Former Fiancee refuses to leave country

[kemm360 144]

Leave her alone and move on. You cannot make her leave. She has a high hill in front of her already when it comes to being legal. 

[Demise 1,128]

6 hours ago, Scandi said:

There's a chance she will try to file VAWA, but you're not on the hook for anything, you're not even married. She can try the VAWA route but will have to prove (in one way or another) that you have abused her physically or mentally. Some people even try to hurt themselves and then report it as a domestic dispute/abuse by the partner. Your best bet is to remove her from your house immediately, and don't be alone with her. 

I mean in order to file VAWA you need to either be married or at very least be position where you have reasons to believe you were married (e.g. you got a license and had the ceremony but the paperwork got "lost" by the officiant or the USC/LPR spouse committed bigamy). Against boyfriends/girlfriends and fiance(e)s the only option is U-visa and that has a higher burden of proof that VAWA.

[rlogan 2,036]

On 3/21/2021 at 7:47 AM, JFH said:

And maybe stop rushing into relationships and spend time, lots of time, getting to know the other person. You had a fiancé trying to arrange her interview in January 2019 but you broke up and you petitioned for another fiancé 5 months later (with whom you were already romantically involved whilst the first one was arranging her embassy interview). Before the second one even got to the interview stage you suspected cheating. You must have suspected this wouldn’t end well. 
 

I know a K-1 only requires you to have met in person once before filing, but that doesn’t mean you have to file after the first visit. As you have seen twice now, short courtships are not working out for you, you need more time. Slow down! What’s the rush? And if these fiancés are pressuring you into rushing through the paperwork, it’s likely the papers they want, not you. The right one will wait. 

This was always my favorite page on the forum.

 

I made a really bad choice with my first Filipina girlfriend, other than that she was uber hot. 

 

Now the OP is in a spot because this person has proven they are willing to do anything to stay.  So expect underhanded, harmful behavior.  Self-protection has to be the top concern.  

[Eric-Pris 1,602]

Ask her to move out.  If she won't, then take your stuff and find a new place to live.  She is not your problem.

 

[Pinkrlion 2,611]

On 3/21/2021 at 7:17 PM, Scandi said:

There's a chance she will try to file VAWA, but you're not on the hook for anything, you're not even married. She can try the VAWA route but will have to prove (in one way or another) that you have abused her physically or mentally. Some people even try to hurt themselves and then report it as a domestic dispute/abuse by the partner. Your best bet is to remove her from your house immediately, and don't be alone with her. 

You cannot file for VAWA, if you were never married.