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  1. On 24.12.2021 at 20:11, Pinkrlion said:

    Спасибо за публикацию. Здесь есть пара на VJ, которые обрабатывают свои VAWA из-за границы. Чтобы получить информацию, вам необходимо изменить свой адрес на то, где вы сейчас находитесь, и изменить свое досье на работу с консультантом. Обработка за границей занимает немного больше времени, так как все будет по почте. Вам необходимо подать заявление об отстранении адвоката от вашего дела, чтобы вся корреспонденция теперь приходила к вам, а не к адвокату. Вы не можете подавать на I-485, I-765 и I-131 сейчас, когда вы покинули страну.  @cashweed

    @natalysmile

    @sandranj

    I wrote personally . I answered how I could help.
    I do originally (first from my home country)
    I can tell you everything ... but this is also the case usually ... I just do not have the right to enter the United States. until the case is approved.

  2. 32 minutes ago, Shroy123 said:

    I got it but i am not sure why they are asking for atleast 3 years background check report when you stayed in usa for less than 2 years

     

    i would write a detailed affidavit and explaining my situation and also ask your friends in usa to write an affidavit for you during your stay in usa. Ask church or other community services as well

    Thanks for the answer.
    Nobody knows exactly (probably) what is meant
    I have a lot of letters from friends in America. And these letters were sent earlier.

  3. 15 hours ago, shiva32 said:

    I have been there, done that. It's common to feel confused due to the manipulation and trauma from the abusive person. It doesn't have to be physical to prove a vawa case. There's a certain eloquence in your pain and confusion. Given that you express yourself so well, I think you can compose a very good statement for the petition. I found it extremely hard to compose and compile my vawa materials. I would shake and cry every time I wrote about the traumatic incidents. It's difficult and slow, but it can be done. Keep the three prongs in mind, And Tailor your petition accordingly. Maybe some of the more successful people with the approved petitions here can give you examples. 

    Yes, the Truth. I, too, trembled and cried when I had to write all this ... even on paper, knowing that everyone would read it.
    I was afraid that I were perplexed, that I was lying, and this would never happen. and I sometimes put off writing ... completely it was. but the people on this forum gave me strength !!! and wrote everything as it is. There is no weapon against Truth, God judges everything.

  4. 16 hours ago, thrownaway said:

    Do anybody here find just going through filing VAWA extremely hard and mental draining? I actually felt a lot better after separating with the abuser. However, talking about my experiences with therapists & lawyers just brings me back to where I was.

    Since I was never subjected to physical abuse, having to prove that I was actually abused messes me up. I don’t feel like nobody would validate my feelings or experiences. I know therapists & lawyers I spoke with intended to help me, but hearing stuff like ‘you need more evidences’ hurt me deep down. part of me is still questing if I was actually abused or I am just over-reacting, dramatic, and whiny. (as my abuser used to claim)

    I sort of just want to leave everything behind and move on, but the process itself doesn’t let me do so. It requires me to assert I was victimized so bad, but I don’t want to feel victimized. I want to focus on good parts of my life moving forward. Whenever I talk to therapists or lawyers, I feel low all day. It’s hard to dig through all the memories I would rather forget, then try to document them so that I would be able to build a stronger case.

    I am scared of eventually getting denied VAWA, not just because I’ll have to leave the states, but mainly I don’t know if I’ll be able to handle that feeling of ultimate invalidation on my experiences. Since big essential part of the abuse was invalidating my feelings, making me feel nothing I feel is eight, and I’m just crazy.

    Hi. I understand you.
    And many here understand you. This is terrible. More than two years have passed, and I'm still going back to what it was ...
    I even left America for Russia. I love America and have filed petitions from another country. Sometimes I mentally think that I am to blame, not the rapist. This is bad. But I'm going forward. Forward too! There are many kind and good people here on this forum. Time ... And all is well. Everything will work out.!
    I hug.

  5. 2 hours ago, TBoneTX said:

    It is Sunday, and time for our approval- and good-news-evoking Official Weekly VAWA-Thread Joke:

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    THE RIGHT GEAR FOR THE OCCASION

     

    A rich blonde bought a new automatic Jaguar XKR Sport.

     

    She drove the car perfectly well during the day, but at night, the car just wouldn't move at all.  After trying to drive the car at night for a week (but without any luck), she furiously called the Jaguar dealer, and they sent out a technician to meet her.

     

    The technician examined the car and found nothing wrong with it.  He turned to the blonde and asked, "Ma'am, are you sure that you're using the right gears?"

     

    Full of anger, the blonde replied, "How on earth you could ask such a question?!  I'm not stupid, you know!  Of COURSE I'm using the right gears -- D during the day and N at night!"

    :P 

    Good anecdote)))
    In Russian, Day and Night also begin with the same letters of the alphabet. D, N)

  6. 12 minutes ago, Rambo4447 said:

    Congrats. I am from Oct 2019. A police report from back home would suffice. If you’ve already submitted that, send a copy again with some affidavits from people back home about your morale character. Maybe someone else can add more to this. Is this your only RFE? And which state are you from?

    I left US  in 2019 and live in Russia now

  7. Hello everybody
    I am a very kind and naive person. I read everything and understand everything, and I am always happy for others.
    I'm glad I found such a forum.
    I know that sometimes I am in a hurry ... But I want to. It is my goal.
    I read, studied and wrote everything down.
    But I need additional things that have been given.
    I'm in another country. In Russia.
    the migration service will answer me in October. I'm 99 percent sure it will.
    I want to know ... What should I do. more .... paperwork .. I'm in Russia.

    I understand that this is a difficulty, but I want to know, help please, if anyone knows the algorithm of actions

  8. Hello everyone.
    Should I respond to this response from the State Senator ?
    Or is it just a courtesy letter (automatic reply)
    I asked to clarify the course of my Сase.  there was also attached a file in the format to fill out, I was so tired of waiting that it seems to me that this is just a standard bylink for ALL (for any case)

    Text

     

    "Thank you for contacting our office. Before we are able to take any action, however, the person in need of assistance will need to complete and sign the attached Privacy Act Release Form. This form grants our office permission to act on your behalf, and gives the relevant federal agency or agencies permission to discuss your situation with us and release any pertinent information to our office."

     

  9. 11 hours ago, Angelmia said:

    Thank you somuch for the response. It helped. I have been able to leave finally.  I won't lie this isnthe second time. I forgave him in and went back in 2019. I hope I remain strong this time . Thank you somuch again

    Hello. I understand you. I also i was returning    but then I left
    I considered myself guilty for what was happening.
    He hurt me and my son, but I considered myself bad ...

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