I think they wore us out

[Nagishkaw 510]

He isnt coming online or speaking to you because he got caught with his hand in the cookie jar. Next he may use the old guilt trip tactic and try to appear that it is all your fault.

[~~~water~~~ 0]

im sorry .. I would be crazy angry... I would feel totally betrayed ... you are not over reacting I would keep contacting the girl to find out what the nature of the relationship is.... What a hard situation you are faced with I wish you strength

[~PalmTreeGurl~ 154]

RED FLAGS... HUGE RED FLAGS... not talking to you for a week??? and he wants to marry you?

[Alhamdulillah 0]

RUN!!! Trust me!! RUN hard and RUN fast but RUN!!!

This is not likely to change.

[Alhamdulillah 0]

I think he has given up on your visa.

So he's just after a visa then? Even more reason to run now while you still have an ignore button to get rid of him and his games.

He's not likely to stop talking to other girls once he has his visa anyway if that's all he's after. It'll just be easier for him to meet up with the trollops that couldn't afford to sponsor him once he's here!

[Nagishkaw 510]

Compare it to fishing. Men know that when they catch a good sized fish, they put it in the bucket instead of throwing it back. They cast their line out in the water again, even though they have a fish already, they always hold out in hopes that they will land an even bigger and better fish.

[doodlebugg 10]

Compare it to fishing. Men know that when they catch a good sized fish, they put it in the bucket instead of throwing it back. They cast their line out in the water again, even though they have a fish already, they always hold out in hopes that they will land an even bigger and better fish.

OT but wow I have been craving fish ALL DAY LONG!

(sorry)

[PlatyPius 5]

He's a cheating piece of #######. no doubt about it.

[Alhamdulillah 0]

Compare it to fishing. Men know that when they catch a good sized fish, they put it in the bucket instead of throwing it back. They cast their line out in the water again, even though they have a fish already, they always hold out in hopes that they will land an even bigger and better fish.

**coughcoughbullshitecoughcough**

[Nagishkaw 510]

Mr too, Bridget! Greasy deep fried cod with lemon and loads of tartar sauce.

[Alhamdulillah 0]

Mr too, Bridget! Greasy deep fried cod with lemon and loads of tartar sauce.

We had shrimp last night....

[Nagishkaw 510]

Compare it to fishing. Men know that when they catch a good sized fish, they put it in the bucket instead of throwing it back. They cast their line out in the water again, even though they have a fish already, they always hold out in hopes that they will land an even bigger and better fish.

**coughcoughbullshitecoughcough**

[belinda63 2,990]

update.....

we are talking right now, wait and see.

also i sent her an email and informed her of our pending visa status.

this could be the end or maybe not

[RAKASA 0]

Belinda, I think it's pretty obvious what's going on here and IMO it's totally unacceptable behavior. I agree w/ whoever said "RUN AND RUN FAST". However, many women have put up w/ far worse, so, clearly it's your decision to put up w/ whatever you decide to put up w/. It's my understanding that he's not even here yet, correct? It's highly unlikely he'll change once he's here. Let him go to Finland..........

[sydkym 0]

Bottom line...a good relationship is an honest one! My husband subscribes to Hi-5 too, but he shares things about it with me. I know who he's talking to, I'm included in his pictures, etc. You should definitely confront your partner and get everything out in the open.