i normal situation or red flag ?

[walid lara 0]

hi friends i am tunisian man

my wife teacher me work in engineering then always we not have same holiday

i need know if one of this infirmation can said is red flag

-difference age 7 years

- married from first meeting after 9 month discution , married in jun 2010

- i married her in hull without wedding celebrate and our familly know only we are in realtion friends ship

- we make another holiday in marsh 2011 , and another in july 2011 with her kids is familly vacancy in barbados

i am complain too much

[Om&Abo Malik 12]

hi friends i am tunisian man

my wife teacher me work in engineering then always we not have same holiday

i need know if one of this infirmation can said is red flag

-difference age 7 years

- married from first meeting after 9 month discution , married in jun 2010

- i married her in hull without wedding celebrate and our familly know only we are in realtion friends ship

- we make another holiday in marsh 2011 , and another in july 2011 with her kids is familly vacancy in barbados

i am complain too much

red flags--married first visit and that your family doesn't know is even worse. Why don't they know? Family support is very important! Also not having a wedding celebration it would look like you are trying to hide something because of those reasons.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

hi friends i am tunisian man

my wife teacher me work in engineering then always we not have same holiday

i need know if one of this infirmation can said is red flag

-difference age 7 years

- married from first meeting after 9 month discution , married in jun 2010

- i married her in hull without wedding celebrate and our familly know only we are in realtion friends ship

- we make another holiday in marsh 2011 , and another in july 2011 with her kids is familly vacancy in barbados

i am complain too much

Get ready for a denial or start telling your entire family and all your neighbors really quick..

Whats with these guys? Why are you so embarassed of your American wives? Whats so wrong with us that you have to do this nonsense.. You have the nerve to ask if these are red flags? Are you smoking ZATLA? Would you want your sister hooking up with a guy who didnt have the cohonas to tell his family he was marrying? Can I ask if you would think this would be fair to your sister? Oh I forgot .. there seems to be a consensus of some of these guys that wronging American women to the absolutely most stratospheric point is some how acceptable. I feel sorry for your wife. She is not streetsmart enough to know that this is only a BIZNEZZ for you..Its unfair to string this poor American woman along for a relationship that you are so embarassed of that you wont even claim it.. I feel so sorry for your wife.. To answer your question, HELL YEAH its a red flag.. hell yeah

[walid lara 0]

Get ready for a denial or start telling your entire family and all your neighbors really quick..

Whats with these guys? Why are you so embarassed of your American wives? Whats so wrong with us that you have to do this nonsense.. You have the nerve to ask if these are red flags? Are you smoking ZATLA? Would you want your sister hooking up with a guy who didnt have the cohonas to tell his family he was marrying? Can I ask if you would think this would be fair to your sister? Oh I forgot .. there seems to be a consensus of some of these guys that wronging American women to the absolutely most stratospheric point is some how acceptable. I feel sorry for your wife. She is not streetsmart enough to know that this is only a BIZNEZZ for you..Its unfair to string this poor American woman along for a relationship that you are so embarassed of that you wont even claim it.. I feel so sorry for your wife.. To answer your question, HELL YEAH its a red flag.. hell yeah

thanks friends i will inform my familly shur in soon fews day

need make father and sister sign obe letter said we accept the marriage of walid o this americain lady ? can this letter take place for wedding party

[Om&Abo Malik 12]

Get ready for a denial or start telling your entire family and all your neighbors really quick..

Whats with these guys? Why are you so embarassed of your American wives? Whats so wrong with us that you have to do this nonsense.. You have the nerve to ask if these are red flags? Are you smoking ZATLA? Would you want your sister hooking up with a guy who didnt have the cohonas to tell his family he was marrying? Can I ask if you would think this would be fair to your sister? Oh I forgot .. there seems to be a consensus of some of these guys that wronging American women to the absolutely most stratospheric point is some how acceptable. I feel sorry for your wife. She is not streetsmart enough to know that this is only a BIZNEZZ for you..Its unfair to string this poor American woman along for a relationship that you are so embarassed of that you wont even claim it.. I feel so sorry for your wife.. To answer your question, HELL YEAH its a red flag.. hell yeah

Lol, well you said it!! hahahaha!

[momof1 205]

Not having a proper wedding and not informing your family says a lot. I'd be worried if I were you. My mil was born in Tunis andI've seen a real wedding celebration. Let me tell you, it's a far cry from a secret martiage. If you will go forward, you need to have a very good explanation for why you did things this way.

[walid lara 0]

Not having a proper wedding and not informing your family says a lot. I'd be worried if I were you. My mil was born in Tunis andI've seen a real wedding celebration. Let me tell you, it's a far cry from a secret martiage. If you will go forward, you need to have a very good explanation for why you did things this way.

thx friend momof1

tell me , for i return situation more good

because i was hiding my marriage

for return situation better before interview , is good idea make my familly sign in paper they said , we accept the marriage , and walid inform us about this marriage even later no matter , letter my familly sign i take with me to hull

[EAbbas 213]

You must be prepared as well once your family knows all about it to be able to explain during the interview WHY there was no celebration with your family or friends for the marriage especially if you have no pics of you and her with the family... that is indeed a huge red flag...

When I married my husband we didnt have the huge gigantic 400 ppl plus wedding but we did have a pretty large one close to 100 ppl...his boss, friends, all his family, and all the shopkeepers know about our marriage... we had over 1000 pics from the mehndi, nikah, and valima not to mention from our honeymoon and visits to family members homes...

If they did a field investigation with your case you would really be hit hard with the fact you didnt tell anybody and kept it secret.

Edited October 15, 2011 by EAbbas

[Boiler 43,660]

You are 7 years older.

I know of only one Hull, which one do you mean?