So we finally got to have our interview yesterday! This weekend was super busy with a birthday party, my oldest and husband going to Anime Boston and easter shenanigans, so we didn't really have any time to prepare, other than add another page of photos from the past month and our joint taxes to the portal. We also printed it. I did not get the best sleep, but the only time we were really nervous was on the drive there.. lol.
We went into the building 30 minutes before our appointment, and the first thing that happened was that the officers at the door asked to see the interview notice because apparently our appointment had been moved around before we even got the date and time. So that was a little confusing, but more for him than us I suppose. Then we went and put our notice in a little bin and waited for a bit before a lady came and called us in. She was friendly, a little on the older side, and at one point she said "oh wow! you are so young looking yourself and have a child in highschool!" while I was talking about my kids, lol. XD
The only thing that was a little stressful was that she wanted me to "explain" the different spellings of my name. I use an Å in my last name (and did not change it after getting married) and on my norwegian passport they spell it both with that and with AA because that is the international standard. I tried to explain that and she was asking for translated documents (my birth certificate is in english, because you can order it like that) and so it was a little jarring trying to explain that without feeling like I had done something wrong, but I think she was just trying to make sure that my name would be correct for my greencard, and making sure it was all in order. I have used AA pretty consistently, and I think the only record of someone just spelling it with a single A is from early on K1 days where my husband spelled it differently on one form, but all that was taken care of by the time I got my visa in Stockholm.
After that it was just her asking us questions. I thought it was kind of interesting because she would ask my husband questions about his siblings, and did not ask me if I knew them or had met them. She did ask me what my mom thought of me marrying an american, lol, and I had a story about the first time we met and how my parents were out of town that week (such a coincidence! XD). She also asked me what our plans were and I was a bit like.. I mean, live our lives? But then she asked well do you want more children, are you traveling somewhere, etc, and I answered that no we are happy with our family of four and our cat and that we will be going to Norway this summer to spend time with family and friends. My husband is an anxious person so he got a bit lost in some of his stories, but it was all ok.
Then she asked me all the questions from the form, and it was a bit confusing because she would not end all her questions in a question tone, and some of those sentences run on and on and on, so I would listen to it and then she would just stop but since it did not sound like a question I probably waited a second or two too long to answer no! She must be so tired of reading all of those out loud... haha.
At the end she said that after we left she would approve our case, and that I would get a letter in the mail and then they will produce my greencard. Yay! She also said that it is conditional and we can apply again before the 2 years is up, and mentioned the naturalization process where the 10 year card probably wont arrive before I have had my greencard for 3 years so we can probably get an interview for both of them at the same time if we apply for that. I already knew that, but I thought it was nice she mentioned that.
Then we went out to lunch and went by World Market and bought some scandinavian and british treats since we dont have that store nearby.
I feel good! My case has not changed online, but I will be patient. My mom got a bit stressed out so we already ordered tickets for everyone this summer (mine are refundable..) but now I know I get to visit home for a few weeks. Exciting times ahead!