MY Visa Journey Sucks #### !!!!

[A.J 0]

So I sent My Affidavit of Support Form and the Original civil documents On December 22nd 2012.

January 10 -2013 I got an Email saying to resend 2 civil documents and 2 passport size photo of my hubby

- I sent them January 21- 2013 -

I have Not Heard anything From the NVC - and So I called to day and Guess what No answer becuz of a Snow Storm Fucken REALLY- Really Snow ####### - Ive Been thr HELL My Dad Died in JULY - My sister did not want to Help me with the Affidavit of Support - then My sister did Finley help me in Nov -

In Not Joules of the people getting INTERVIEW Im Happy - they Get to Move on ans Be Really Happy --its just what about me and it Dont help with my hubby telling me to go Home - and Be with my family and My son YEs I do miss them But I dont want to Leave him again for the 3 time.

what is taking so Long - its been One Year sents I started this Visa Journey - and we have are good and bad day but Now Im just worryed.

i KNOW I Sound Crazy i just want to know how my case is going, but i have to wait.

[X Factor 1,110]

It is good to vent your frustration. But we are dealing with the government and they are swamped and also slow. Hang in their. Your relationship will be highly valued because of your patience. Waiting sucks big time

[MIBEN 83]

First my condolences for your loss, from looking at your timeline you took over 15 months after your wedding to file and you were approved at USCIS since Jul 12 why has it taken so long for you to submit the paperwork? It took me 1 month and I closed out all requirements with NVC and then waited two months for the interview just to be placed on AP for an additional 2 months. I get it it bites to wait so long, we all did the waiting game 13 months before my hubby came home but you cannot be mad at the system for not being prepared. I think you are blessed that your sister found it in the kindness of her heart to sponsor him. It is not her responsibility to take on it is yours the delay is your responsibility for not being abled and prepared to take this journey. I calculated at least 18 months of lost time on your clock and now you are mad because people cannot make it to work to take your call because of a storm?

I am not trying to be mean, just stating the facts sit back reflect and really think what you could have done to speed up the process. So at this point you are either more irritated by my comments or can relate to the facts. It is not an easy process but realize you are almost done frustrations will only get the best of you and yield no results in getting your hubby home quicker.

Good luck and God bless....

[A.J 0]

Thanks Mr Smiley -I guess I did need to vent - Everyone has there Days ---

MIBEN -Thanks -- But there More to what You know -- when we got approved with the USCIS -- My dad ask my sister to Help me and she said Yes - but after he pass everything when down hill - july 3rd we found out he got cancer july 25th we lost him - so My sister put me on hold from July to November - to help my mom out My dad paid the bills and other stuff - he did it all and we where Blind sited- - Anyways Me and My hubby got married In Oct 2011 and then Dec I when home them I filled for the Visa in Jan 2012-- I was prepared I had all the paper word Ready to send -I did not count on My dad dieing - Or resend the NVC 2 civil documents and 2 passport size photo - I know they where in the paper work. but it could of been the Date was over do and it last for a couple of months, Yes You are Right It is not an easy process. Im just sad and frustrated and Scared.

[TBoneTX 43,059]

*** Thread moved from Effects of Major Changes to CR-1 case progress subforum as a more appropriate location for this topic. ***

[ndu26 114]

its good you got it out your chest and you are open to corrections too . It can be nerve wracking , this whole process. some of us have it smoother than others but I pray we all get there and that our flames of love continue to burn. occupy yourself this weekend and give it till tuesday at least cos read someone saying they wnt open monday either due to federal holiday . I thought the holiday was tuesday 12th and then next monday 18th? anyway..its just couple more hours of waiting into next week

[speedwell 224]

its good you got it out your chest and you are open to corrections too . It can be nerve wracking , this whole process. some of us have it smoother than others but I pray we all get there and that our flames of love continue to burn. occupy yourself this weekend and give it till tuesday at least cos read someone saying they wnt open monday either due to federal holiday . I thought the holiday was tuesday 12th and then next monday 18th? anyway..its just couple more hours of waiting into next week

yeah bad timing for us since our file was just sent out to NVC yesterday!! But my husband has a bad cold and I need a day or two to study up on what to do next, so we are seeing it as a breathing space, just.

[ShirahBet 42]

There is no federal holiday this coming Monday. The next federal holiday is the 18th, Presidents' Day/Washington's Birthday.

To the original poster, vent away! This whole process sucks and people should not be telling you that it's your fault that things didn't happen timely. We do not walk in everyone else's shoes, we only walk in our own. People don't know the individual circumstances around why we chose to wait a few months to file or not. I'm disappointed in the number of people I've seen in these forums bashing each other when they're low or sad because something seems frightening. I was under the impression that these forums were for information, and possibly support.

I have nothing but good wishes for everyone going through this process. It's rough, it's tough, and sometimes it's dirty. In no way is it fun or entertaining. When things go wrong, sometimes they just go wrong. Shaming others helps no one.

I am now officially off my soap box.

[MIBEN 83]

Thanks Mr Smiley -I guess I did need to vent - Everyone has there Days ---

MIBEN -Thanks -- But there More to what You know -- when we got approved with the USCIS -- My dad ask my sister to Help me and she said Yes - but after he pass everything when down hill - july 3rd we found out he got cancer july 25th we lost him - so My sister put me on hold from July to November - to help my mom out My dad paid the bills and other stuff - he did it all and we where Blind sited- - Anyways Me and My hubby got married In Oct 2011 and then Dec I when home them I filled for the Visa in Jan 2012-- I was prepared I had all the paper word Ready to send -I did not count on My dad dieing - Or resend the NVC 2 civil documents and 2 passport size photo - I know they where in the paper work. but it could of been the Date was over do and it last for a couple of months, Yes You are Right It is not an easy process. Im just sad and frustrated and Scared.

My apologies as I was looking at your timeline that states you were married in Oct 2010 and filed in 2012. Everything you said does not sound crazy, we all went through it the sadness the frustrations just hold on a bit and find things to keep you busy (work, hobbies, volunteer). Are you in Morocco? If so that just makes dealing with the NVC process more difficult but look on the bright side if such is the case it will strengthen your case of a bonafide marriage. In a few months it will all be over and you will look back and laugh at what you went through to get him home. As I stated my intent was not to be mean but simply look at the facts objectively and don't let the process get the best of you. I took things one day at a time and tried not to worry (simply tried it didn't always work) we knew we had a bonafide marriage we just underwent a bureaucratic process to get him home.

Again my condolences for your loss and hope you can find the strength to push through the last leg of your journey to get him home.

Good luck

[A.J 0]

Thanks Guys - I did not want to come off as self center - I do want good wishes for everyone going through this process it is Hard and painfull and Long/short for some people -

ErinBeth I too have seen a Lot of People get Rude comments and there Looking for Help - I know there is One lady that all she does is make rude comments its a good thing she did not comment on me

speedwell GOOD LUCK with your process - I allways check my Emails 3 times a Day - so i dont Miss anything - I hope your hubby gets better from his cold.

TBoneTX Thanks but I dont think Thread to moved - would not work for me - I might get bad karma

ndu26 Im happy you got me - Im not the one that say whats on my mind i keep it to my self and just let it be but It was good getting my worrys off my chest

MIBEN its ok there been a couple of time I read something and its wrong or I think its something eles

But Again Thanks Everyone and Good Luck to you All

[nunya business 20]

So I sent My Affidavit of Support Form and the Original civil documents On December 22nd 2012.

January 10 -2013 I got an Email saying to resend 2 civil documents and 2 passport size photo of my hubby

- I sent them January 21- 2013 -

I have Not Heard anything From the NVC - and So I called to day and Guess what No answer becuz of a Snow Storm Fucken REALLY- Really Snow ####### - Ive Been thr HELL My Dad Died in JULY - My sister did not want to Help me with the Affidavit of Support - then My sister did Finley help me in Nov -

In Not Joules of the people getting INTERVIEW Im Happy - they Get to Move on ans Be Really Happy --its just what about me and it Dont help with my hubby telling me to go Home - and Be with my family and My son YEs I do miss them But I dont want to Leave him again for the 3 time.

what is taking so Long - its been One Year sents I started this Visa Journey - and we have are good and bad day but Now Im just worryed.

i KNOW I Sound Crazy i just want to know how my case is going, but i have to wait.

That is USCIS's favorite word don't you know "WAIT!"

[The Mean Lady 604]

Thanks Guys - I did not want to come off as self center - I do want good wishes for everyone going through this process it is Hard and painfull and Long/short for some people -

ErinBeth I too have seen a Lot of People get Rude comments and there Looking for Help - I know there is One lady that all she does is make rude comments its a good thing she did not comment on me

speedwell GOOD LUCK with your process - I allways check my Emails 3 times a Day - so i dont Miss anything - I hope your hubby gets better from his cold.

TBoneTX Thanks but I dont think Thread to moved - would not work for me - I might get bad karma

ndu26 Im happy you got me - Im not the one that say whats on my mind i keep it to my self and just let it be but It was good getting my worrys off my chest

MIBEN its ok there been a couple of time I read something and its wrong or I think its something eles

But Again Thanks Everyone and Good Luck to you All

tbone was simply stating that he moved your thread to a different forum that was more appropriate for the content it contained

[A.J 0]

AndyandMarissa - done with USCIS since June 2012 Im at the NVC process - and Yeah Waiting is the Visa theme LOL