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Aussielad   37

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................im just waiting for dmartr to come into this.....then it'll REALLY be on. lol

Oct 29th 2004 -Met online
Oct 29th -First phone call
Dec 25th -She purposed and i said Yes!
May 10th I-130 Packet and Packet 3 sent off to me by the U.S. Consulate
May 16th -Received Packets 1-3 from the U.S. consulate
June 29th -I arrived in Puerto-Rico!
July 2nd -Married in Mayaguez, Puerto-Rico and also got our interview date for September 6th
August 17th -We arrived in Australia to file for Sep. 6th
September 6th - Filed DCF in Sydney and approved 1 hour later!
September 12 -Received my passport with the visa and yellow packet
November 24th -POE.......Guam,USA
December 12, 2005-Green Card arrived in the mail
September 11, 2007 -Filed I-751 on conditions
September 17 -VSC Receives my I-751 and issues NOA1
Oct 10 -Had biometrics taken in San Juan, Puerto Rico ASC
Oct 12 -Touched.
Aug 21, 2008 -Approved!...........finally
Sep 17, 2008 -Mailed off N-400
Oct 22, 2008 -Biometrics taken in San Juan ASC
Feb 12, 2009 -N-400 Interview
Feb 26, 2009 -Oath.....the end.

....................................*What we do in this life will have an echo in the life to come*...............................

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:pop:

Madame Mermaid, I'm surprised you're even bothering with this jackass anymore. :mellow:

Pretentiousness can very easily be confused with authority. I think it wise to point that out ;)

Well said, as usual.

And where is dmartmar, I wonder.... he's usually all over these threads... :unsure:

8-30-05 Met David at a restaurant in Germany

3-28-06 David 'officially' proposed

4-26-06 I-129F mailed

9-25-06 Interview: APPROVED!

10-16-06 Flt to US, POE Detroit

11-5-06 Married

7-2-07 Green card received

9-12-08 Filed for divorce

12-5-08 Court hearing - divorce final

A great marriage is not when the "perfect couple" comes together.

It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.

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japau   1

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Yeah, arguing with someone with a half of a brain (or a third?) would definitely be a welcome change from this...I like how all the girls stick up for each other though...its cute...

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August 27, 2004 - - Married

09/07/04. Apply I-130 - (receipt date) (Day 1/NA/NA)

10/12/04. I-130 Approved - (Day 35/NA/NA)

10/16/04. NVC Receives Case (Day 39/Day 1/NA)

11/08/04. NVC Assigns Case Number (Day 62/Day 23/Day 1)

12/06/04. I-864 and IV fees sent out express (Day 88/Day 49/Day 26)

12/20/04. I-864 and DS-230 "generated" (Day 102/Day 63/Day 40)

01/07/05. I-864 and DS-230 sent express (Day 120/Day 81/Day 58)

01/10/05. I-864 and DS-230 Rec'd at NVC (Day 123/Day 84/Day 61)

01/12/05. NVC reports receipt of papers and begins entering information (Day 125/Day 86/Day 63)

01/14/05. System updated with "biographic forms received" message. (Day 127/Day 88/Day 65)

02/03/05. Case APPROVED and forwarded to EMBASSY! (Day 147/Day 108/Day 85)

02/10/05. Embassy receives case, interview appointment arranged via email for 03/03/05!

SUCCESS! VISA 'INTERVIEW' WITH NO QUESTIONS TO MY WIFE AT ALL COMPLETED ON 03-03-05. VISA IN HAND ON 03-04!!! DAY 175 (AFTER SENDING I-130) - DAY 136 (AFTER RECEIPT OF CASE AT NVC) - DAY 113 (AFTER ASSIGNMENT OF CASE NUMBER)

REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS

01/08/07. I-751 Mailed to TSC

01/11/07. Checks Cashed

01/22/07. I-797C Received. Green Card Extended 12 Months

02/08/07. Bimoetrics appointment (for 3/01) received

03/01/07. Biometrics Taken in Tampa

03/02/07. Online - Record - Updated (probably for biometrics)

06/04/07. Card Production Ordered (Allow 30 days for delivery)

06/11/07. 10 year card received.

NATURALIZATION

04/08/08. Filed application

08/01/01. Received Interview Date (September 25)

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Yeah, arguing with someone with a half of a brain would be a welcome change from this...

Off you go then.

8-30-05 Met David at a restaurant in Germany

3-28-06 David 'officially' proposed

4-26-06 I-129F mailed

9-25-06 Interview: APPROVED!

10-16-06 Flt to US, POE Detroit

11-5-06 Married

7-2-07 Green card received

9-12-08 Filed for divorce

12-5-08 Court hearing - divorce final

A great marriage is not when the "perfect couple" comes together.

It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.

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Wow this is a lot to digest. I can say the marriage was indeed valid from the get-go. We haven't signed any separation agreement or anything, at this point just living apart... So is this truly a separation in the eyes of the law?

I really appreciate everyone's reply this is all very enlightening.

Don't you still have to file the forms stating where you both live and if you move or have you not been doing that? If she's not living with you, they should know.

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Yeah, arguing with someone with a half of a brain (or a third?) would definitely be a welcome change from this...I like how all the girls stick up for each other though...its cute...

I wonder if a lawyer has to use such words, and, I wonder if you realize that what you ask in your profile related to the unacceptable negativity of others in regards to you, is what you are using in every of your posts in this thread towards others, who, btw did not use with you insults, and above all not true arguments. I hope that you'll take time to read all the above posts you wrote here. For example, the laws immigr. examples Merdmaid took the time to transcript to you, which you did not agree with. I don't think it's right what you do, are you against the law? against the responsability of everybody involved (beneficiary, petitioner, USCIS, etc) in this such complex situations? and don't think that simple insults are usefull to understand and especially to take the time needed to think, and think right. Finally, do you know the saying that what does it mean when somebody brings all the time the issues to personal levels? and how many did you personnaly insult on here? they did not do that...but, again, i really don't know what type of legal pro you are, being overall such against/above the laws!...hm! very strange!

CR-1, VT- Canada

I-130:

25 Aug 06 - Sent I-130 (a Friday)

28 Aug 06 - NOA1 & Certif. receipt returned ( a Monday) Day 1

29 Aug 06 - USCIS cashes check

30 Aug 06 - check cleared & 1ST TOUCH.

01 Sept 06 - NOA1 recvd by Mail

09 Sept 06 - 2ND TOUCH (a Saturday)

09 Mai 07 - NOA2 (2 e-mails)

Note: were told the long delay due to huge backlog and internal changes in VT

NVC :

04-June-07 - NVC generates DS-3032 & AOS bill

12-June-07 - AOS Bill payment sent/ alien receives DS-3032 form (by mail, dated 4th June)

13-June-07 - Alien sends back completed DS-3032 (by mail)/ rcvd 19th of June approx.

To mid July-07 - I-864 form sent completed and IV fee bill

19-July-07 NVC rcv I-864 form; mail signature rcvd.

22-Aug-07 Ds-230 with documents sent to NVC.

20-Sep - 07 Alien sends NVC Missing document. NVC receives it the 25th.

05-Oct - 07 NVC completed.

16-Jan - 08 Interview, 3 questions asked, visa approved same day, received 1week later approx.

Note: delay due to internal delay, missing document (not rfe) and self procrastination of understanding some abstract terms. C Post not at all reliable (delivery duration, delivery with signature (did not deliver personnaly), and delivery of interview letter rcvd after the interview).

In USA:

01-03-08 POE Entry in USA

...-03-08 2 Welcome in America letters and green card received.

"What I know is that I know nothing"

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diadromous mermaid   36

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Wow this is a lot to digest. I can say the marriage was indeed valid from the get-go. We haven't signed any separation agreement or anything, at this point just living apart... So is this truly a separation in the eyes of the law?

I really appreciate everyone's reply this is all very enlightening.

Don't you still have to file the forms stating where you both live and if you move or have you not been doing that? If she's not living with you, they should know.

Yes. Pursuant to Section 265 of the Immigration and Nationality Act (8 USC 1305), the alien is to report a change of address within 10 days of a change in residence, by way of an AR-11. A sponsor, by way of an I-865 pursuant to 8 CFR 213a.3 ( 8 USC 1183a) within 30 days, so, indeed, if separated one of them has a requirement to report.

"diaddie mermaid"

You can 'catch' me on here and on FBI.

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My wife and I went through a tough adjustment period (her adjusting to my unreasonable behaviors...lol) once she got here, and there was one point where I didn't think we were going to make it, nor did I care.

Given your responses on this thread, I'm not surprised to learn that your wife likely did have difficulties adjusting to your unreasonable behavior. The question is... How did you convince her to put up with your behavior for this long?

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My wife and I went through a tough adjustment period (her adjusting to my unreasonable behaviors...lol) once she got here, and there was one point where I didn't think we were going to make it, nor did I care.

Given your responses on this thread, I'm not surprised to learn that your wife likely did have difficulties adjusting to your unreasonable behavior. The question is... How did you convince her to put up with your behavior for this long?

Its amazing...Miss Debate goes off, and then these "new members" from yesterday and today show up one after another...anyone else notice this 'coincidence?' Or, it seems like everyone is concerned about what I write! Very attentive to every little sentence too! It's amazing! Obviously, some people can't read and understand tongue in cheek...Should I elucidate? Nah, waste of time...we're still on to you Miss Debate Stalker!!!!! Now all the posts are disappearing...looks like Miss Debate couldn't handle the pressure of being bested!!!! Oh well!

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August 27, 2004 - - Married

09/07/04. Apply I-130 - (receipt date) (Day 1/NA/NA)

10/12/04. I-130 Approved - (Day 35/NA/NA)

10/16/04. NVC Receives Case (Day 39/Day 1/NA)

11/08/04. NVC Assigns Case Number (Day 62/Day 23/Day 1)

12/06/04. I-864 and IV fees sent out express (Day 88/Day 49/Day 26)

12/20/04. I-864 and DS-230 "generated" (Day 102/Day 63/Day 40)

01/07/05. I-864 and DS-230 sent express (Day 120/Day 81/Day 58)

01/10/05. I-864 and DS-230 Rec'd at NVC (Day 123/Day 84/Day 61)

01/12/05. NVC reports receipt of papers and begins entering information (Day 125/Day 86/Day 63)

01/14/05. System updated with "biographic forms received" message. (Day 127/Day 88/Day 65)

02/03/05. Case APPROVED and forwarded to EMBASSY! (Day 147/Day 108/Day 85)

02/10/05. Embassy receives case, interview appointment arranged via email for 03/03/05!

SUCCESS! VISA 'INTERVIEW' WITH NO QUESTIONS TO MY WIFE AT ALL COMPLETED ON 03-03-05. VISA IN HAND ON 03-04!!! DAY 175 (AFTER SENDING I-130) - DAY 136 (AFTER RECEIPT OF CASE AT NVC) - DAY 113 (AFTER ASSIGNMENT OF CASE NUMBER)

REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS

01/08/07. I-751 Mailed to TSC

01/11/07. Checks Cashed

01/22/07. I-797C Received. Green Card Extended 12 Months

02/08/07. Bimoetrics appointment (for 3/01) received

03/01/07. Biometrics Taken in Tampa

03/02/07. Online - Record - Updated (probably for biometrics)

06/04/07. Card Production Ordered (Allow 30 days for delivery)

06/11/07. 10 year card received.

NATURALIZATION

04/08/08. Filed application

08/01/01. Received Interview Date (September 25)

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