Gumbolette

...or its because nobody is telling them that they are never, and will never be, a millimeter near from that word.
This creature is such a conceited mammal, and who ever thinks he's great should be stone to death and be buried somewhere which is unknown to men.
Now, I need me some drink.

...or its because nobody is telling them that they are never, and will never be, a millimeter near from that word.
This creature is such a conceited mammal, and who ever thinks he's great should be stone to death and be buried somewhere which is unknown to men.
Now, I need me some drink.

oh! I remember, someone in this forum is a god and knows everything. "many doctors in the Philippines are quacks" that's like saying most of the Americans are a-hole. hmm reminds me of someone familiar.
Thanks to the quack doctors that learned through Philippine education system, for you can concur that your wife is a quack nurse.
It's amazing how you can see potholes about my country yet again you keep coming back.

oh! I remember, someone in this forum is a god and knows everything. "many doctors in the Philippines are quacks" that's like saying most of the Americans are a-hole. hmm reminds me of someone familiar.
Thanks to the quack doctors that learned through Philippine education system, for you can concur that your wife is a quack nurse.
It's amazing how you can see potholes about my country yet again you keep coming back.

As I was fixing to send money to my folks back home thru Xoom.com to the recipient's bank account, I thought of sharing this info that might be of help as you needed.
These are Routing numbers and Swift codes fo the Philippine banks. Quite important to know when you need to send money to your family to their/your bank account.
PHILIPPINE BANKS ROUTING NUMBER
ALLIED BANKING CORP
010320013


AUSTRALIA NEW ZEALAND
010700015


ASIA UNITED BANK
011020011


BANGKO SENTRAL NG PILIPINAS
010030015


BANGKOK BANK
010670019


BANK OF AMERICA
010120019


BANK OF CHINA
011140014


BANK OF TOKYO
010460012


BANCO DE ORO (& EPCIB)
010530667


BANK OF COMMERCE
010440016


BANK OF THE PHIL ISLANDS
010040018


CHINA BANKING CORP
010100013


CHINA TRUST COMML BANK
010690015


CITIBANK N.A.
010070017


DEVT BANK OF THE PHILS
010590018


DEUTSCHE BANK
010650013


EAST WEST BANK
010620014


EXPORT & INDUSTRY BANK
010860010


FUJI BANK
010640010


HONGKONG AND SHANGHAI BANK
010060014


INTL COMML BANK OF CHINA
010560019


INTL EXCHANGE BANK
010680012


JP MORGAN CHASE BANK
010720011


KOREA EXCHANGE BANK
010710018


INTL NEDERLAND BANK
010660016


LAND BANK OF THE PHILS
010350025


MAYBANK OF THE PHILS
010220016


METROPOLITAN BANK & TRUST CO
010269996


PHIL BANK OF COMMUNICATION
010110016


PHIL TRUST COMPANY
010090039


PHIL NATIONAL BANK
010080010


PRUDENTIAL BANK
010150018


PHIL VETERANS BANK
010330016


RIZAL COMML BANKING CORP
010280014


SECURITY BANK & TRUST CO
010140015


STANDARD CHARTERED BANK
010050011


UNITED COCONUT PLANTERS BANK
010299995


UNION BANK OF THE PHILS
010419995


UNITED OVERSEAS BANK
010270189


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PHILIPPINE BANKS SWIFT CODES
Allied Banking Corporation – ABCMPHMM
American Express Bank Philippines – AMEXPHMM
Banco de Oro Universal Bank – BNORPHMM
Bank of China Manila Branch – BKCHPHMM
Bank of Commerce – PABIPHMM
Bank of the Philippine Islands – BOPIPHMM
China Banking Corporation – CHBKPHMM
Development Bank of the Phil. – DBPHPHMM
East West Banking Corporation – EWBCPHMM
Equitable PCI Bank – PCIBPHMM
Hong Kong and Shanghai Bank – HSBCPHMM
International Comm Bank of China – ICBCPHMM
International Exchange Bank – INXBPHMM
Land Bank of the Philippines – TLBPPHMM
Maybank Philippines Incorporated – MBBEPHMM
Metropolitan Bank & Trust Co. – MBTCPHMM
Philippine Bank of Communications – CPHIPHMM
Philippine National Bank – PNBMPHMM
Philippine Veterans Bank – PHVBPHMM
Philtrust Bank – PHTBPHMM
Prudential Bank – PILBPHMM
Rizal Commercial Banking Corp – RCBCPHMM
Security Bank and Trust Corp – SETCPHMM
Standard Chartered Bank – SCBLPHMM
Union Bank of the Philippines – UBPHPHMM
United Coconut Planters Bank – UCPBPHMM
United Overseas Bank Philippines – UOVBPHMM

I believe you are a great man, with soft heart. Upon evaluating your post, I am certain that this lady is not the right one for you.
There are a lot of pinays out there who has great intentions why they would marry an american guy. This lady clearly is not marrying you out of love but she wants to marry your money and have someone who will give her all her luxury.
When you are not around, she is probably bragging to her friends and family that she has sugar daddy that provides her with what she desires and can be easily manipulated.
Because of her ,we filipinas has bad reputation resonating the globe in terms of wedding a foreign man.
Based from her personality, she is a type of person who will truly bring her real colors to life when she gets to the U.S.A and feels so highly of herself. Once you marry this person, she will take everything you have which you as a "MAN WHO IS JUST PAYING HIS BILLS" worked hard will only go to this gold digger, One who will want to provide everything to her family back home, send everyone to school with your money! Then If you disagree, she will threaten you for divorce because she is unhappy ( for not having her weekly shopping and all that).
Save yourself for more heartaches. She will only get worse because you allowed her to.

"if you're trying to show off for people at the top, forget it. They will look down on you anyhow. And if you're trying to show off for people at the bottom, forget it. They will only envy you. Status will get you nowhere. Only an open heart will allow you to float equally between everyone."
-Mitch Albom

You can't say "she's the one" not until you bring your sweet pinay in the US, until both of y'all completely can say that things have worked out after she moved , adjusted and actually have gotten comfortable and learned with the way "YOU" (the USC) lives, this is only the time that marriage might work after several years of getting to fully know each other.
Yes, you can say she is sweet as a honey while you are dating, and actually marry but sometimes unforeseeable circumstances that adjustment in US seems to be a an uphill climb, then lonesomeness takes over, then the idea of wanting to come home arises., then a sour divorce unfolds.
You might admit it or not, there always certain qualities that we all tend to hide in the "courting" stage, because we want to look perfect to the person we also love, but once we are all signed up in that marriage contract, these tiny little flaws shows.
In other words, "she's the one" is mainly a confirmation of what you have felt since the day you realized " you can spend the rest of your life" with this girl. Not unless you live with her, and see how she has lived and has become a wife to you, then you can only say that she is the right one.
I can say that my wife is the one for me, because she knows exactly what I don't want to eat now, and we can watch football all day long and I can converse with her anything and everything under the sun.
She is my best friend, and my strength when I don't have any.
She's the one!
-the husband

Yes please!
The reactions to the hijacker is like a noise pollution in my ears already.

I was not stereotyping all american. I was mainly referring to the crowd favorite, Mr. TCO.
But what you said about the treatment that you will get from my country as a foreigner is indeed tremendously heart warming.
I just don't understand why some men who are "mature" by age acts like little kids who brags about this, and that.
It makes me think that this guy had a rough past which has became stranger with "attention" and now just wants it all.

I was not stereotyping all american. I was mainly referring to the crowd favorite, Mr. TCO.
But what you said about the treatment that you will get from my country as a foreigner is indeed tremendously heart warming.
I just don't understand why some men who are "mature" by age acts like little kids who brags about this, and that.
It makes me think that this guy had a rough past which has became stranger with "attention" and now just wants it all.

How sad. That you have to be in a country where you feel like you are special because of your skin color. You must have an extraordinary amount of insecurities in your self that you need to feel better by simply going to the Philippines and be treated like KING, do all you want and imply to the world that men in the United States are are simply lethargic.
What you have written simply reflects of what kind of person you are.

How sad. That you have to be in a country where you feel like you are special because of your skin color. You must have an extraordinary amount of insecurities in your self that you need to feel better by simply going to the Philippines and be treated like KING, do all you want and imply to the world that men in the United States are are simply lethargic.
What you have written simply reflects of what kind of person you are.

How sad. That you have to be in a country where you feel like you are special because of your skin color. You must have an extraordinary amount of insecurities in your self that you need to feel better by simply going to the Philippines and be treated like KING, do all you want and imply to the world that men in the United States are are simply lethargic.
What you have written simply reflects of what kind of person you are.

How sad. That you have to be in a country where you feel like you are special because of your skin color. You must have an extraordinary amount of insecurities in your self that you need to feel better by simply going to the Philippines and be treated like KING, do all you want and imply to the world that men in the United States are are simply lethargic.
What you have written simply reflects of what kind of person you are.

How sad. That you have to be in a country where you feel like you are special because of your skin color. You must have an extraordinary amount of insecurities in your self that you need to feel better by simply going to the Philippines and be treated like KING, do all you want and imply to the world that men in the United States are are simply lethargic.
What you have written simply reflects of what kind of person you are.

The existence of a valid divorce decree does not automatically entitle the Filipino to remarry in the Philippines. The foreign divorce decree must be judicially recognized in the Philippines. This means that the proper action or petition must be filed in a Philippine court by filing a Petition for the Recognition of a Foreign Judgment of Divorce at the Regional Trial Court. Your fiancee will need an experienced lawyer to do this. Once she has the recognition, she needs to register it with the NSO for annotation to her existing marriage certificate.
Once a Philippine court recognizes the foreign divorce decree, she can re-marry again in the Philippines. She will be issued a CEMAR by the NSO but it will have an annotation that it has been recognized by the Philippine government.
Answer only what is asked and always tell the truth. She can't go wrong with that.

Couldn't agree more Bob.
I just don't understand why some man tend to be so conceited that they caught the perfect fish the the Philippine Island and not to mention they are not so "Good looking" to even brag themselves.
Tell you what TCO, here's a list for you too;
Start going to the gym rather than getting fat while walking with superb sexy 23 yr old filipina wife.
Be ready to live in the streets because she will take everything what you have when she divorce you real soon since she is SMART w/ degree.
Start living in the fantasy that she feels the same way when you marry her.
Most especially, get back to us when reach at least your 10th year anniversary see if YOUR LIST WORKS BEFORE I HIGHLY RECOMMEND IT.

I couldn't agree more.

I am sorry about this very depressing revelation. There was one person(cheating story)here in VJ who was 90% alike of what had happen with you and he was very decisive on his actions to send her wife back to the Philippines,and I would like to see you do the right thing. SEND HER BACK HOME. A cheater will always be a cheater.
Save your save from more heartaches. Don't adjust her status, buy her the one way ticket and personally escort her at the airport and really watch her step into the plane.

Saddenednow,
I commend you for being such an open minded person. But sometimes even you love someone the most, you have to learn how to let that someone go even it means hurting yourself temporarily.
She has done this to you without even thinking what you will feel if you find out, but her you are you are trying to fix a broken glass but sooner or later it will also shatter.
She has made mistakes and its only right that you forgive her. She had your forgiveness by giving her second chance.. YET, she failed you again, how many more chances you will give her until you really realized that this girl is not right for you. Marriage is about giving oneself fully to your partner not half for you and half to the other. Based from your posts, you seem to be very loving man, but even though you and her try to work things out, you will always have that thought at the back of your mind that she has once, twice and how many more times will try to cheat on you, because she knows you will always forgive her.
Talk to her and lay your last words. She will have a better life when she moves on, and so will you.

Saddenednow,
I commend you for being such an open minded person. But sometimes even you love someone the most, you have to learn how to let that someone go even it means hurting yourself temporarily.
She has done this to you without even thinking what you will feel if you find out, but her you are you are trying to fix a broken glass but sooner or later it will also shatter.
She has made mistakes and its only right that you forgive her. She had your forgiveness by giving her second chance.. YET, she failed you again, how many more chances you will give her until you really realized that this girl is not right for you. Marriage is about giving oneself fully to your partner not half for you and half to the other. Based from your posts, you seem to be very loving man, but even though you and her try to work things out, you will always have that thought at the back of your mind that she has once, twice and how many more times will try to cheat on you, because she knows you will always forgive her.
Talk to her and lay your last words. She will have a better life when she moves on, and so will you.

I am sorry about this very depressing revelation. There was one person(cheating story)here in VJ who was 90% alike of what had happen with you and he was very decisive on his actions to send her wife back to the Philippines,and I would like to see you do the right thing. SEND HER BACK HOME. A cheater will always be a cheater.
Save your save from more heartaches. Don't adjust her status, buy her the one way ticket and personally escort her at the airport and really watch her step into the plane.

I am sorry about this very depressing revelation. There was one person(cheating story)here in VJ who was 90% alike of what had happen with you and he was very decisive on his actions to send her wife back to the Philippines,and I would like to see you do the right thing. SEND HER BACK HOME. A cheater will always be a cheater.
Save your save from more heartaches. Don't adjust her status, buy her the one way ticket and personally escort her at the airport and really watch her step into the plane.

I am sorry about this very depressing revelation. There was one person(cheating story)here in VJ who was 90% alike of what had happen with you and he was very decisive on his actions to send her wife back to the Philippines,and I would like to see you do the right thing. SEND HER BACK HOME. A cheater will always be a cheater.
Save your save from more heartaches. Don't adjust her status, buy her the one way ticket and personally escort her at the airport and really watch her step into the plane.