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Not really about vawa.

I'm paranoid, so I'll change some details.

I have 3 kids with my US born husband.

I became a USC in 2016 or 2017.

My kids ages are between 1-8.

We live with my MIL. I feel financially abused. Sometimes emotionally, too.

I ran to a neighboring house once. No shelter nearby had beds. I went back home.... I want to leave & take my kids with me this time

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I finally got a part time job but cannot drive. He's never ever hit me... Makes me hesitate. We love each other deeply. He just doesn't want to move out from his Mom s house as it's convenient. Then MIL gets mad at me for not cleaning or watching kiddos enough. She has a point but I have to sleep during the day becausr I work night shift part time at a store

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We are in a slightly similar situation. Can you discuss it with your hubby calmly?


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Funnily enough, I work nightshift @ HEB, too. where do you work?


Entry on VWP to visit then-boyfriend 06/13/2011

Married 06/24/2011

Our first son was born 10/31/2012, our daughter was born 06/30/2014, our second son was born 06/20/2017

AOS Timeline

AOS package mailed 09/06/2011 (Chicago Lockbox)

AOS package signed for by R Mercado 09/07/2011

Priority date for I-485&I-130 09/08/2011

Biometrics done 10/03/2011

Interview letter received 11/18/2011

INTERVIEW DATE!!!! 12/20/2011

Approval e-mail 12/21/2011

Card production e-mail 12/27/2011

GREEN CARD ARRIVED 12/31/2011

Resident since 12/21/2011

ROC Timeline

ROC package mailed to VSC 11/22/2013

NOA1 date 11/26/2013

Biometrics date 12/26/2013

Transfer notice to CSC 03/14/2014

Change of address 03/27/2014

Card production ordered 04/30/2014

10-YEAR GREEN CARD ARRIVED 05/06/2014

N-400 Timeline

N-400 package mailed 09/30/2014

N-400 package delivered 10/01/2014

NOA1 date 10/20/2014

Biometrics date 11/14/2014

Early walk-in biometrics 11/12/2014

In-line for interview 11/23/2014

Interview letter 03/18/2015

Interview date 04/17/2015 ("Decision cannot yet be made.")

In-line for oath scheduling 05/04/2015

Oath ceremony letter dated 05/11/2015

Oath ceremony 06/02/2015

I am a United States citizen!

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OMG this sounds so much like my story! Same thing happened. I lived with husband and MIL. She got mad at me for not cleaning. I worked nights. 

 

Well. MIL ended up kicking me out after husband abandoned me and went to a different state. I lived in a hotel for a year. Not cheap. They had little kitchens in the room. I had my own car. So I was doing OK. I found an apartment later. I don't have kids with him. I divorced him and we are no longer in contact. I got married again and I'm happy now. No more abuse. He never hit me but he took my money and didn't work. He forbid me to use birth control. I wasn't allowed to buy a $7 burger menu with our joint account debit card. He threatened to deport me and not sign the I-751 if I don't quit my job and move States with him. He couldn't offer me health insurance because he never held a job. I'm chronically ill and need health insurance. Aaanyways... 

 

Please be safe. For you and your children. 

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On 5/28/2019 at 11:19 PM, little immigrant said:

OMG this sounds so much like my story! Same thing happened. I lived with husband and MIL. She got mad at me for not cleaning. I worked nights. 

 

Well. MIL ended up kicking me out after husband abandoned me and went to a different state. I lived in a hotel for a year. Not cheap. They had little kitchens in the room. I had my own car. So I was doing OK. I found an apartment later. I don't have kids with him. I divorced him and we are no longer in contact. I got married again and I'm happy now. No more abuse. He never hit me but he took my money and didn't work. He forbid me to use birth control. I wasn't allowed to buy a $7 burger menu with our joint account debit card. He threatened to deport me and not sign the I-751 if I don't quit my job and move States with him. He couldn't offer me health insurance because he never held a job. I'm chronically ill and need health insurance. Aaanyways... 

 

Please be safe. For you and your children. 

I have read a lot of your posts. You should be proud of how far you have come...👍


Not a newbie but lost my old info years ago) I have been through this process before --all the way through naturalization-- This site has always been a great help to me. 

 

 

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On 5/27/2019 at 7:38 PM, Wawathrowaway2020 said:

Not really about vawa.

I'm paranoid, so I'll change some details.

I have 3 kids with my US born husband.

I became a USC in 2016 or 2017.

My kids ages are between 1-8.

We live with my MIL. I feel financially abused. Sometimes emotionally, too.

I ran to a neighboring house once. No shelter nearby had beds. I went back home.... I want to leave & take my kids with me this time

Make sure if you do leave and decide to divorce that you get a competent attorney and pursue child support. Some states make that easier than others...


Not a newbie but lost my old info years ago) I have been through this process before --all the way through naturalization-- This site has always been a great help to me. 

 

 

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