard.

Edited August 15, 2007 by devilette

[Sheri&Carl 0]

If one cannot read (and follow) the instructions of a simple form, they have bigger issues than getting flamed on a messageboard.

So if someone has a disability that makes it hard to comprehend what they read they deserve to be flamed, and should certainly not fall in love with anyone in another country. I will tell my LD son that...

[kitkat1 5]

I'm sorry but you people can be really rude. Maybe this person isn't a troll, maybe he/she just didn't read completely. Maybe they have a learning disability, who knows but who are you to judge. We are all going through this and it isn't easy at all. No question is a dumb question and if you don't want to read/answer it then just don't. There is no reason to make someone feel bad for asking a question. God knows I've asked at least one dumb one since being here. Sometimes your fingers rush ahead of your brain. So constructive answers or keep it to yourselves. I know it might be hard.. perfect people who never ask dumb questions or make mistakes...

If one cannot read (and follow) the instructions of a simple form, they have bigger issues than getting flamed on a messageboard.

And if they have a learning disability or some other legitimate issue, do you really think it constitues a wise decision to take responsibility for filling out this type of paperwork? If that were the case, I think it's safe to assume he would have gotten some assistance - free legal clinic, lawyer, friend, family, etc. Come on

[no name 1]

If one cannot read (and follow) the instructions of a simple form, they have bigger issues than getting flamed on a messageboard.

So if someone has a disability that makes it hard to comprehend what they read they deserve to be flamed, and should certainly not fall in love with anyone in another country. I will tell my LD son that...

No one said anything about a disability.........? Please do not put words in my mouth.

The OP clearly knows he should have met in person first, yet didn't & filed anyhow.

[Jason-Sasha 1]

I'm sorry but you people can be really rude. Maybe this person isn't a troll, maybe he/she just didn't read completely. Maybe they have a learning disability, who knows but who are you to judge. We are all going through this and it isn't easy at all. No question is a dumb question and if you don't want to read/answer it then just don't. There is no reason to make someone feel bad for asking a question. God knows I've asked at least one dumb one since being here. Sometimes your fingers rush ahead of your brain. So constructive answers or keep it to yourselves. I know it might be hard.. perfect people who never ask dumb questions or make mistakes...

If one cannot read (and follow) the instructions of a simple form, they have bigger issues than getting flamed on a messageboard.

And if they have a learning disability or some other legitimate issue, do you really think it constitues a wise decision to take responsibility for filling out this type of paperwork? If that were the case, I think it's safe to assume he would have gotten some assistance - free legal clinic, lawyer, friend, family, etc. Come on

I can't believe this is happening. This is OBVIOUSLY a joke. No one with a handicap that prohibits them from comprehending this process is going to be doing this alone. If this is real....immediate denial. No question.

That guy is long gone. My bet says it was even a bogus member.

Edited August 15, 2007 by Jason-Sasha

[eric_and_teresa 10]

No, I don't think that learning disabilities are the reason for making dumb questions.. most of the times we are just too lazy to read, if you are going to start this journey on your own, do yourself a favor and read and read and read again, get informed as much as you can, read books, read the guidelines, and please read the instructions! If you have a question you can always come here and ask.

You'll learn so much more doing some reading first.

[*julez* 124]

If one cannot read (and follow) the instructions of a simple form, they have bigger issues than getting flamed on a messageboard.

So if someone has a disability that makes it hard to comprehend what they read they deserve to be flamed, and should certainly not fall in love with anyone in another country. I will tell my LD son that...

I didn't realize Stanley was your son.