Our relationships mean more: AP Survivers

[tammy2688 1]

I pray that our visas are granted, that our loved ones can join us and I believe our relationships will be most meaningful as we know how to be patient and keep our love constant and strong through these times of great distances across the oceans.

Tammy

[Sinergy 3]

So your saying that ppl going thru AP have a more meaningful relationship than ppl who didnt have to go thru AP?

Your saying that bc ppl who didnt have to go thru AP are less strong and love any less?

wow what a misconception.

[simple_male 1]

I pray that our visas are granted, that our loved ones can join us and I believe our relationships will be most meaningful as we know how to be patient and keep our love constant and strong through these times of great distances across the oceans.

Tammy

Hope your husband gets the visa soon. Yes, your patience will be paid off. Take care.

[Jenn! 918]

So your saying that ppl going thru AP have a more meaningful relationship than ppl who didnt have to go thru AP?

Your saying that bc ppl who didnt have to go thru AP are less strong and love any less?

wow what a misconception.

I think it's just rationalizing to make the wait seem like it has a purpose or benefit. I've heard people say similar things here about LDR's/internet relationships in general - they're stronger because you have to communicate without the physical aspect. I don't really agree, but again, I think it helps people with the wait.

[Sinergy 3]

So your saying that ppl going thru AP have a more meaningful relationship than ppl who didnt have to go thru AP?

Your saying that bc ppl who didnt have to go thru AP are less strong and love any less?

wow what a misconception.

I think it's just rationalizing to make the wait seem like it has a purpose or benefit. I've heard people say similar things here about LDR's/internet relationships in general - they're stronger because you have to communicate without the physical aspect. I don't really agree, but again, I think it helps people with the wait.

[Sister Fracas 5]

Ok...I give up, what's an "AP relationship"?

[SteveLaura 0]

Choose one

[Sister Fracas 5]

ta...

Acetone peroxide it is then...

[Jenn! 918]

Ok...I give up, what's an "AP relationship"?

Administrative Processing

[SteveLaura 0]

ta...

Acetone peroxide it is then...

That's the one I chose too!

[Sister Fracas 5]

Ok...I give up, what's an "AP relationship"?

Administrative Processing

O.I.C. thanks, and I agree with you above cuz we all REALLY know that it's the I-130 relationships that are most meaningful... ahem

[CBR 0]

I'm thinking the OP's intentions weren't to say that people suffering through the wait of AP have more meaningful relationships than anyone else, just that their own relationship becomes more meaningful to themselves. I think it was just worded in an awkward way.

I wouldn't pick on someone going through this. It's extremely painful waiting longer than everyone else and the uncertainty of the outcome has got to be nervewracking.

[Ban Hammer 14,642]

Ok...I give up, what's an "AP relationship"?

absolut #######.

[Nessa 23]

amazing peanuts

[*JG* 2]

I'm thinking the OP's intentions weren't to say that people suffering through the wait of AP have more meaningful relationships than anyone else, just that their own relationship becomes more meaningful to themselves. I think it was just worded in an awkward way.

I wouldn't pick on someone going through this. It's extremely painful waiting longer than everyone else and the uncertainty of the outcome has got to be nervewracking.

Well, I don't quite agree with that statement either.......Must be worded wrong again. Everyone going through this process sees their own relationships as very meaningful.

That being said, I feel for everyone who has any kind of issues in this process. I wish it could be a simple smooth process for everyone involved.