KirstyDustin

She won't get alimony, you weren't married long enough. I suggest you speak to a lawyer and counter-sue including wanting money for legal fees and return of your rings, refund of flight to send her home etc etc. I don't know how successful you'll be but speak to your divorce attorney about what YOU are entitled to given she subjected you to fraud. What about child support? I hope you're suing her for child support.
Have you contacted ICE again to find out the status of your case against her? You said you sent evidence.. what evidence? Evidence of the cheating? Do you have anything that prove this relationship was for immigration purposes and not just that she's a sh*tty person? Do you have evidence of conversations where she states this was for immigration purposes? Anything like that?

This is a disgusting response. The woman explains that she's emotionally abused, and once physically. He brings over family members to bully her. He sets out a plan for her (raise the child, then have a 2nd baby) and when she attempts to follow that plan, he acts as if it never was the plan in the first place.
And your response is to tell her to be a better wife. Unbelievable.

OMG I can't believe you want her to be a better wife, he should be a better husband. You don't go tellilng your family lies about your wife, you don't go getting your sister involved to help you attack your wife (verbaly).
She has been a stay at home mom for 5 yrs taking care of their child, something he wanted her to do, durring that time he is spreading lies about her, being verbally abusive and has started physically abusing her. No way on earth is she at fault, with an abusive man nothing will make him happy, she could be making 100k a year and he would still not be happy.The way he is getting his familly involved while he belittles/makes up ####### is abuse. This has been building up for 5 years, he has her feeling lost and confused, he has her daughter telling her he is mad at her how he doesn't love her. No parent should ever put their child in that position, that is child abuse.
Abuse is a deal breaker seek help for your daughter and yourself.

Darren Gretchen drama. Las Vegas bookies are saying it's 3:1 that the thread is eventually closed. The smart money is calling it a moderator KO sometime before the sixth (page).
Can he do twelve rounds? Hard to say. Darren comes out early in the first swinging hard but in the middle rounds it is all about bobbing and weaving, counterpunching, and not getting hit. Ultimately in the late rounds it comes down to stamina. OK, so he comes out with a haymaker: going to spring the hot new babe on the family.
But he took a solid body shot, straight up the middle with calling his wife a friend. He has to come back off the canvas from that one folks, or he's done for. I'd say this one is going to be over early. The refs will have to stop this one. Another shot like that and someone's got to throw the towel in for him.

Yay Congrats!!! Now we're in the same boat for the remainder of our journey...let's keep one another updated on progress and lessons learned in regards to progress in SA. Best of luck to you guys!! : ) :)

Sometimes people need to vent. An internet forum is an easy place to blow off some steam and maybe get some support from people going through the same thing. A post here and there might not change the situation, but it might make someone feel better about it. No big deal in my book.

Truly you K1's need to relax a little, stop panniking about these things and reading stuff that is not applicable.

In the clear for what? lol there are no shut downs

You're only at the very beginning of your journey - you're gonna need a lot more patience. As said above, it could worse. My husband woke up at 5:30am every morning to talk to me because of our 14+ hour time difference. And we were both working 50+ hour jobs.
Try having a scheduled time to talk, like every night after dinner, at like 8pm. Do you have skype or anything like that? My husband and I would just keep our laptops open in front of us while while we worked or studied at home, and just use skype and videochat. Sometimes we would hardly talk, but still keep the video open, and it was nice to know we were still there. Almost like having them sitting next to you

You don't need a police report from the US. USCIS is going to run a background check on you anyway, so they cover the police report with that. Now if you lived in Austria, England, Norway or wherever for more than six months, then you'd need a report but not if you lived in the US.

Baron? How can he find it if he doesn't have the receipt number? Can he find it another way?
Delilah's Man: Here is the USCIS link in case you need it. https://egov.uscis.g...is/Dashboard.do
EDIT: DM did you get a text or email with that receipt number? If so, you can put that in the website box where is asks you for it.

shaking my head @1lovingyou2 . the time frame is 150 days,and its a goal,the actual time frame is 11 months.

You don't need to send your Birth Certificate with the I-129F application.
They ask for a copy of your Birth Certificate in the Checklist you receive in the first package from the US Embassy before your interview.
They do however, need the Petitioners birth certificate in the I-129F application!
Good luck