Yes... You can manage it. And it WILL be worth whatever hurdles you have to jump to be with your husband here legally with no worries. As others have said, this is likely not a DIY. If you are going to spend the $$ on an attorney, do yourself a favor... carefully research and find yourself a reputable lawyer that does nothing but immigration law and preferably that specializes in family based immigration. Wish you the best and please update the thread, as pertinent, so that others can learn from your experience