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I would not do that and I would not expect my wife to do it to me. I take her dancing and we stay out to all hours of the morning. We have even gotten up at three in the morning to go dancing at “After Hours” night clubs and have gotten home at noon. :dance::dance:

If you want to be partying without your husband or wife you should have stayed single or get a divorce. :yes:

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Peter Miami

Well that is certainly YOUR opinion, and very narrow minded one at that. Get divorced?! Geez... just what we need, a higher divorce rate. Your comments put the ball and chain into marriage.

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I would not do that and I would not expect my wife to do it to me. I take her dancing and we stay out to all hours of the morning. We have even gotten up at three in the morning to go dancing at “After Hours” night clubs and have gotten home at noon. :dance::dance:

If you want to be partying without your husband or wife you should have stayed single or get a divorce. :yes:

Regards,

Peter Miami

Well that is certainly YOUR opinion, and very narrow minded one at that. Get divorced?! Geez... just what we need, a higher divorce rate. Your comments put the ball and chain into marriage.

I gotta agree there...

Maybe we need a clarification of "partying".... if these means going out clubbing, drinking and dancing with people of the other sex and generally acting like you are not married...then something is off perhaps. If we can take partying to mean going out to a party that is being thrown by someone the spouse knows, then why shouldn't they be able to go and have a good time alone.

I look at it this way...if I don't want to go to a party being thrown by one of hubster's friends....why should I go and perhaps moan about being there (not that I would... :blush::innocent: ) and have hubster brought down by that when instead I can stay home and we both get what we want out of the evening.

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I would not do that and I would not expect my wife to do it to me. I take her dancing and we stay out to all hours of the morning. We have even gotten up at three in the morning to go dancing at “After Hours” night clubs and have gotten home at noon. :dance::dance:

If you want to be partying without your husband or wife you should have stayed single or get a divorce. :yes:

Regards,

Peter Miami

Well that is certainly YOUR opinion, and very narrow minded one at that. Get divorced?! Geez... just what we need, a higher divorce rate. Your comments put the ball and chain into marriage.

I gotta agree there...

Maybe we need a clarification of "partying".... if these means going out clubbing, drinking and dancing with people of the other sex and generally acting like you are not married...then something is off perhaps. If we can take partying to mean going out to a party that is being thrown by someone the spouse knows, then why shouldn't they be able to go and have a good time alone.

I look at it this way...if I don't want to go to a party being thrown by one of hubster's friends....why should I go and perhaps moan about being there (not that I would... :blush::innocent: ) and have hubster brought down by that when instead I can stay home and we both get what we want out of the evening.

I agree.. sometimes I dont like to go out (they just chat at a restuarant-bar kindathing.. since 5pm) with Bram's group of friends.. not becasue I dont like them but sometimes i have nothing to talk about :whistle: and so sometimes i feel it's better for him to just go and have fun.. i can have fun at home cooking or gardening or goout with my friends :D

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I gotta agree there...

Maybe we need a clarification of "partying".... if these means going out clubbing, drinking and dancing with people of the other sex and generally acting like you are not married...then something is off perhaps. If we can take partying to mean going out to a party that is being thrown by someone the spouse knows, then why shouldn't they be able to go and have a good time alone.

I look at it this way...if I don't want to go to a party being thrown by one of hubster's friends....why should I go and perhaps moan about being there (not that I would... :blush::innocent: ) and have hubster brought down by that when instead I can stay home and we both get what we want out of the evening.

Bingo Sister Frances!!! Marriage isn't about control, and spending every moment of everyday together. It's about compromise and commitment, along with TRUST!!! Now if there was something lurid going on, then I certainly would think it was wrong. My wife and I don't go out alone, and not sure that we will, but I certainly won't every tell her she can't, and she wouldn't tell me that either. Having time to each other is very important in any relationship. Otherwise it becomes smothering.

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I would not do that and I would not expect my wife to do it to me. I take her dancing and we stay out to all hours of the morning. We have even gotten up at three in the morning to go dancing at “After Hours” night clubs and have gotten home at noon. :dance::dance:

If you want to be partying without your husband or wife you should have stayed single or get a divorce. :yes:

Regards,

Peter Miami

Well that is certainly YOUR opinion, and very narrow minded one at that. Get divorced?! Geez... just what we need, a higher divorce rate. Your comments put the ball and chain into marriage.

Roi Aggie,

What is your deal with me? You always have to debate me on everything. I am only stating my opinion like everyone else. I am not trying to change anyone opinion. I did not ask what you though of my opinion.

I am not hiding behind a handle and I have my pictures up.

If you have a personal problem with me let me know and we can correct it. I live in Miami, Florida but I can travel!

Regards,

Peter Miami

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okaaaaaaaay... :huh:

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Roi Aggie,

What is your deal with me? You always have to debate me on everything. I am only stating my opinion like everyone else. I am not trying to change anyone opinion. I did not ask what you though of my opinion.

I am not hiding behind a handle and I have my pictures up.

If you have a personal problem with me let me know and we can correct it. I live in Miami, Florida but I can travel!

Regards,

Peter Miami

Hey Peter Miami,

Look at my post. It says I live on Kauai. My name is ROBERT, which everyone else seems to know except YOU, and calls me by, so I don't "hide behind a handle". YOU are the one that has a problem with me, mister "I make more than 6 figures and have a Masters degree". You need to check it at the door.

You live in Miami? D'uh!!! Never would have guessed it.

When have I "always" debated you on "everything"? You need to get your facts straight.

Robert Kauai

I'll be in Melbourne next week... come see me! You do know where that is don't you? Or do I need to draw you a map? Maybe you don't understand me?

Sheesh!!!

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05-20-06: Arrived at POE, Honolulu

07-17-06: Married

AOS Timeline

08-14-06: Mailed I-485 to Chicago

08-24-06: NOA for I-485

09-08-06: Biometrics Appointment

09-25-06: I-485 transferred to CSC

09-28-06: I-485 received at CSC

10-18-06: AOS Approved

10-21-06: Approval notice mailed

10-23-06: Received "Welcome Letter"

10-27-06: Received 2 yr Green Card

I-751 Timeline

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07-25-08: NOA for I-751

08-27-08: Biometrics Appointment

02-25-09: I-751 transferred to CSC

04-17-09: I-751 Approved

06-22-09: Received 10 yr Green Card

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07-20-09: Mailed N-400 to Lewisville, TX

07-23-09: NOA for N-400

08-14-09: Biometrics Appointment

09-08-09: Interview Date Oct 07

10-30-09: Oath Ceremony

11-20-09: Received Passport!!!

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Now now boys..play nice 17.gif

Seperate corners..wait for the bell... 18.gif and no hitting below the belt ;)

:P:hehe: Hi Jay!!! :D:blush: See what happens when YOU don't fight with me?! ;)

K-1 Timeline

11-29-05: Mailed I-129F Petition to CSC

12-06-05: NOA1

03-02-06: NOA2

03-23-06: Interview Date May 16

05-17-06: K-1 Visa Issued

05-20-06: Arrived at POE, Honolulu

07-17-06: Married

AOS Timeline

08-14-06: Mailed I-485 to Chicago

08-24-06: NOA for I-485

09-08-06: Biometrics Appointment

09-25-06: I-485 transferred to CSC

09-28-06: I-485 received at CSC

10-18-06: AOS Approved

10-21-06: Approval notice mailed

10-23-06: Received "Welcome Letter"

10-27-06: Received 2 yr Green Card

I-751 Timeline

07-21-08: Mailed I-751 to VSC

07-25-08: NOA for I-751

08-27-08: Biometrics Appointment

02-25-09: I-751 transferred to CSC

04-17-09: I-751 Approved

06-22-09: Received 10 yr Green Card

N-400 Timeline

07-20-09: Mailed N-400 to Lewisville, TX

07-23-09: NOA for N-400

08-14-09: Biometrics Appointment

09-08-09: Interview Date Oct 07

10-30-09: Oath Ceremony

11-20-09: Received Passport!!!

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hmmmm....

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But when we turn to the Hebrew literature, we do not find such jokes about the donkey. Rather the animal is known for its strength and its loyalty to its master (Genesis 49:14; Numbers 22:30).

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Roi Aggie,

What is your deal with me? You always have to debate me on everything. I am only stating my opinion like everyone else. I am not trying to change anyone opinion. I did not ask what you though of my opinion.

I am not hiding behind a handle and I have my pictures up.

If you have a personal problem with me let me know and we can correct it. I live in Miami, Florida but I can travel!

Regards,

Peter Miami

Hey Peter Miami,

Look at my post. It says I live on Kauai. My name is ROBERT, which everyone else seems to know except YOU, and calls me by, so I don't "hide behind a handle". YOU are the one that has a problem with me, mister "I make more than 6 figures and have a Masters degree". You need to check it at the door.

You live in Miami? D'uh!!! Never would have guessed it.

When have I "always" debated you on "everything"? You need to get your facts straight.

Robert Kauai

I'll be in Melbourne next week... come see me! You do know where that is don't you? Or do I need to draw you a map? Maybe you don't understand me?

Sheesh!!!

Yes I do know where Melbourne, Florida is at. Give me an address and I will be there. Tell me a time and place (address) and I will pay you a visit. Or if you want my address I will give it to you.

Peter Miami

Johanna & Peter

Colombia / U.S.A.

I-129F / K-1 Fiancee Visa

08-20-02 - Met Johanna in Armenia, Colombia

10-05-05 - K-1 Sent to TSC

10-14-05 - Received NOA1 by E-Mail (Day 9)

12-22-05 - Reveived NOA2 By E-Mail & Mail (Day 78)

03-03-06 - Interview Date! (Day 149) Approved

03-10-06 - Johanna Arrived

05-27-06 - Married

I-485 / AOS (Did not applied for EAD or AP)

06-05-06 - Sent I-485 application to Chicago via USPS (Day 1)

06-06-06 - AOS Package Delivered at 12:29PM

06-12-06 - Received NOA1 by Mail

06-14-06 - Check Cashed

06-22-06 - Received Appointment Notice for Biometrics

06-26-06 - "Request for Additional Evidence" Online, waiting for letter

06-29-06 - Biometrics Done!

06-30-06 - Received RFE Letter by mail. (Missing Birth Certificate)

07-10-06 - Sent RFE by Express Mail USPS

07-11-06 - RFE Delivered @ 10:54AM Sign by D. Atwell

08-28-06 - AOS Transferred to CSC E-mail & USCIS Website (Day 85)

08-30-06 - Touched #1

08-31-06 - Touched #2

08-31-06 - E-Mail from CRIS & USCIS-CSSO - CSC received AOS Application

09-01-06 - Touched #3

09-01-06 - NOA by Mail Regarding Transfer to CSC

09-05-06 - Touched #4

09-07-06 - Touched #5

09-13-06 - Touched #6

09-15-06 - AOS Approved by Online Status & E-mail

09-21-06 - Received GC and Welcome Letter (Day 109)

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Roi Aggie,

What is your deal with me? You always have to debate me on everything. I am only stating my opinion like everyone else. I am not trying to change anyone opinion. I did not ask what you though of my opinion.

I am not hiding behind a handle and I have my pictures up.

If you have a personal problem with me let me know and we can correct it. I live in Miami, Florida but I can travel!

Regards,

Peter Miami

Hey Peter Miami,

Look at my post. It says I live on Kauai. My name is ROBERT, which everyone else seems to know except YOU, and calls me by, so I don't "hide behind a handle". YOU are the one that has a problem with me, mister "I make more than 6 figures and have a Masters degree". You need to check it at the door.

You live in Miami? D'uh!!! Never would have guessed it.

When have I "always" debated you on "everything"? You need to get your facts straight.

Robert Kauai

I'll be in Melbourne next week... come see me! You do know where that is don't you? Or do I need to draw you a map? Maybe you don't understand me?

Sheesh!!!

Yes I do know where Melbourne, Florida is at. Give me an address and I will be there. Tell me a time and place (address) and I will pay you a visit. Or if you want my address I will give it to you.

Peter Miami

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vj sheesh..it is the week-end friends..lets chill and enjoy the time off work..

Peace to All creatures great and small............................................

But when we turn to the Hebrew literature, we do not find such jokes about the donkey. Rather the animal is known for its strength and its loyalty to its master (Genesis 49:14; Numbers 22:30).

Peppi_drinking_beer.jpg

my burro, bosco ..enjoying a beer in almaty

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...st&id=10835

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