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[canadian_wife 1,802]

Coria, honey. Please let it all go. Searching for stuff like that on myspace or calling/e-mailing him is just you setting yourself up for saddnes and disapointment. Pick your head up girl, he is not worth your time and he is certainly not worth your tears you are spending on him.

Let him go! Good luck

[mommymeow 0]

Please just let him go, I know it is hard but he is not worth your time at all.

You deserve someone better.

[tracymike 0]

Hi sweetheart, I'm so sorry a serviceman has treated you so. We'd like to think that being in the service makes an honorable man, but, men are men the world around. There are good and bad ones everywhere. You are going to have to follow these ladies advice and move on. Yes, it's horrible what your heart has been put through. Yes, you've invested your soul into this relationship. But, darling, you can't make a man love you and quite frankly, like others have told you, you are better off finding these things out about him now. I have heard of women here who have been married with children to men that begin to treat them dishonorably. Someday, it'll be a story you'll tell your grandchildren and it will be a blessing because you'll have met and loved whoever his replacement is, the grandkids' grandpa!!! Love, Tracy

[coria1988 0]

Haha, thank you!

It's not that I have cried lately again or have been really really sad.

It is just the disappointment to see that I was honest with him and he might have lied to me.

Sure it does not matter now anymore. But I would like to know whether he lied to me while we were a couple or if he was honest. I disappointed myself in believing that he was a great guy. But he is not that great. I thought army guys should be accountable and responsible for their actions?! Well, this one really is not and takes the chicken way out. May it help him on his journey of live! I really would have never thought that he is such a guy but guess it is the truth! Why do I have the necessity to know whether he lied to me back then?!!! Just have to leave this man or should I rather say immature jerk!? lol

[DARUMA07 25]

Haha, thank you!

It's not that I have cried lately again or have been really really sad.

It is just the disappointment to see that I was honest with him and he might have lied to me.

Sure it does not matter now anymore. But I would like to know whether he lied to me while we were a couple or if he was honest. I disappointed myself in believing that he was a great guy. But he is not that great. I thought army guys should be accountable and responsible for their actions?! Well, this one really is not and takes the chicken way out. May it help him on his journey of live! I really would have never thought that he is such a guy but guess it is the truth! Why do I have the necessity to know whether he lied to me back then?!!! Just have to leave this man or should I rather say immature jerk!? lol

We would just like to say. Goodluck in your future and may the right man be there and take care of you.. Keep your head up and remember that all men are not like this guy! Best wishes and best of luck to you!!!!

[Beautiful_years 0]

Get over it. What he does is not your concern now, the sooner you realise that the better for you.

Thank you sister! Stop bothering about him affairs, he's a looser we both know, get over it.

You have your life ahead of you. Let him roll around in his problems!

Tell me something nice you have been doing, how it has been with you. Anything new?

Edited December 21, 2008 by Beautiful_years

[coria1988 0]

Thank you sister! Stop bothering about him affairs, he's a looser we both know, get over it.

You have your life ahead of you. Let him roll around in his problems!

Tell me something nice you have been doing, how it has been with you. Anything new?

Oh, what has been up with me? Hehe not that much!

I finished my internship about two weeks ago and since then I am home all day.

However, I now have more time to take care of the kids of a friend and I go to the animal shelter regularly.

For the first time I went to nightshift, a disco, like 10 days ago with my friend Ella. It was cool! ; )

Also wanted to go to the cinema again...anybody seen Madagascar 2? =p I think I wanna see it. *hehe*

And oh well, I thought about what I want to do in the future...work? internship abroad? etc.

Then I got such a information literature about "Au-Pair". And oh well, I have already thought about that some time ago but then I only wanted to start real work. And now, I do think it would be a cool idea. I do think it is nice to be an au-pair for a year or so. I have completed the application except the medical form is still missing. XD Yeah, so I might become an au-pair in the USA. It would be so exciting. I just got adjusted to the idea of not being here no more and I kinda feel at the wrong place right now, don't know why. I really do hope that it won't cause any problems as regards the visa!?

Have a wonderful week and merry christmas!!!

[Beautiful_years 0]

Thank you sister! Stop bothering about him affairs, he's a looser we both know, get over it.

You have your life ahead of you. Let him roll around in his problems!

Tell me something nice you have been doing, how it has been with you. Anything new?

Oh, what has been up with me? Hehe not that much!

I finished my internship about two weeks ago and since then I am home all day.

However, I now have more time to take care of the kids of a friend and I go to the animal shelter regularly.

For the first time I went to nightshift, a disco, like 10 days ago with my friend Ella. It was cool! ; )

Also wanted to go to the cinema again...anybody seen Madagascar 2? =p I think I wanna see it. *hehe*

And oh well, I thought about what I want to do in the future...work? internship abroad? etc.

Then I got such a information literature about "Au-Pair". And oh well, I have already thought about that some time ago but then I only wanted to start real work. And now, I do think it would be a cool idea. I do think it is nice to be an au-pair for a year or so. I have completed the application except the medical form is still missing. XD Yeah, so I might become an au-pair in the USA. It would be so exciting. I just got adjusted to the idea of not being here no more and I kinda feel at the wrong place right now, don't know why. I really do hope that it won't cause any problems as regards the visa!?

Have a wonderful week and merry christmas!!!

Good to hear that you have started living life the way it should be ... yes be ambitious, nothing stops you from coming here without him!

Enjoy your self, mix with friends but at same time be serious too, think about the future and where you ll want to be a year from now, what you ll want to do and take steps to make it happen, i know you ll make it.

I believe in you girl... meanwhile its how many days to xmas...... Hope you enjoy everybit of it and most special, may the year end peacefully so you ll start a new year bright and clear headed.

[zqt3344 21]

"And these are the Days of Our Lives".......................

Thank you sister! Stop bothering about him affairs, he's a looser we both know, get over it.

You have your life ahead of you. Let him roll around in his problems!

Tell me something nice you have been doing, how it has been with you. Anything new?

Oh, what has been up with me? Hehe not that much!

I finished my internship about two weeks ago and since then I am home all day.

However, I now have more time to take care of the kids of a friend and I go to the animal shelter regularly.

For the first time I went to nightshift, a disco, like 10 days ago with my friend Ella. It was cool! ; )

Also wanted to go to the cinema again...anybody seen Madagascar 2? =p I think I wanna see it. *hehe*

And oh well, I thought about what I want to do in the future...work? internship abroad? etc.

Then I got such a information literature about "Au-Pair". And oh well, I have already thought about that some time ago but then I only wanted to start real work. And now, I do think it would be a cool idea. I do think it is nice to be an au-pair for a year or so. I have completed the application except the medical form is still missing. XD Yeah, so I might become an au-pair in the USA. It would be so exciting. I just got adjusted to the idea of not being here no more and I kinda feel at the wrong place right now, don't know why. I really do hope that it won't cause any problems as regards the visa!?

Have a wonderful week and merry christmas!!!

Good to hear that you have started living life the way it should be ... yes be ambitious, nothing stops you from coming here without him!

Enjoy your self, mix with friends but at same time be serious too, think about the future and where you ll want to be a year from now, what you ll want to do and take steps to make it happen, i know you ll make it.

I believe in you girl... meanwhile its how many days to xmas...... Hope you enjoy everybit of it and most special, may the year end peacefully so you ll start a new year bright and clear headed.

[JSVP08 3]

FOOD FOR THOUGHT:

If A Man Really Wants You!

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he does not want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that is not meant to be.

S l o w e r is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve; then heck no, you cannot "be friends".

A friend would never mistreat a friend.

Do not settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Do not stay because you think, "it will get better".

You will be mad at your self, a year later, for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.

He did not marry them when he got them pregnant. Why would he treat you any

differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

Do NOT EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.

Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he will cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of

two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.

Dating is fun, even if he does not turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always knows where you are

and you are always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.

Do not fully commit to a man who does not give you everything that you need. Keep

him in your radar; but get to know others.

All the BEST for you Coria