Prenuptial

[Chica Yeyé 41]

aaaawww

[trinket 30]

I wish I knew a few clause about prenup. Apparently there are prenup where the couple decides who is doing the dishes every weekend, who would do the laundary at this or that day. I want a prenup like that where my husband would kiss my a$$ everytime I say so, he would call me queen in front of his friends and treat me ice cream every day

So there, I feel cheated that I didn't have a prenup of this kind.

On a serious note, I wouldn't mind if I was marrying some rich guy who made his money before meeting me, he has his rights to save his money, but since I married a poor guy, we didn't have any pre-nup

[Chica Yeyé 41]

I wish I knew a few clause about prenup. Apparently there are prenup where the couple decides who is doing the dishes every weekend, who would do the laundary at this or that day. I want a prenup like that where my husband would kiss my a$$ everytime I say so, he would call me queen in front of his friends and treat me ice cream every day

So there, I feel cheated that I didn't have a prenup of this kind.

On a serious note, I wouldn't mind if I was marrying some rich guy who made his money before meeting me, he has his rights to save his money, but since I married a poor guy, we didn't have any pre-nup

eeeewww.... just remembering u iz teh poor makes me rethink our friendship

[reeses16 8]

I think in certain circumstances prenups can be a good idea. They are mutually agreed upon, so I would have never signed or proposed anything unfair. If you are asked to sign one, read it, negotiate it (re-negotiate), and if you're still not satisfied then you have some decisions to make. Not only to prenups protect in terms of divorce (people don't go into marriage thinking of divorce, but it happens- think of how much less stressful a divorce could be if you already knew how assests would be split from the begining) it also protects the entire families. If either person has children a prenup can be used to prevent the unintentional disinheritance of previous children.

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[Chica Yeyé 41]

I think in certain circumstances prenups can be a good idea. They are mutually agreed upon, so I would have never signed or proposed anything unfair. If you are asked to sign one, read it, negotiate it (re-negotiate), and if you're still not satisfied then you have some decisions to make. Not only to prenups protect in terms of divorce (people don't go into marriage thinking of divorce, but it happens- think of how much less stressful a divorce could be if you already knew how assests would be split from the begining) it also protects the entire families. If either person has children a prenup can be used to prevent the unintentional disinheritance of previous children.

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Exactly right ---

[_Simpson_ 250]

my opinion of prenup

it means u r going to the marriage with the believe that it will fail

you are only focusing on the failure of the marriage so u dont lose what u have

marriage is life sharing, not what i have and what u have and who gets what.

abby n sheryl

Its a real world approach to a situation IMO. You must protect yourself, there some bad people out there. There are scammers out there that will work hard for your money and good at what they do. That said theirs reasonable pre-nups and unreasonable. I think one that protects you and your hard earned money while financially helping your wife if something was to happen is reasonable.

Edited July 31, 2009 by looking_up

[sara..... 371]

i requested a pre nup

the reason is simple as muslims we have a marraige contract it is not enforceable in the courts in the usa so our pre nup has what is in our marraige contract

sara

[Rhiannercakes 14]

I don't know enough about prenups to really say if I'd sign one or not.

I don't think my fiance and I are getting one (since the subject's never been brought up), but if he wished to discuss it, I'd discuss it and see what he has to say.

[AbbynSheryl 0]

I think in certain circumstances prenups can be a good idea. They are mutually agreed upon, so I would have never signed or proposed anything unfair. If you are asked to sign one, read it, negotiate it (re-negotiate), and if you're still not satisfied then you have some decisions to make. Not only to prenups protect in terms of divorce (people don't go into marriage thinking of divorce, but it happens- think of how much less stressful a divorce could be if you already knew how assests would be split from the begining) it also protects the entire families. If either person has children a prenup can be used to prevent the unintentional disinheritance of previous children.

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u suppose to go into marriage till death do us apart and worry about the thing if it happens then.....

your quote, " think of how much less stressful a divorce could be if you already knew how assests would be split from the begining" you are focusing on the thing before entering in to life long marriage.

good thinking

if i have any doubt about the marriage or SO then i will not marry bcz why go into marriage thinking if it happens, u get what u focus on and if u keep focusing on divorce then it will definately happen.

you might dont like my view of thinking but i am entitle to have opinion.

abby n sheryl

[Chica Yeyé 41]

You just can't see beyond your nose, can you? People have told you numerous reasons why prenuptial agreements are made, none of which have to do with divorce and much to do with protecting the family assets and the children, and the spouses; and yet you continue to vent about it. Try reading. Your idea of marriage is pretty romantic, and I bet, religious based. Get this one: marriage is a civil contract. no, it is not a match made in heaven between soulmates and ####### like that. it is a contract between human beings. Period.

[EstebanTrabajos 7]

TOOMALA

--------> Len <---------- romantic newlywed

P.S. W/or w/o a prenup there is still 50/50 chance that they will divorce

END OF THE LOVE STORY

Edited July 31, 2009 by TävôLuDô

[NickD 203]

How would you feel if your fiance would ask you to sign a pre-nuptial agreement prior to your marriage. Would you feel bad about it?

I just want to know the opinion of the majority on this issue:)

Get married in Wisconsin, State of Wisconsin does not recognize pre-nuptial agreements. Of course, the only time they come up, is in a divorce court. I feel a pre-nuptial agreement is a prelude to a divorce. Not even sure how the USCIS feels about these agreements, certainly contrary to the I-864.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

How would you feel if your fiance would ask you to sign a pre-nuptial agreement prior to your marriage. Would you feel bad about it?

I just want to know the opinion of the majority on this issue:)

Get married in Wisconsin, State of Wisconsin does not recognize pre-nuptial agreements. Of course, the only time they come up, is in a divorce court. I feel a pre-nuptial agreement is a prelude to a divorce. Not even sure how the USCIS feels about these agreements, certainly contrary to the I-864.

Wrong. Prenuptial agreements cannot and do not void the I-864: this is a common misconception. USCIS does not care or even ask about prenuptials

[EstebanTrabajos 7]

one thing is the state, city, county judicial system another is the federal immigration system

[Chica Yeyé 41]

one thing is the state, city, county judicial system another is the federal immigration system

You don't say!!!