USCIS has received our K1 application with a receipt date of Dec. 2021 at the California processing center. We're now over 6months into the journey. We're both working and stalk Facebook groups often to read about people's timelines and what they're going through. The latest idea that spooked us is that even after the whole K1 journey ends at the marriage part, we're hearing that it'll now take about 15 months to get a green card to start working etc. If it was the historical 6 months of idle time to get the green card, I would be okay for my partner, but 15 months for life to be on pause would drive her crazy and I'd rather for my partner to be happy.
I imagined it as 2 paths, let me know if this is pretty accurate:
K1 Path:
1. Wait out the 13 months of "normal" processing times, get married in US probably in Feb at a courthouse.
2. During the supposed 15 months of idle time, my partner can plan the wedding and chill ... or, most likely she'll be frustrated with not being able to do much.
Spouse Path
1. I write a letter ASAP to withdraw the k1 visa.
2. I have already bought plane tickets to visit her in the Phillpines in early September for 2 weeks, we can use that time to do a quick courthouse wedding
3. I return to US, apply for the Spouse visa
4. Supposedly, we wait 6 to 12 months for everything to be processed and she can start living in US after a year.
*The "supposed" times are all based on what we read from other people on facebook. I have yet to find a lawyer to confirm those times.
But, based on our situation right now, which path should we go?