Fiance's new friend

[Caryh 5,206]

Always admit when Im wrong. And I was wrong but at least I got the real slap in my face now, instead when he was here. I thank god for that. Took him back, he had nothing to do with her. Monday they bumped into each other and she like him. So he ended it with me to be with her. Wait...It gets better...lol I know what he wants, and Im so pissed. He wants to be with her til he can be here with me. BS!!! Im so mad. How do I withdraw the petition?

Thanks everyone

Well at least he was honest about that.

[Eric-Pris 1,602]

I spent almost 3 months in India last year and part of this year for work, so I got to learn a lot about the culture.

To this day, I was told that about 80-90% of the people still do arranged marriages. And much more than in the US, Indian parents don't want their children marrying a foreigner, especially a while person.

I agree with others who said that Indians are very immature because they get babied until they marry. They live with their parents until they get married. It's usually from the parents house to the married house, no living single. And before marriage, the parents basically are in charge of EVERYTHING in their childrens' lives. Here's an example... in India, employees who sign with big companies have to sign a contract, usually for 1 or 2 years. If the employee quits before the contract is up, they have to reimburse the company for the training and hiring expenses. One time, we had a mid 20-something guy quit and his FATHER came in begging the director to let his son out of the contract. The guy stood there quiet while his father did all the negotiating.

As for this particular story, for some reason I'm not convinced it's real. For some reason, the series of events and the way it was written smells like fiction.

Edited May 11, 2014 by Eric-Pris

[vishnu111 0]

This is a situation that is currently going on and I want to know how others would feel about the situation if you were me and what you would do.

Friday my fiance's father invites this female doctor over. My fiance and her talk for an hour.

Next day he goes to a conference and without his knowledge she drove him to and from the conference. He thought his father was driving him.

Then today it was suppose to be a group dinner, was just the two of them. They went to dunkin donuts.

Tomorrow he is going to a conference with her and possibly dunkin donuts afterwards.

And she I invited him to go with her to a wedding.

I dont feel comfortable and he agrees if he was in my shoes he wouldn't either. He says he is depressed cause he is doing nothing. He quit school and can't work there. How is this mt fault?

I can't deal with this, if he spends time with her everyday or every other day. He goes from no friends like me, to having one friend whom is a girl. Another woman spending more time with him than me.

First day she arrived unexpectedly. Second day he found out last minute. Then today when he was invited I reluctantly said go cause it was a group thing. Then it was the two of them.

If I ask him not to see her, he wont and then he is depressed cause he has nothing to do and his mom is a pain

What do u think? What would you do?

i personally feel he is cheating on you . how can someone drive you without his knowledge . dont you check up the driver . how can he mistake her for his dad . nobody goes ldunkin dounut or take a person to dinner without your knowledge or it might have been a date , your right to be suspicious . ask him to tell the truth or rather cancel his visa . i believe he is lying to you

[vishnu111 0]

No his K1 visa isn't ready. We applied for a tourist visa for him too but he wasn't given one.

i don't agree with you at all . i personally feel he is scamming you but i think your blinded by love , i hope you make the right choice . you have to look from certain other point of you . i personally feel he is lying and that he wants you there for a free u.s visa or green card after which the chances of him dumbing you will be very high