a never ending list of things that need accomplishing?

[DouglasSheridan 1]

I could sleep a whole day away myself personally!

Thanks for the added advice and britbird, thanks for sharing your story too..... makes one feel less alone in their emotions....guess the "women think, men do" saying Jaylen mentioned might come in handy after all huh, perhaps it is just this simple.

Well, today I shall be off being spoiled with attention ( I hope) as I'm off celebrating yet another bday...27 today, the age my Mom was when she gave birth to me..... quite special!

So waiting for my hun to come home from work and being real positive about what is to come for us!

Love

Sheridan x

Edited February 22, 2006 by DouglasSheridan

[moelarrycheese 0]

OP, from reading your post, it sound like the best thing for you to do is to stop being so selfish, independent, and proud and start to be part of a team. You sound like a spoiled child who needs a time out. Me me me me me me me, that's all you seem to be saying.

[pax 0]

That's a bit harsh, don't you think?

Sheridan has come a long way to be here with her husband, and challenges during the adjustment process are inevitable. I don't think those challenges make her, or her husband, a bad person. Some time, communication, and understanding will sort those things out.

[Welshcookie 17]

OP, from reading your post, it sound like the best thing for you to do is to stop being so selfish, independent, and proud and start to be part of a team. You sound like a spoiled child who needs a time out. Me me me me me me me, that's all you seem to be saying.

solamentemiyti......Always comes up with something nice to say.....

[Jaylen Brit 0]

OP, from reading your post, it sound like the best thing for you to do is to stop being so selfish, independent, and proud and start to be part of a team. You sound like a spoiled child who needs a time out. Me me me me me me me, that's all you seem to be saying.

solamentemiyti......Always comes up with something nice to say.....

Shame it isn't 'goodbye'

[daisy16 0]

Good going sheridan! I've found that venting a little here on VJ gets the communication going at home! Looks like it works for you too. Your latest post is much more positive

***pssst*** just ignore really stupid comments that have absolutely no relevance!

****mutters "stooopid chopf##k who will not be named****

[DouglasSheridan 1]

boy, who put that one in a bad mood, guess he didnt go to lay down with anyone last night!

It's not bout me me me , its bout my husband and me finding a balance, you know what dude/dudette, the day you walk a mile in my shoes is the day you can guess what I'm like, who I am! Until then, if you aint got something interesting to say, then dont say it at all, a waste of yours and my time!

For the rest, thanks guys, I'm sure they'll be some clouds here and there, but Love rules, right?

Edited February 23, 2006 by DouglasSheridan

[ChristinaM 0]

OP, from reading your post, it sound like the best thing for you to do is to stop being so selfish, independent, and proud and start to be part of a team. You sound like a spoiled child who needs a time out. Me me me me me me me, that's all you seem to be saying.

smc's newest username?!

You sound perfectly reasonable, Sheridan. It's about give and take, and finding your balance. You'll get there!

[Fischkoepfin 1]

Good luck and welcome back, Sheridan!

It takes a while to get used to each other's quirks and habits and to make room for each other. Whenever I see my husband nowadays, we go through this readjustment-to-married-life phase, but after calming down and talking it through, everything goes back to functioning-as-a-couple-mode. When still living together, we found it helpful to reserve a few minutes every day to do nothing else but spend time together (no computer, no phone, etc).