Is it ok to go out tonight with friends

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

He should just cut his balls off and Fedex them to her.

I will send them to you

How about you not cut them off at all? Freak.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

I will play pool the girls instead of dancing at the same place.lol

Play pool? Balls and a stick? Are you sure this isn't code?

I KNOW it is, from my times as an escort . I am outraged

[Marina-Del 10]

I think that if you have to post on this forum to see if it's okay for you to go out with your friends, than most likely it is not okay (for your relationship) to go out!

That being said, I don't care if you go out and I don't care if my fiance goes out and he doesn't care if I go out (or dance with other guys within reason...no grinding of course, but you don't have to grind to dance!) But every relationship is different and it sounds like your fiancee will not be okay with you going.

But it sounds like you are going anyway and just not dancing which you already said would be really hard. Good luck with that. And let us know how it goes!

[adam1 1]

Ask for permission?? Get conformation??

you can take it any way you want (permission?? Get conformation??) but i will make sure she is happy, because she always make me happy

Let me guess, she found out about this thread. Smart man.

dod she doesn't have internet and she doesn't like it either. I called her and asked her. she said, you are a grown men do what you think is right.

Edited April 10, 2009 by adam1

[Chica Yeyé 41]

dod she doesn't have internet and she doesn't like it either. I called her and asked her. she you are a grown men do what you think is right.

That is what you think. How can you be so sure she is not already reading this?

[Not Available 0]

How would you feel if you found out your fiancee was grinding it up with other guys at the club?

Maybe I'm the black sheep or something here, but if my husband doesn't feel comfortable with something, I don't do it, and vice versa. It's a relationship, and if you're freaking out because your fiancee doesn't feel comfortable with you doing this (which I can totally understand), then maybe you're not ready for a relationship.

[minimule 3]

going out by urself is totally normal, even needed, and i don t see why she would have a problem with it.

dancing is fine as well, dancing one on one with a random chick...not so much....

but then we all have different opinions.

[mawilson 2,133]

dod she doesn't have internet and she doesn't like it either. I called her and asked her. she said, you are a grown men do what you think is right.

Ooh I love the "do what you think is right" passive-aggressive way of saying 'no'.

Edited April 10, 2009 by mawilson

[almaty 19]

100% correct..do it..and i will torture you, the rest of your miserable life

[childress_london 3]

dod she doesn't have internet and she doesn't like it either. I called her and asked her. she said, you are a grown men do what you think is right.

Ooh I love the "do what you think is right" passive-aggressive way of saying 'no'.

[adam1 1]

dod she doesn't have internet and she doesn't like it either. I called her and asked her. she you are a grown men do what you think is right.

That is what you think. How can you be so sure she is not already reading this?

she doesn't even know she was aproved for her I-130, she said let me know when I'm having my Interview. and you expect her to know about VJ

Edited April 10, 2009 by adam1

[mawilson 2,133]

100% correct..do it..and i will torture you, the rest of your miserable life

[~PalmTreeGurl~ 154]

dod she doesn't have internet and she doesn't like it either. I called her and asked her. she you are a grown men do what you think is right.

That is what you think. How can you be so sure she is not already reading this?

she doesn't even know she was aproved for her I-130, she ley me know when I'm having my Interview. and you expect her to know about VJ

i think shes the one that is going to be interviewed? or you?

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

My friends from college invited me to go out with them to an international party tonight, I want to go but I don't know if my wife will like it or not. She overseas waiting on her visa and I'm here waiting to. I ask her one time and she said just live you normal life and be happy. The problem is she doesn't know that if I go out to club nights I will have to dance with girls and that's one thing that I can't help Hip Hop

Help me out here I don't want to lie, at the same time want to go out, I can go out but not dance and that's hard to!

or should I ask for permission?

Do it now, while you can. Once you get married, your life is pretty much over.

[Marina-Del 10]

If she told you "do what you think is right" that means NO.

She doesn't want you to go and if you do, she'll most likely wonder what went down.......