Superficiality and the Greencard

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

At first glance your post seems to make sense but if you think twice... young hot female is not gonna marry a old man unless he`s loaded and a rich old man is not going to be faithfull just because his wife is young.If he is faithfull it is because it`s in his nature.Same with alcohol.Then why not marry a young man that doesn`t f**k around and doesn`t drink simply because he doesn`t have that in him?

You obviously do not know men. Good luck.

[chri'stina 190]

I get the best of both worlds. I am an American who is part Ukrainian. That must be why I was so wise in choosing my husband to marry.

[Trompe le Monde 1,107]

I have no Ukrainian blood but I also made a very wise decision regarding a husband

[faithinGod 8]

A young man who doesn't fu## around could be a young man who doesn't fu## around or he could also be a young man who does fu## around but is wayyyyy smarter than you are.

Same with old rich men, or do they loose some IQ while growing old ?lol

A good man is not defined by his age but by his caracter.

[chri'stina 190]

I have no Ukrainian blood but I also made a very wise decision regarding a husband

If you are not part Ukrainian, I doubt it.

[^_^ 5,021]

Same with old rich men, or do they loose some IQ while growing old ?lol

Let's just say the only people out there saying older people are wiser are really really old people.

[faithinGod 8]

You obviously do not know men. Good luck.

I knew enough to find me a good loving one,it`s all i need, as for luck , i`ve been blessed with tons of it so far!Thanks!

[chri'stina 190]

Same with old rich men, or do they loose some IQ while growing old ?lol

A good man is not defined by his age but by his caracter.

Stop talking sense. Some men here won't like it!!

[Fandango 1,440]

Yes, her words almost exactly. That is why she prefers older men "not so beautiful". 10-15 years older is "ideal". To her, the physical beauty of the man is very low on the list of characteristics she looks for, not unlike LOTS of women in her culture. What is wrong with security? If you are going to commit everything to a person for the rest of your life, you bet, security is very attractive. Ukrainian women have a very strong sense of family and want a strong family for their children, they want a strong and reliable man to provide a good future for their children. What is wrong with that? Ukrainian women aslo tend to be very faithful to their husbands as long as he is a good husband. Be a good husband to a Ukrainian woman and she will do anything which does not kill her to please you and will never risk her happy home which they value above all else.

She doesn't need to work, the green card is fairly meaningless to her, we have a place in Ukraine also so we could just as easily live there (and do for part of the year) so there really is no reason for there to be "green card fraud" at least in our case.

I find it odd when you talk about Ukrainian women as if you're reading out of a handbook. Are they all really that similar to each other?

So, what would that do to your marriage if the security on your part, and the looks on hers went away? God forbid, of course.

[faithinGod 8]

Let's just say the only people out there saying older people are wiser are really really old people.

No not wiser , but IQ is constant unless you`re hit by any type of dementia lolz

[Trompe le Monde 1,107]

If you are not part Ukrainian, I doubt it.

Does part Lithuanian count?

[Ban Hammer 14,185]

I get the best of both worlds. I am an American who is part Ukrainian. That must be why I was so wise in choosing my husband to marry.

prove it: put on 6" stiletto heels and walk gracefully on a cobblestone road.

[chri'stina 190]

Does part Lithuanian count?

I don't meet many people part Lithuanian. My cousins are part Lithuanian, so that sounds good to me. But You might need to ask the authority on this, Gary.

prove it: put on 6" stiletto heels and walk gracefully on a cobblestone road.

Nah.

[faithinGod 8]

Stop talking sense. Some men here won't like it!!

yeah, i did notice that lol

[Jenn! 918]

Quite predictably, I feel pretty much the opposite as Gary. I will admit that looks were important to me. I don't know that I could fall in love with someone who I didn't find physically attractive. And for me, being attracted to one's personality isn't the same. Call it superficial, but it is what it is. On the other hand, a man's money does not interest me. In fact, I almost always find that the personality/attitude that comes with a man of means is a total turn-off.

I guess in some ways I am kind of like an American man. Maybe if my marriage fails I should look for an FSU woman. It sounds like it might be a good match.

Edited July 13, 2010 by Jenn!