Is Facebook Really Needed?

[saddlepatch 6]

You don't need Facebook We hardly used facebook to communicate, always skype. Also someone said something about talking to their friends and having chat logs from that. You don't need that either. Not everyone gets along with their fiance's or spouses friends. I'm not particularly close with any of my spouses friends, tbh (we get along but I haven't had time to really make a good connection. I'm naturally a loner and prefer one on one interaction also that and my wife and I's schedule doesn't meet up with most of her friends, and the majority of her friends are out of state so ), I'm not presenting any chat logs with them as I don't have any? All my interaction has been in person or it's been like mic conversations on Skype or just messaging to see if they know where Laura is or if they're still at their place or to get in contact with her. Most of my conversations with her family have also been in person (you can't document that, just state it instead) with again chat logs if any consisting of "Hey do you know how long Laura is going to be a X and Ys?" Nothing that would be useful to an IO. Also I'm in a same sex marriage so there is a lot of negative association with me for her parents, so we don't have a relationship, I'm just tolerated.

As long as you have evidence of YOUR relationship (You didn't marry/get engaged to their friends or family, you got engaged/married to THEM. In a perfect world, we would all get along with our in-laws and spouses friends but that's human nature, it doesn't happen for everyone) and you can prove the relationship isn't for immigration purposes you will be fine. We have evidence from dating back from when we started out as friends, to home made cards, to various photos, to plane confirmations, ticket stubs, hotel confirmations, a few skype logs if needed and then the basic stuff such as our marriage certificate etc. None of our evidence includes Facebook anything.

My interview is on Friday. I'll let you know how it goes after

[Lowlie 191]

Facebook can lead to a lot of drama and trouble in relationships within family, friends, marriage, work, church, clubs etc.

Some of my family's relationships are severely,and perhaps permanently broken up over two different Facebook dramas. I deleted my FB a couple months ago in an attempt to get away from the latest family clutter-bust. Facebook has even lead to divorce for quite a lot of people!

Since your fiancée is so adamant about you having a Facebook account, I have the impression she's a FB addict. I highly recommend you not open an account. By not getting involved in her Facebooking, you could be saving your relationship from a Hell of a lot of trouble.

[Hotter Otter 1,211]

If Facebook defines whether your relationship is valid or not then I don't want to live in this century any more!

You'll be fine if you show all the other ways you communicate.

[TBoneTX 43,254]

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