Waiting Sucks

[Brad and Vika 129]

I can hear the drums beating

[Gone To Texas 0]

OMG you men make me sick.... i may be wrong but the idea of a K1 isnt to wait n see if its going to work!! people who are waiting paitently for their K1 because like me didnt want to spend their first married year of their live living apart, not to see if they if maybe it was going to work out or not ( you should already know that - sure not every marriage is 100%) . we made sure that we wanted to be together before we even thought about applying for a K1. i bloody well hope you paid for her expenses in her home town ( ie medical and visa application) coz id would be mad if i paid all that money just to wait n see if it worked out. i guess you've been lucky so far coz it has worked out. and she is none the wiser, but still shame on you!!! and i dont give a ####### that you made your statement 2.5 weeks ago. its still not right!.....shame on you!!

I'm 99% sure that somewhere in the immigration law it's written that the 90 days was given EXACTLY so that the man could make sure the woman met his needs. It does me absolutely no good to bring a woman over here who can't cook, or who doesn't know what kind of beer she needs to run out and buy when I'm thirsty. I work hard at McDonalds all day, so I need a woman who doesn't mind massaging my weary feet and washing the grease out of my uniforms. And hey, I'm a classy guy. It's not like I'm going to have my extra women right in front of her. But if she does find out about them, I want a well-behaved woman who will understand that sometimes a guy needs a little variety. I don't want her getting all upset just because daddy feels like a little different kinda sugar ever now and then. So 90 days is about perfect to make sure she's a real lady, and not just some whiny crybaby who can't bring herself to cleaning dog ####### off the carpet just because my dog has loose bowels. Oh, and she has to look like a Victoria's Secret model while doing it too. Is this really too much to ask?

Bissel makes a really cool carpet shampooer....upright model, with two easy-change water reservoirs. And you might get the dog checked for worms. Is he dragging his butt on the carpet? You know.....when they do that, it's not just for a party gag.

Sorry....couldn't resist.

[BluesTraveler 0]

so there is nothing wrong with ordering another MOB to keep me happy 3 to 5 more years. After four or five of these transactions....

Remember buy 3 and the 4th one is FREE. Make sure you keep your receipts.

[baron555 934]

so there is nothing wrong with ordering another MOB to keep me happy 3 to 5 more years. After four or five of these transactions....

Remember buy 3 and the 4th one is FREE. Make sure you keep your receipts.

My MOB only cost me really $99. I should have bought 2 or 3 when I had the chance. No reason not to have a selection to choose from?!!!

[Gone To Texas 0]

OMG you men make me sick.... i may be wrong but the idea of a K1 isnt to wait n see if its going to work!! people who are waiting paitently for their K1 because like me didnt want to spend their first married year of their live living apart, not to see if they if maybe it was going to work out or not ( you should already know that - sure not every marriage is 100%) . we made sure that we wanted to be together before we even thought about applying for a K1. i bloody well hope you paid for her expenses in her home town ( ie medical and visa application) coz id would be mad if i paid all that money just to wait n see if it worked out. i guess you've been lucky so far coz it has worked out. and she is none the wiser, but still shame on you!!! and i dont give a ####### that you made your statement 2.5 weeks ago. its still not right!.....shame on you!!

I'm 99% sure that somewhere in the immigration law it's written that the 90 days was given EXACTLY so that the man could make sure the woman met his needs. It does me absolutely no good to bring a woman over here who can't cook, or who doesn't know what kind of beer she needs to run out and buy when I'm thirsty. I work hard at McDonalds all day, so I need a woman who doesn't mind massaging my weary feet and washing the grease out of my uniforms. And hey, I'm a classy guy. It's not like I'm going to have my extra women right in front of her. But if she does find out about them, I want a well-behaved woman who will understand that sometimes a guy needs a little variety. I don't want her getting all upset just because daddy feels like a little different kinda sugar ever now and then. So 90 days is about perfect to make sure she's a real lady, and not just some whiny crybaby who can't bring herself to cleaning dog ####### off the carpet just because my dog has loose bowels. Oh, and she has to look like a Victoria's Secret model while doing it too. Is this really too much to ask?

Do they still have all those wild....and a bit scary....clubs off of Tanjong Pagar?

[Kailey 3]

I'm 99% sure that somewhere in the immigration law it's written that the 90 days was given EXACTLY so that the man could make sure the woman met his needs. It does me absolutely no good to bring a woman over here who can't cook, or who doesn't know what kind of beer she needs to run out and buy when I'm thirsty. I work hard at McDonalds all day, so I need a woman who doesn't mind massaging my weary feet and washing the grease out of my uniforms. And hey, I'm a classy guy. It's not like I'm going to have my extra women right in front of her. But if she does find out about them, I want a well-behaved woman who will understand that sometimes a guy needs a little variety. I don't want her getting all upset just because daddy feels like a little different kinda sugar ever now and then. So 90 days is about perfect to make sure she's a real lady, and not just some whiny crybaby who can't bring herself to cleaning dog ####### off the carpet just because my dog has loose bowels. Oh, and she has to look like a Victoria's Secret model while doing it too. Is this really too much to ask?

Ehm… it’s so funny to read the demands... Victoria’s Secret model bringing you cold beer asking you in a perfect English if her Master desires tantric sex or Thai massage today? yeah... One of those tales to tell to the guys . Truth is that if you can’t offer anything better than a GC you won’t get anything better than a FSU village woman who desperately wants to get a GC.

[clueless_in_usa 8]

Ehm… it’s so funny to read the demands... Victoria’s Secret model bringing you cold beer asking you in a perfect English if her Master desires tantric sex or Thai massage today? yeah... One of those tales to tell to the guys . Truth is that if you can’t offer anything better than a GC you won’t get anything better than a FSU village woman who desperately wants to get a GC.

What can I offer better than a GC?

A GC is usually a "hot" chick magnet!!!

[Gone To Texas 0]

Ehm… it’s so funny to read the demands... Victoria’s Secret model bringing you cold beer asking you in a perfect English if her Master desires tantric sex or Thai massage today? yeah... One of those tales to tell to the guys . Truth is that if you can’t offer anything better than a GC you won’t get anything better than a FSU village woman who desperately wants to get a GC.

What can I offer better than a GC?

A GC is usually a "hot" chick magnet!!!

You know....when I was in the military, stationed in Europe, I heard the same thing said about military dependant ID cards.....that this was what attracted the "locals". However, I remember quite a few guys that left there with not so much as a date with one of these women, much less a wife.

[Allie and Nigel 2]

Is this thread a joke? Are these men for real? This subject makes me truly sick to my stomach! I'm not even going to comment further. I just cant believe what I'm reading....!!

Edited September 28, 2009 by Allie and Nigel

[zqt3344 21]

If Russian women are anything remotely close to what Ukrainian women are like, then trust me it will be well worth the wait and everything will work out great, usually takes about 4-6 months to get K1 approved and sent over for interview in Ukraine. I would expect it would take around 6 months average to get K1 and through the interview and back to the USA. Lot of it has to do with Russia and Ukraine being different language, the police record and background deal stuff required by Homeland Security now, and well face it both are former cold war enemies and things have still not thawed out real well yet and neither one is in the EU or on board at NATO and USCIS just takes their merry time due to lot of this. But it is worth the wait. I have never seen anything like it in my whole life while visiting eastern Europe or Ukraine, walking around any city street it was like a man paradise, a dream come true, the most beautiful women I have ever seen in my natural born life and I have been all over the world!

I have decided to cancel my trip to Russia planned for the first week of October. We were both really looking forward to the time together and doing a celebration (unofficial) of our wedding in Russia for family and friends. Because of financial concerns, we have decided to postpone the celebration until after the interview and before she comes to America.

This puts me firmly in the camp of having to wait without the joy of a mid-K1 break together. Now, I really feel the pain of having to wait. Yes, I know it will only be another month or so till NOA2, then a couple weeks in New Hampshire then soon we get the interview date then get the papers together then the interview, etc. When we were planning the time together in October, the wait did not seem so bad; now with no time together next month, the wait really sucks!!

Thanks for letting me vent.

[Gone To Texas 0]

Is this thread a joke? Are these men for real? This subject makes me truly sick to my stomach! I'm not even going to comment further. I just cant believe what I'm reading....!!

First rule of thumb.....never pass out on a bench in Hyde Park......ehm.........always try to stay sober enough to make it to Heathrow. They have comfortable benches, and security won't mess with you if you look like any other young foolish American who has done too much pub crawling, and can't find your way back to the Union Jack Club.

Or if you have buddies with the Met, they can let you crash in the police barracks.

Totally unrelated to the current subject matter, but I couldn't resist.

[Gone To Texas 0]

Is this thread a joke? Are these men for real? This subject makes me truly sick to my stomach! I'm not even going to comment further. I just cant believe what I'm reading....!!

First rule of thumb.....never pass out on a bench in Hyde Park......ehm.........always try to stay sober enough to make it to Heathrow. They have comfortable benches, and security won't mess with you if you look like any other young foolish American who has done too much pub crawling, and can't find your way back to the Union Jack Club.

Or if you have buddies with the Met, they can let you crash in the police barracks.

Totally unrelated to the current subject matter, but I couldn't resist.

And to clear the confusion....if any....I noticed that you guys were K1'ing from the UK (new term? K1'ing?).....so I had a few flashbacks.

And I still agree that waiting for your fiance' to get to you is worth the wait as well.

[BluesTraveler 0]

Is this thread a joke? Are these men for real?

As real as their spouses from Pitcairn Islands!!! that's a fact jack!!!

You know what else is real, I currently am in the possession of the deed for the Brooklyn Bridge. I no longer live in NYC and I am looking for someone to take this bridge off my hands. I will sell it to the first person who makes a reasonable offer. If I don't get a reasonable offer, I will put it up on eBay, I am sure I will get a few takers.

[BluesTraveler 0]

My MOB only cost me really $99. I should have bought 2 or 3 when I had the chance. No reason not to have a selection to choose from?!!!

Did you see Saturday Night Live this week??? They had a guy who was in Russia trying to decide between two wives. 1 of them was $10 cheaper. It was a hard decision. http://www.hulu.com/collections/298/98327

[clueless_in_usa 8]

My MOB only cost me really $99. I should have bought 2 or 3 when I had the chance. No reason not to have a selection to choose from?!!!

Did you see Saturday Night Live this week??? They had a guy who was in Russia trying to decide between two wives. 1 of them was $10 cheaper. It was a hard decision. http://www.hulu.com/collections/298/98327

I agree with that video ...

... this is SOOO hard!!! Too many to settle just with one.