Think carefully before you marry a Nigerian, I regret doing so!

[joseph.rafter 2]

This makes me laugh.............you met once and talked on the phone.......you spent your money on him and he didnt nothing.

You get what you pay for.

[Sekhvaruli 74]

Well, I don't think every Nigerian is like that. My American ex-husband, who brought me here, did the same thing to me. After marrying me he didn't quit his online dating and porn addiction. It hurt like hell. Thank God, it's all over.

[luckyef 2]

Don't talk to great country like that , does it mean someone treated you bad , that every Nigerian are bad? When you check your relationship you will see they there are places you make mistakes , you can't tell me you are perfect , there people from all over the work bad than Nigerian , even your country , the men treat woman like , so every were you go you see good and bad , just pray for you to meet the good woman .

[kemm360 144]

On 1/17/2014 at 2:15 AM, Iyawo Ayodele said:

It just goes to show that you need to know your fiance very well, and pay attention to the red flags that wack you in the head, and sometimes you then ignore. these need to be addressed right away, if your fiance is a good and honest man/woman, Honestly in love and really yours, then they will understand your hesitation, your questions, your rants and emotional breakdowns.

My first Nigerian marriage didn't work out at all, because he had a habit of promising the world, and just hoping that God would make a puppet out of him and make all the words true, and that's not how it works. he gave me many red flags that i ignored, like "we'll get to know each other better when I get there" and "whatever you wish hunny", and " I'm not used to such questions hunny," "that singles site is for my friends to use," "I'm talking to her for my friends pretending to be them so they can meet her" and then the clincher " shut up and do as your told!". In my case, I made the decision after marriage, and before AOS that it was not going to work out, and convinced him to go to Egypt on his advanced parol for Ramadan and then removed my support via uscis, and that instantly denied his return, he spent a year begging me to take him back.

I have been FAR more careful with my present Fiance, he never keeps a darn thing from me, and refuses to flirt even when incouraged, We've had a 4 year relationship prior to my eventual application, and he never once pressured me, and in fact seriously considered me moving there, only thwarted by the lack of pay at any job.

so definately be careful, know him/her WELL, ask a billion questions, NO SECRETS. It's a shame that so many wonderful, loyal, handsome men have to deal with the bad decisions of a few. because Nigerians are raised to be loyal, and patient, and to view a marriage as permanent. My Ayo was made for me by God and although not perfect, (I'd be suspicious of that) we work out our differences with paitience.

Olorun bukun Nigeria

Ife Ayodele

Lol Morgan is a bada*s. I love that, very smart woman! 

[onileowo 7]

You shouldn't see all Nigerians as the same. There are many good Nigerians all over the world. It only depends on individuals attitude and committed to Christ. Even in ur country u see good and bad people. Just pray to God to give you rightful person. All the best.

[Penguin_ie 5,987]

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