Christmas gift

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My husband and I are having big issues because of the Christmas gift. Here is what happened..........he got me a wii game. When I saw the present the first thing I said was lets return it. He really got mad and said we are not going to return this. Then I said this present you bought it for you. I have always wanted a laptop but instead you bought this game for you. Then he said the he can't never please me and he always loses. This was in front of all his family about 12 ppl.

This morning when I woke up, he started installing the game. I said you cant play with this because this is my game. He did not let go of it. But I took it anyway. And from my perspective this is the second year when he bought a present for me but actually it was for himself.

THe reason I am mad is because I think that he bought this present even though I have always wanted a computer. Plus he always buys expensive item 500 to 1500 dollars items without consulting with me and his credit card is about 3000 dollars a month.

So what do you think I should do?

thanks

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[tallcoolone 102]

I thought the post was going to be about Breast Augmentation......

[almaty 19]

i agree..or at least, victoria secrets

[Carlawarla 1]

Sounds like you're two very immature children. Grow up!

[JVKn'CVO 11]

When his birthday comes, buy "him" something for yourself

Saludos,

Caro

[diadromous mermaid 36]

That;s your perception, but it might not be a fact. Some people have a difficult time thinking of gifts that their SO will love, and it could be simply a case that he lves it and so expected you to too.

I think the bigger person would graciously accept a gift, even if it isn't what was expected, and most especially if it will be enjoyed by one's life partner. Savour the joy he will have using it, for that's the best gift you could ever receive!

My husband and I are having big issues because of the Christmas gift. Here is what happened..........he got me a wii game. When I saw the present the first thing I said was lets return it. He really got mad and said we are not going to return this. Then I said this present you bought it for you. I have always wanted a laptop but instead you bought this game for you. Then he said the he can't never please me and he always loses. This was in front of all his family about 12 ppl.

This morning when I woke up, he started installing the game. I said you cant play with this because this is my game. He did not let go of it. But I took it anyway. And from my perspective this is the second year when he bought a present for me but actually it was for himself.

THe reason I am mad is because I think that he bought this present even though I have always wanted a computer. Plus he always buys expensive item 500 to 1500 dollars items without consulting with me and his credit card is about 3000 dollars a month.

So what do you think I should do?

thanks

heartbeat

[Hilarious Clinton 452]

My husband and I are having big issues because of the Christmas gift. Here is what happened..........he got me a wii game. When I saw the present the first thing I said was lets return it. He really got mad and said we are not going to return this. Then I said this present you bought it for you. I have always wanted a laptop but instead you bought this game for you. Then he said the he can't never please me and he always loses. This was in front of all his family about 12 ppl.

This morning when I woke up, he started installing the game. I said you cant play with this because this is my game. He did not let go of it. But I took it anyway. And from my perspective this is the second year when he bought a present for me but actually it was for himself.

THe reason I am mad is because I think that he bought this present even though I have always wanted a computer. Plus he always buys expensive item 500 to 1500 dollars items without consulting with me and his credit card is about 3000 dollars a month.

So what do you think I should do?

thanks

heartbeat

That's why I bought my wife a vacuum. There's no confusion about who's gift it is.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

christmas turns normal people into tards.

[boo boo 1]

I think that you should feel blessed. I have a friend who also bought his wife a wii, when you think about it, it is a gift where you both could play and spend some QT together. Maybe your hubby wanted to make an investment in something that the 2 of you could enjoy, there is no need to act all foolish about it. If you really want a laptop then save up for it and buy it yourself.

IMO, you stepped out of line in front of his family and even crazier when he tried setting it up. During the holiday season you should be thankful for your family and grateful for whatever you get. I think that you should apologize to everyone for causing a scene on xmas and let your husband know you appreciate the thought of the gift. In life, you will not always get what you want....and you might give a gift that someone might not use or want....but it was the thought that counts.

[o0pink0o 3]

When his birthday comes, buy "him" something for yourself

Saludos,

Caro

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[one...two...tree 2,762]

I think you should sit down with your spouse, apologize for not accepting his gift, but ask him if you two can come to an agreement on credit card purchases, especially for gift giving. But I'm wondering if you would've been thinking of the credit card charge had he bought you a computer instead of the Wii?

[nighthawk 0]

Take it to Maury.

[MrsCat 6]

Take it to Maury.

[Nessa 23]

Then I said this present you bought it for you. I have always wanted a laptop but instead you bought this game for you. Then he said the he can't never please me and he always loses. This was in front of all his family about 12 ppl.

you shouldn't be b!tching about what he bought in the first place. Did you do that in front of his family? if so, don't complain about his answer to you. next time smile and say thank you, then you can talk when it's only the two of you, or not, or deny sex when you go to bed, or whatever.

I said you cant play with this because this is my game.

jeez, what are you? 12? go buy your own gifts. Maybe your husband isn't inconsiderate thinking only about what he wants, maybe he truly thought you wanted the wii, who wouldn't want a wii, seriously?

Plus he always buys expensive item 500 to 1500 dollars items without consulting with me and his credit card is about 3000 dollars a month.

you should sit down and talk about that. Charles and I have always talked to each other before buying anything significantly expensive.

[Amby 490]

keep your money separate then no permission or discussion is needed