URGENT ADVISE

[Ellie-and-David 38]

Act fast, withdraw supporting evidence.

And he misinterpreted the £17,500 info - that figure is based upon what a individual must earn to petition for their significant other. It's not what she "gets" if she leaves you. But if you dont stop this AOS from going through, you will be obligated to ensure that she isnt a burden on the state.

Dont drag your heels, make sure it gets to the right people. USCIS are the right people.

~Ellie

ps - I'm sorry about your situation.

[William33 110]

The FBI will not take any action on this. I have several good friends that are FBI agents and through personal immigration knowledge, can confidently assure you that this is out of their jurisdiction.

The proper reporting avenue would be the USCIS. If appropriate, you should forward all available evidence to USCIS on this case and withdraw any petitions/documents outstanding.

i just got off the phone

this is an ICE issue, I did not file a report. It is a deal ender to the marriage if I make a report...instant deportation I suspect. She wouldnt even fight it I am sure and just leave on her own.

but my main question

HOW DO I PROTECT MYSELF FINANCIALLY if I remain married and this bombshell is dropped on me?

Given your previous statement that you have yet to file AOS paperwork, to include the I-864 (http://www.uscis.gov/files/form/I-864.pdf), you have not committed to any financial responsibility.

Having said that, you should report suspected cases of visa fraud to ICE or USCIS.

Edited February 21, 2009 by William33

[Time2gopeacefully 0]

The FBI will not take any action on this. I have several good friends that are FBI agents and through personal immigration knowledge, can confidently assure you that this is out of their jurisdiction.

The proper reporting avenue would be the USCIS. If appropriate, you should forward all available evidence to USCIS on this case and withdraw any petitions/documents outstanding.

i just got off the phone

this is an ICE issue, I did not file a report. It is a deal ender to the marriage if I make a report...instant deportation I suspect. She wouldnt even fight it I am sure and just leave on her own.

but my main question

HOW DO I PROTECT MYSELF FINANCIALLY if I remain married and this bombshell is dropped on me?

Listen my friend, THIS IS A CRIME and you CAN NOT get involved on it unless you wanna consider yourself a criminal too. Protect yourself and do what is right!!!

a crime? i highly doubt it, or that they go after the victim who loves his wife. so please, no more nonsense on saying failure to act upon a plan is a crime please

Well, i don't know what you call it then. To me it's a CRIME. You can see what is happening here.

[retiredfromforum 1]

The FBI will not take any action on this. I have several good friends that are FBI agents and through personal immigration knowledge, can confidently assure you that this is out of their jurisdiction.

The proper reporting avenue would be the USCIS. If appropriate, you should forward all available evidence to USCIS on this case and withdraw any petitions/documents outstanding.

i just got off the phone

this is an ICE issue, I did not file a report. It is a deal ender to the marriage if I make a report...instant deportation I suspect. She wouldnt even fight it I am sure and just leave on her own.

but my main question

HOW DO I PROTECT MYSELF FINANCIALLY if I remain married and this bombshell is dropped on me?

Given your previous statement that you have yet to file AOS paperwork, to include the I-864 (http://www.uscis.gov/files/form/I-864.pdf), you have not committed to any financial responsibility.

Having said that, you should report suspected cased of visa fraud to ICE or USCIS.

i have filed for the AOS already, it should be complete in 1 month

[William33 110]

The FBI will not take any action on this. I have several good friends that are FBI agents and through personal immigration knowledge, can confidently assure you that this is out of their jurisdiction.

The proper reporting avenue would be the USCIS. If appropriate, you should forward all available evidence to USCIS on this case and withdraw any petitions/documents outstanding.

i just got off the phone

this is an ICE issue, I did not file a report. It is a deal ender to the marriage if I make a report...instant deportation I suspect. She wouldnt even fight it I am sure and just leave on her own.

but my main question

HOW DO I PROTECT MYSELF FINANCIALLY if I remain married and this bombshell is dropped on me?

Given your previous statement that you have yet to file AOS paperwork, to include the I-864 (http://www.uscis.gov/files/form/I-864.pdf), you have not committed to any financial responsibility.

Having said that, you should report suspected cased of visa fraud to ICE or USCIS.

i have filed for the AOS already, it should be complete in 1 month

To protect yourself, you should contact the USCIS immediately and withdraw the AOS petition. You should also advise them of your perception of potential visa fraud, involving this case.

[Ban Hammer 12,845]

The FBI will not take any action on this. I have several good friends that are FBI agents and through personal immigration knowledge, can confidently assure you that this is out of their jurisdiction.

The proper reporting avenue would be the USCIS. If appropriate, you should forward all available evidence to USCIS on this case and withdraw any petitions/documents outstanding.

i just got off the phone

this is an ICE issue, I did not file a report. It is a deal ender to the marriage if I make a report...instant deportation I suspect. She wouldnt even fight it I am sure and just leave on her own.

but my main question

HOW DO I PROTECT MYSELF FINANCIALLY if I remain married and this bombshell is dropped on me?

Given your previous statement that you have yet to file AOS paperwork, to include the I-864 (http://www.uscis.gov/files/form/I-864.pdf), you have not committed to any financial responsibility.

Having said that, you should report suspected cased of visa fraud to ICE or USCIS.

i have filed for the AOS already, it should be complete in 1 month

To protect yourself, you should contact the USCIS immediately and withdraw the AOS petition. You should also advise them of your perception of potential visa fraud, involving this case.

so time for an infopass appointment at the nearest uscis office?

[anitacastillo 0]

Sorry you have this shixxy situation! :angry:

Has your AOS file been transferred to CSC? Hopefully not and you will be scheduled for an interview - which you don't go to.

Either way I think you should make an InfoPass appt and withdraw your I-864.

Sounds like you have some feelings and don't want her deported. You married her in good faith. If that email was sent to her by a friend - I don't think your "wife" is being truthful.

[himher 634]

From http://www.uscis.gov/propub/ProPubVAP.jsp?...c60f144e8aeb8ce

Your wife's b/f was wrong about (1) teeeeny but significant thing:

As long as your wife was not on an IR1/CR1:

(h) Withdrawal of an affidavit of support or Form I-864A . A person who has signed a Form I-864, I-864EZ or I-864A may withdraw the Form. If the person does so, USCIS will adjudicate the application for adjustment of status as if the withdrawn Form I-864, I-864A or I-864EZ had never been filed. In an adjustment of status case, a withdrawal of the Form I-864, I-864EZ or I-864A is not effective unless it is in writing and USCIS actually receives the withdrawal before the final decision on the adjustment application. In an immigrant visa case, once a consular office r has issued an immigrant visa, no Form I-864, I-864EZ or I-864A may be withdrawn unless the visa petitioner also withdraws the visa petition.

If your wife's I485 has not been approved you can withdraw your support affidavit. I would print the emails, and send in written notice withdrawing your affidavit due to spouse conspiring to commit fraud (with the emails attached). Let the system take it after that.

If the person does so, USCIS will adjudicate the application for adjustment of status as if the withdrawn Form I-864, I-864A or I-864EZ had never been filed is government diplo-speak for "deny the I-485".

I have sympathy for your case. Best of luck to you. It's probably a moral obligation (up to you) to at least offer her a flight home.

[thepizzadude 26]

The FBI will not take any action on this. I have several good friends that are FBI agents and through personal immigration knowledge, can confidently assure you that this is out of their jurisdiction.

The proper reporting avenue would be the USCIS. If appropriate, you should forward all available evidence to USCIS on this case and withdraw any petitions/documents outstanding.

i just got off the phone

this is an ICE issue, I did not file a report. It is a deal ender to the marriage if I make a report...instant deportation I suspect. She wouldnt even fight it I am sure and just leave on her own.

but my main question

HOW DO I PROTECT MYSELF FINANCIALLY if I remain married and this bombshell is dropped on me?

Dude did you NOT read this line "I would remain loving you and being your friend and lover regardless of whether we married or not."

Dump this good for nothing &%^#$* , obviously your love for her does not matter to her, bite the bullet now to save yourself much pain later.

[thepizzadude 26]

The FBI will not take any action on this. I have several good friends that are FBI agents and through personal immigration knowledge, can confidently assure you that this is out of their jurisdiction.

The proper reporting avenue would be the USCIS. If appropriate, you should forward all available evidence to USCIS on this case and withdraw any petitions/documents outstanding.

i just got off the phone

this is an ICE issue, I did not file a report. It is a deal ender to the marriage if I make a report...instant deportation I suspect. She wouldnt even fight it I am sure and just leave on her own.

but my main question

HOW DO I PROTECT MYSELF FINANCIALLY if I remain married and this bombshell is dropped on me?

Listen my friend, THIS IS A CRIME and you CAN NOT get involved on it unless you wanna consider yourself a criminal too. Protect yourself and do what is right!!!

a crime? i highly doubt it, or that they go after the victim who loves his wife. so please, no more nonsense on saying failure to act upon a plan is a crime please

OK then just stick with the ITS not a crime thing...even though according to the letter it states what they have discussed in the past...SHE ENTERED INTO THE MARRIAGE fraudulently...and that is A CRIME

[sj5 4]

Print her email messages with this guy.

[himher 634]

It is not "instant deportation", but the liklihood of eventual deportation is pretty high. Your best course of action is to quietly withdraw support and get this girl out of your life. DO NOT let her talk you into following through with this just so she can stay. That puts you in a situation of being involved in immigration fraud as well. As it stands, you have some new information, you act on it by removing yourself from this case, and then let her case stand or fall on its own "merits". You want to live always having to watch your back? You want a trumped up domestic violence case on you? That's what this guy will eventually suggest she do. If she wants to she can f--k you over but good and she can then benefit from it. It's more than just support - for her to file for the lifting conditions waiver she has to prove abuse or domestic violence so not only your pocketbook but your reputation is at risk here. Your proof she planned it doesnt change the fact that you have to pay a lawyer to get that proof in front of a court to defend yourself when it happens.

The FBI will not take any action on this. I have several good friends that are FBI agents and through personal immigration knowledge, can confidently assure you that this is out of their jurisdiction.

The proper reporting avenue would be the USCIS. If appropriate, you should forward all available evidence to USCIS on this case and withdraw any petitions/documents outstanding.

i just got off the phone

this is an ICE issue, I did not file a report. It is a deal ender to the marriage if I make a report...instant deportation I suspect. She wouldnt even fight it I am sure and just leave on her own.

but my main question

HOW DO I PROTECT MYSELF FINANCIALLY if I remain married and this bombshell is dropped on me?

[Rach 0]

Calm down. Either you help her out or you don't. Hope you would take some time to think it over and make a decision that works best for you. There is no right or wrong.

[idocare 3]

If your wife saved the e-mail from this fellow; then I'd be very concerned, there would be nothing to talk about with her, seems like that e-mail alone speaks volumes on her intent.

My ex-husband scammed me to get his greencard thru marriage. Trust me you say that you love this women regardless of the e-mail you read, but what she will possibly do to you can leave you broke, and very much OUT OF LOVE WITH HER.

In my opinion, your best bet is to cut your ties now, take your loss and be very creative and careful of getting her out of your life. The easy part was getting her here, compared to being scammed and lied on, and totally used, it sounds like she's only married to you to obtain her greencard, I'm trying to understand how you could still love someone that intends on leaving you once they get their greencard.

Would anyone that loved their husband keep e-mail like that? Do you still feel as tho she loves you?

Maybe it's just me; but from what you posted (per the letter in her mail, that she didn't delete) would be enough evidence for me to suspect fraud. Your posting this type of stuff makes me believe that you also feel as tho you being used.

What are your plans from here?

[retiredfromforum 1]

If your wife saved the e-mail from this fellow; then I'd be very concerned, there would be nothing to talk about with her, seems like that e-mail alone speaks volumes on her intent.

My ex-husband scammed me to get his greencard thru marriage. Trust me you say that you love this women regardless of the e-mail you read, but what she will possibly do to you can leave you broke, and very much OUT OF LOVE WITH HER.

In my opinion, your best bet is to cut your ties now, take your loss and be very creative and careful of getting her out of your life. The easy part was getting her here, compared to being scammed and lied on, and totally used, it sounds like she's only married to you to obtain her greencard, I'm trying to understand how you could still love someone that intends on leaving you once they get their greencard.

Would anyone that loved their husband keep e-mail like that? Do you still feel as tho she loves you?

Maybe it's just me; but from what you posted (per the letter in her mail, that she didn't delete) would be enough evidence for me to suspect fraud. Your posting this type of stuff makes me believe that you also feel as tho you being used.

What are your plans from here?

I have a little bit of time i think. It is a tough call.

I would really like to bust that old geezer.

Very tough decision, very tough decision...time to grow a set of balls i suppose and do what is going to happen anyways?

if i did file a claim, I would put her on a one way back to her home of ukraine then do it so she would not get in trouble and the only ones feeling the pinch would be the geezer.