a filipina friend of mind in my area ...who just got married ask help...

[cherryred_04 1]

Hello everyone i meet a filipina friend in my area who arrived her as KI-VISA the got married last month but they notice they are not compitable each other and find it out they will fight for some of simply probs so she is worry about her situition if she can stay long in here because she have her cousin also married in th same state maybee can help her to stay ..she is asking the length of her stay in US and asking any option if its better for her to file a divorce?are what are also the possible result if she file a divorce even without a green card can she re marry again if by chance she can meet another guy..that is only her advance questions...but she scared about the situition the guy she become a husband treating her bad already..so anyone in here can advice my friends..that would be of great help for my friend..thanks to all...

[DARUMA07 25]

My advice for her would be to go back to the Philippines. There is nothing here for her now since she has a failed marriage and it would be better for her to be with her family back in the Philippines.

[sdw 10]

she can only adjust her status based on her marriage to her husband(petitioner of her k1 visa). If they are going to divorce she has to go back to her country.

[mariposang_gala 1]

My advice for her would be to go back to the Philippines. There is nothing here for her now since she has a failed marriage and it would be better for her to be with her family back in the Philippines.

i agree with daruma....there is really no reason for her to stay here consider that the petitioner and her had failed relationship...even she got divorce she still cant stay..especially with short time of marriage..no one can adjust her status except the petitioner..

[cherryred_04 1]

thanks for the quick reply so meaning to say if she will filled a divorce she have no chances to stay here in the US?What about if she filled a greencard for her own would that be not possible for my friend...hoping some other members here can add some good advice...well if going back to her homeplace is the best solution that is maybe the last option she can do...thanks again everyone...

[sdw 10]

she can only apply for her greencard through her marriage to the petitioner of her k1 visa.

[sjr09 155]

thanks for the quick reply so meaning to say if she will filled a divorce she have no chances to stay here in the US?What about if she filled a greencard for her own would that be not possible for my friend...hoping some other members here can add some good advice...well if going back to her homeplace is the best solution that is maybe the last option she can do...thanks again everyone...

She can not file for her GC she has not gone thru AOS and if she files for a divorce her only option, other then remain (illegally at some point in time) can and will have serious consequences. Best solution is to return to the PI.

[mariposang_gala 1]

Only the petitioner can appy for her status..which is Conditional Permanent Resident..

If she meet a new guy and plan to re marry after the divorce she still have to go back in philippines and let the new guy petition her...

And why divorce?why dont they try to go in marriage counsel and try to work it out...as you said its only a month and adjustment in your new life maybe is a big factor...you know stress,homesick,culture shock(maybe)...

[Robby999 1,024]

Hello everyone i meet a filipina friend in my area who arrived her as KI-VISA the got married last month but they notice they are not compitable each other and find it out they will fight for some of simply probs so she is worry about her situition if she can stay long in here because she have her cousin also married in th same state maybee can help her to stay ..she is asking the length of her stay in US and asking any option if its better for her to file a divorce?are what are also the possible result if she file a divorce even without a green card can she re marry again if by chance she can meet another guy..that is only her advance questions...but she scared about the situition the guy she become a husband treating her bad already..so anyone in here can advice my friends..that would be of great help for my friend..thanks to all...

I think your friend is very " lucky " to have a cousin that lives in the same state! I think your friend is also " lucky " to realize that after such a short marriage that they are incompatible! I am really " surprised " with her optimism of (meeting by chance another guy and remarrying), I wonder if by chance the future husband would of had difficulties with the petition in regards to income, criminal history, legal status, passport,travel costs, etc. Have you asked your friend about any attempts towards seeking professional help with their marriage issues or if he is abusing her has she sought help from law enforcement agencies or others? I sorry if this post seems cynical, but the question about the chance meeting of guy and then the cousin living in the same state and a very brief marriage, just threw flags up for me!

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Your friend's case sounds -and if it is not, apologies- like a textbook case of someone who just took a pansy to come over to the US; with no intention of remaining married. If she does not adjust her current status through her current husband, she will be out of status and subject to deportation.

If her marriage is THAT bad, she can always go home.

[DARUMA07 25]

Your friend's case sounds -and if it is not, apologies- like a textbook case of someone who just took a pansy to come over to the US; with no intention of remaining married. If she does not adjust her current status through her current husband, she will be out of status and subject to deportation.

If her marriage is THAT bad, she can always go home.

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[LadyGwen 0]

Hello everyone i meet a filipina friend in my area who arrived her as KI-VISA the got married last month but they notice they are not compitable each other and find it out they will fight for some of simply probs so she is worry about her situition if she can stay long in here because she have her cousin also married in th same state maybee can help her to stay ..she is asking the length of her stay in US and asking any option if its better for her to file a divorce?are what are also the possible result if she file a divorce even without a green card can she re marry again if by chance she can meet another guy..that is only her advance questions...but she scared about the situition the guy she become a husband treating her bad already..so anyone in here can advice my friends..that would be of great help for my friend..thanks to all...

I would recommend counseling first and they need time to adjust...

[justashooter 430]

i would reccomend that your scamming friend go home.

[Darnell 8,478]

well, its always sad news to hear, but

if impossible to know happy marriage, then suggest:

1. husband file for divorce

2. wife sign 'waiver to appear paper' same day

then she engage with 'work-abroad-nanny' company in singapore, for a year, regroup, regrow her life.

her cousin can not help her - this visa type requires husband to file AOS documents - and it must be the same human that filed the K-1 petition on her behalf.

[Peace be still 6]

Fraud Fraud Fraud. Heck just use VJ to find out ways to beat Homeland Security by trumping up so elaborate argument on why you should be allowed to stay here in the States. My question would be if she could stomach him when he visited her in her home land why then when she comes to USA now she doesn't want him at all. If this was fraud shame on her and shame on you for helping her. Too many of us do the immigration process the right way.