hoopy507

Well hopefully get Medicare or something...haven't gotten that far. Just trying yo get all info first...then see what I have to do. Thanks for the info.

Well hopefully get Medicare or something...haven't gotten that far. Just trying yo get all info first...then see what I have to do. Thanks for the info.

Thanks to you all who answered my questions. Great group of people. 

Thanks to you all who answered my questions. Great group of people. 

Well hopefully get Medicare or something...haven't gotten that far. Just trying yo get all info first...then see what I have to do. Thanks for the info.

Well im not so sure you can say Americanized...I feel many that came here and still do come here still hear of gold lined streets and jobs everywhere.,,.I feel if you respect a persons culture and try not to change them..which.,..most American men do,...you can have a good marriage,,,and its not just Chinese or Asians.,..its any woman or man who is not treated well and feels that the other just wanted to get a maid or a cook or a housekeeper...This world has changed so much I know many foriegners who do not want to even come here to live,,,many say its a nice place to visit..just dont move there...but..life is life and if you treat your mate with honesty and respect you can have a good relationship...its just the horror stories outway the ones who succeed...I was married to a American girl and I am American..grew up in the same area...and same values..and guess what...yep...19 yrs and divorced cause she was not getting the material things she wanted...so..doesnt matter the race,,,or nationality...what matters is morals and love...just my opinion...but thanks for the concern...peace.,.,hoopy

I just want to say thank you to all those and most of all to Pushbrake for all your help during this 2 yr quest to get our visa for my wife in China.We have had a rough and long road and I have asked many rookie questions and have bugged alot of you for answers to my issues...all i can say is with out VisaJourney I would not know how to do this daunting task to get my wife home.I have to say the road is a long one,many many pit falls and problems,we started with a K3...then to a cr1...then finaly she got the IR1 and is ready to book her flight to America.I know many of you have been and are still in the wheels of the machine...I know just how you feel...the anger...the issues...the pain of being without your loved one for years...I do know how you feel...my journey is over...I can only say I have learned alot from this...that love can live a long time on hold...if it is real...it will.I know that on this website there are so many good people who are willing to help you and guide you to the right answers and the things you have many questions about.I was one who also thought you can just go and fall in love and bring your loved one home.Which as now I know is #######...there are so many obsticles to go thru..even if you do things right..you will still have a big job ahead of you...but...I waited 4 years since i met my wife of now and i would not change a thing...i have the love of a wonderful chinese woman and she has the love of a crazy white boy from florida...and may this love never die...after the journey thru the machine we went thru...I dont think anything could change the love we feel for each other and for all of you on this website.Thank you again to all...and If I can help someone on here I will and give them good direction as to help with their issues on the visa if they wish to get one from china...And to my friend Pushbrake...you are amazing and a great help to all who seek a visa in china to bring their loved ones home to America...you need to write a book brother...my journey is over..She will be here soon...My heart may rest now...and wait a few weeks...then we will be one...thanks to Visa Journey and the people who made this site.,..,you and the others who helped me will be in a book I will write about my wife and I and the quest for love in 2 different cultures,,,and 2 different countries...may god speed all those still in the machine...keep your head up...you will get the visa..Love is a bridge...Hoopy507