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HI all,

I just got back from spending ten wonderful days with my husband in the Dominican Rupublic, however, I am soooooooooooo depressed now. I hate leaving him and the rest of my family to come back to the states. My K-3 NOA1 was June 6, 2008. I feel that it's never going to get approved. i know it's been only a few months but i feel like it's been an eternity. How do you guys cope. also what are your thoughts, as to when my husband will be here with me. Please Advise.


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chica! I feel you! I was there two weeks ago and coming back was the worst thing ever happened. but we got to keep the hope! I have been in this process longer than you and right now I'm starting to desperate but I think I'm going back in October so lets hope that by then we will all be approved.


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Feliz con mi amor...

Ni la distancia ni el tiempo podran separar dos vidas determinadas a estar unidas...

Neither time nor distance can separate two lives that are destined to become one..

USCIS- VERMONT OFFICE

I-130 NOA 1 03/05/08

I-129f NOA 1 06/12/08

I-130 NOA2 12/14/08

I-129f NOA2 12/14/08

NVC

12/18/2008 Assigned Case number

12/22/2008 DS3032 and AOS bill generated

12/26/2008 Received INN by mail

12/26/2008 paid AOS bill

12/27/2008 sent DS3032 and I-864 package

12/29/2008 DS3032 choice of agent confirmation

12/29/2008 paid DS230

01/03/2009 sent DS230 package

01/07/2009 Complete Affidavit review and acceptance

01/12/2009 Case complete

04/13/2009 interview (approved)

K3 @ Embassy

sent to US embassy at SDO 12/19/08

received 12/23/08

interview date 04/22/09

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We have all played the waiting game. And, we've all played it while visiting them. It never gets any easier. You just have to distract yourself enough not to stress over the time every minute of the day.

Hang in there. Your time is coming.


Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train

You can't go back for what you've missed

So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

You only get one trip

So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

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muchacha y de lo tuyo nada??? why is it taking so long for you what about your fiancee? has he look for help?


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Feliz con mi amor...

Ni la distancia ni el tiempo podran separar dos vidas determinadas a estar unidas...

Neither time nor distance can separate two lives that are destined to become one..

USCIS- VERMONT OFFICE

I-130 NOA 1 03/05/08

I-129f NOA 1 06/12/08

I-130 NOA2 12/14/08

I-129f NOA2 12/14/08

NVC

12/18/2008 Assigned Case number

12/22/2008 DS3032 and AOS bill generated

12/26/2008 Received INN by mail

12/26/2008 paid AOS bill

12/27/2008 sent DS3032 and I-864 package

12/29/2008 DS3032 choice of agent confirmation

12/29/2008 paid DS230

01/03/2009 sent DS230 package

01/07/2009 Complete Affidavit review and acceptance

01/12/2009 Case complete

04/13/2009 interview (approved)

K3 @ Embassy

sent to US embassy at SDO 12/19/08

received 12/23/08

interview date 04/22/09

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I know what your going through,, "yo no tengo paciensa para esta baina" that's spanish for i have no patience... its only been a month for me but i check the uscis.gov website at least 5 times a day..... I am strung out like a crack addict but instead of crack i need a goverment site to cure my pains lol. Stay Strong...and good luck with your process...


Married July 5, 2008 in Dominican Republic

Service Center: Vermont

sent --I130 on August 01,2008

NO1-- Recieved August 07,2008

touched---August 11,2008

touched---August 12,2008

touched --December 17,2008 transferred to CSC

touched--December 24, 2008

touched--December 29, 2008

approved-- January 14, 2009

Sent ds-3032 on jan 23-2009

Paid AOS fee---Jan 28-2009

SENT I-864-----jAN 30-2009

PAID IV fee-- Jan 30-2009

Case complete--Feb-29-2009

ANTERVIEW ON jUNE 2-2009

APPROVE AND RECEIVED jUNE 8-2009

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Hey Girl.... I been married for 6 years and waiting for my petition to be approved for 17 months now, our son will be 2 years old in October and I have no time to feel depressed I am planning our son birthday party with Daddy in the States... Be hopeful, be positive, keep yourself busy and just think that GOD always knows best... everything will work out and you guys will be reunited forever and ever very soon.... Good Luck!!!

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I know what your going through,, "yo no tengo paciensa para esta baina" that's spanish for i have no patience... its only been a month for me but i check the uscis.gov website at least 5 times a day..... I am strung out like a crack addict but instead of crack i need a goverment site to cure my pains lol. Stay Strong...and good luck with your process...

jejeje i couldn't said that better! Crakeros del Govierno!! jejeje Tecatos de USCIS


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Feliz con mi amor...

Ni la distancia ni el tiempo podran separar dos vidas determinadas a estar unidas...

Neither time nor distance can separate two lives that are destined to become one..

USCIS- VERMONT OFFICE

I-130 NOA 1 03/05/08

I-129f NOA 1 06/12/08

I-130 NOA2 12/14/08

I-129f NOA2 12/14/08

NVC

12/18/2008 Assigned Case number

12/22/2008 DS3032 and AOS bill generated

12/26/2008 Received INN by mail

12/26/2008 paid AOS bill

12/27/2008 sent DS3032 and I-864 package

12/29/2008 DS3032 choice of agent confirmation

12/29/2008 paid DS230

01/03/2009 sent DS230 package

01/07/2009 Complete Affidavit review and acceptance

01/12/2009 Case complete

04/13/2009 interview (approved)

K3 @ Embassy

sent to US embassy at SDO 12/19/08

received 12/23/08

interview date 04/22/09

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muchacha y de lo tuyo nada??? why is it taking so long for you what about your fiancee? has he look for help?

Si, hablas conmigo, the response is that I got approved and my case is here in DR. I already got the case number :dance:

I know what your going through,, "yo no tengo paciensa para esta baina" that's spanish for i have no patience... its only been a month for me but i check the uscis.gov website at least 5 times a day..... I am strung out like a crack addict but instead of crack i need a goverment site to cure my pains lol. Stay Strong...and good luck with your process...

jejeje i couldn't said that better! Crakeros del Govierno!! jejeje Tecatos de USCIS

You both are crazy but it was funny :rofl::rofl::rofl:

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HI all,

I just got back from spending ten wonderful days with my husband in the Dominican Rupublic, however, I am soooooooooooo depressed now. I hate leaving him and the rest of my family to come back to the states. My K-3 NOA1 was June 6, 2008. I feel that it's never going to get approved. i know it's been only a few months but i feel like it's been an eternity. How do you guys cope. also what are your thoughts, as to when my husband will be here with me. Please Advise.

I feel the same way. I'm coming up on 3 months myself. Ill move to be with my wife but first I must be sure Ive done all I could to bring her here.

I find a little comfort in planning my next visit to see her. At least I can have a definite time when we will see each other if only 4 a visit.

You just gotta hang in there. Like a rusty fishing hook sometimes. :lol:

Edited by Sabr

8/07 Met on myspace.

5/7/08 Married in Indonesia.

6/4/08 Sent I-130

6/11/08 I-130 received by Vermont service Center.

6/11/10 Received NOA from Vermont.

12/17/08 Touched and placed on hold. (Request For Evidence)

1/12/09 mailed requested evidence 2 Vermont

1/28/09 I-130 APPROVED!

2/9/09 AOS bill received and payed on line the same day.

Never received I-864 package (they don't mail them out anymore I had to take it all from NVC website)

2/20/09 completed and mailed DS-3032

((Some time lapsed because of wrong addresses and documents lost in the mail)) ARRRHG! :-(

3/13/09 Return completed I-864.

3/21/09 Received IV Bill.

3/22/09 Paid IV Bill $400.

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USCIS is unnecessary and a complete freaking waste of everybody's time. What did they do other than waste 7 months of our time and take money?-- because I now have to resubmit the exact same damn information(plus some) to NVC. Apparently there is no connection between USCIS and NVC so USCIS cant simply send our documents to NVC. I was happy to get approved by USCIS but now the process starts all over again only with more complications. Maybe someday I can meet these people in person and thank them face to face for f**ing up almost everything so far. Addresses incorrectly copied, email address repeatedly typed in wrong, names misspelled, ECT, ECT, ECT.

Hows about mandatory drug testing for all who are employed at NVC? All in favor?

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i had been on that situation..but as they say patience is a virtue and when the good news comes...its gonna come all the way in..goodluck!


Love is an unexpected thing...and when it arrives grab it with all ur heart....it may pass u jsut once.......

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11.20.07 : mailed I130

01.23.08 : NOA1

04.21.08 : mailed I129F

04.22.08 : NOA1

05.14.08 : NOA2 both for I 130 and I 129F

06.26.08 : medical exam 2nd day PASSED!!

07.09.08 : interview day! PASSED! PINK SLIP!

07.15.08 : visa on hand!!!

08.01.08 : POE SFO (home with my papi!)

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HI all,

I just got back from spending ten wonderful days with my husband in the Dominican Rupublic, however, I am soooooooooooo depressed now. I hate leaving him and the rest of my family to come back to the states. My K-3 NOA1 was June 6, 2008. I feel that it's never going to get approved. i know it's been only a few months but i feel like it's been an eternity. How do you guys cope. also what are your thoughts, as to when my husband will be here with me. Please Advise.

I know exactly how you feel. I have made 4 trips to Romania to see my wife. It is always nice to visit but coming home alone is very depressing. I got my NOA1 April 1st. and still waiting. Hang in there. good luck!

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hi everyone im new here, im extremely depressed, and its hard to have the love of your life separated by distance.

so please give me advice and support so that i too, can be strong like you and many others who are in our shoes. :crying:

can you guys help me?

I applied for I-130 in april 25 2008,

they recived it may 05 2008

i received the Notice of Action may 12 2008

Today is August 30

Im dying in sinde :crying:

how much more to go.

please please please pleaseee help me any one.

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Do something to keep you busy. Do laundry, clean your home, take up learning a language, learn to cook new recipes, do and exercise plan, learn to grow a garden. Be productive because it could be a long wait and realize that it's out of our hands. :thumbs:


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One of the reasons I feel so at home in this forum is precisely the fact that others just like you are in my same position. :dead: coming back to the states and leaving your loved one behind never gets easier!! in fact I believe it gets harder every time, so let me share with you the mantra my FH and I always repeat to ourselves when we are having those "depressed" days.

" One more day without you has passed, One more day that brings us closer"

Remember that every day that passes is one less day in your wait! One more day closer to being together finally :dance:


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