Stuck in NY

Please do not discuss getting a lawyer to your husband. Go consult one on your own and say nothing to him. 

You most like won’t receive a response. I started my immigration journey in 2013. Relocating here on a K-1 visa. Along the way I filed to remove conditions on my GC 2015, little did I know that my soon to be ex never wanted me to live here legally. After a year of waiting for my ROC to be adjudicated I started writing letter to USCIS, senator and ombudsman. I never received any response from USCIS but the senator’s and ombudsman office was able to receive updates about my case. At the time they were told by uscis that my case was being help due to a Security reasons. In 2017 I filed A Mandamus action against USCIS, 4 months after filing I received a letter from the USCIS district director inviting me for an interview and asking me to come with my soon to be ex. 
At the time of the interview we were separated. I sat in the room with my attorney even though he was asked not to answer any of the questions. The IO grilled me for 4hrs straight, it was intense. My husband was asked to come in and also be interviewed separately. He was in and out in 20 minutes. At the end I was told to wait for a decision. In the mail.
30 days after the first interview I submitted a service request about my case to which they responded informing me that my GC was approved . I excitedly told my soon to be ex about the good news, unfortunately he then decided to personally go to uscis and insisted that I only used him for a GC.  
30 days after service request response about GC approval i was called in for a second interview, this time I was questions for 2 hrs and my soon to be ex was questioned for 1.5hr. Still decision was not made.
I waited 2 months then I received a NOID and N14. In NOID it was revealed to me that my soon to be ex went to uscis on 3 occasions and made sworn statements about me trafficking a child and committing marriage fraud.
The child in question is my biological son he never wanted me to reunite with. what my ex did was that he helped me write an invitation for my minor son because he never wanted to anger me but he then went behind my back and tried intercepting him from entering the US.
He doesn’t like kids.
What really helped me fight this case is that I still had a copy of the motorized invitation letter that he submitted to the embassy and other joint stuff to prove my case and of course we had dna testing.
8 months after submitting the NOID and N14. Both my GC and citizen were approved.
Note: I did not retain an attorney for the NOID and N14.

You most like won’t receive a response. I started my immigration journey in 2013. Relocating here on a K-1 visa. Along the way I filed to remove conditions on my GC 2015, little did I know that my soon to be ex never wanted me to live here legally. After a year of waiting for my ROC to be adjudicated I started writing letter to USCIS, senator and ombudsman. I never received any response from USCIS but the senator’s and ombudsman office was able to receive updates about my case. At the time they were told by uscis that my case was being help due to a Security reasons. In 2017 I filed A Mandamus action against USCIS, 4 months after filing I received a letter from the USCIS district director inviting me for an interview and asking me to come with my soon to be ex. 
At the time of the interview we were separated. I sat in the room with my attorney even though he was asked not to answer any of the questions. The IO grilled me for 4hrs straight, it was intense. My husband was asked to come in and also be interviewed separately. He was in and out in 20 minutes. At the end I was told to wait for a decision. In the mail.
30 days after the first interview I submitted a service request about my case to which they responded informing me that my GC was approved . I excitedly told my soon to be ex about the good news, unfortunately he then decided to personally go to uscis and insisted that I only used him for a GC.  
30 days after service request response about GC approval i was called in for a second interview, this time I was questions for 2 hrs and my soon to be ex was questioned for 1.5hr. Still decision was not made.
I waited 2 months then I received a NOID and N14. In NOID it was revealed to me that my soon to be ex went to uscis on 3 occasions and made sworn statements about me trafficking a child and committing marriage fraud.
The child in question is my biological son he never wanted me to reunite with. what my ex did was that he helped me write an invitation for my minor son because he never wanted to anger me but he then went behind my back and tried intercepting him from entering the US.
He doesn’t like kids.
What really helped me fight this case is that I still had a copy of the motorized invitation letter that he submitted to the embassy and other joint stuff to prove my case and of course we had dna testing.
8 months after submitting the NOID and N14. Both my GC and citizen were approved.
Note: I did not retain an attorney for the NOID and N14.

You most like won’t receive a response. I started my immigration journey in 2013. Relocating here on a K-1 visa. Along the way I filed to remove conditions on my GC 2015, little did I know that my soon to be ex never wanted me to live here legally. After a year of waiting for my ROC to be adjudicated I started writing letter to USCIS, senator and ombudsman. I never received any response from USCIS but the senator’s and ombudsman office was able to receive updates about my case. At the time they were told by uscis that my case was being help due to a Security reasons. In 2017 I filed A Mandamus action against USCIS, 4 months after filing I received a letter from the USCIS district director inviting me for an interview and asking me to come with my soon to be ex. 
At the time of the interview we were separated. I sat in the room with my attorney even though he was asked not to answer any of the questions. The IO grilled me for 4hrs straight, it was intense. My husband was asked to come in and also be interviewed separately. He was in and out in 20 minutes. At the end I was told to wait for a decision. In the mail.
30 days after the first interview I submitted a service request about my case to which they responded informing me that my GC was approved . I excitedly told my soon to be ex about the good news, unfortunately he then decided to personally go to uscis and insisted that I only used him for a GC.  
30 days after service request response about GC approval i was called in for a second interview, this time I was questions for 2 hrs and my soon to be ex was questioned for 1.5hr. Still decision was not made.
I waited 2 months then I received a NOID and N14. In NOID it was revealed to me that my soon to be ex went to uscis on 3 occasions and made sworn statements about me trafficking a child and committing marriage fraud.
The child in question is my biological son he never wanted me to reunite with. what my ex did was that he helped me write an invitation for my minor son because he never wanted to anger me but he then went behind my back and tried intercepting him from entering the US.
He doesn’t like kids.
What really helped me fight this case is that I still had a copy of the motorized invitation letter that he submitted to the embassy and other joint stuff to prove my case and of course we had dna testing.
8 months after submitting the NOID and N14. Both my GC and citizen were approved.
Note: I did not retain an attorney for the NOID and N14.

You most like won’t receive a response. I started my immigration journey in 2013. Relocating here on a K-1 visa. Along the way I filed to remove conditions on my GC 2015, little did I know that my soon to be ex never wanted me to live here legally. After a year of waiting for my ROC to be adjudicated I started writing letter to USCIS, senator and ombudsman. I never received any response from USCIS but the senator’s and ombudsman office was able to receive updates about my case. At the time they were told by uscis that my case was being help due to a Security reasons. In 2017 I filed A Mandamus action against USCIS, 4 months after filing I received a letter from the USCIS district director inviting me for an interview and asking me to come with my soon to be ex. 
At the time of the interview we were separated. I sat in the room with my attorney even though he was asked not to answer any of the questions. The IO grilled me for 4hrs straight, it was intense. My husband was asked to come in and also be interviewed separately. He was in and out in 20 minutes. At the end I was told to wait for a decision. In the mail.
30 days after the first interview I submitted a service request about my case to which they responded informing me that my GC was approved . I excitedly told my soon to be ex about the good news, unfortunately he then decided to personally go to uscis and insisted that I only used him for a GC.  
30 days after service request response about GC approval i was called in for a second interview, this time I was questions for 2 hrs and my soon to be ex was questioned for 1.5hr. Still decision was not made.
I waited 2 months then I received a NOID and N14. In NOID it was revealed to me that my soon to be ex went to uscis on 3 occasions and made sworn statements about me trafficking a child and committing marriage fraud.
The child in question is my biological son he never wanted me to reunite with. what my ex did was that he helped me write an invitation for my minor son because he never wanted to anger me but he then went behind my back and tried intercepting him from entering the US.
He doesn’t like kids.
What really helped me fight this case is that I still had a copy of the motorized invitation letter that he submitted to the embassy and other joint stuff to prove my case and of course we had dna testing.
8 months after submitting the NOID and N14. Both my GC and citizen were approved.
Note: I did not retain an attorney for the NOID and N14.

You most like won’t receive a response. I started my immigration journey in 2013. Relocating here on a K-1 visa. Along the way I filed to remove conditions on my GC 2015, little did I know that my soon to be ex never wanted me to live here legally. After a year of waiting for my ROC to be adjudicated I started writing letter to USCIS, senator and ombudsman. I never received any response from USCIS but the senator’s and ombudsman office was able to receive updates about my case. At the time they were told by uscis that my case was being help due to a Security reasons. In 2017 I filed A Mandamus action against USCIS, 4 months after filing I received a letter from the USCIS district director inviting me for an interview and asking me to come with my soon to be ex. 
At the time of the interview we were separated. I sat in the room with my attorney even though he was asked not to answer any of the questions. The IO grilled me for 4hrs straight, it was intense. My husband was asked to come in and also be interviewed separately. He was in and out in 20 minutes. At the end I was told to wait for a decision. In the mail.
30 days after the first interview I submitted a service request about my case to which they responded informing me that my GC was approved . I excitedly told my soon to be ex about the good news, unfortunately he then decided to personally go to uscis and insisted that I only used him for a GC.  
30 days after service request response about GC approval i was called in for a second interview, this time I was questions for 2 hrs and my soon to be ex was questioned for 1.5hr. Still decision was not made.
I waited 2 months then I received a NOID and N14. In NOID it was revealed to me that my soon to be ex went to uscis on 3 occasions and made sworn statements about me trafficking a child and committing marriage fraud.
The child in question is my biological son he never wanted me to reunite with. what my ex did was that he helped me write an invitation for my minor son because he never wanted to anger me but he then went behind my back and tried intercepting him from entering the US.
He doesn’t like kids.
What really helped me fight this case is that I still had a copy of the motorized invitation letter that he submitted to the embassy and other joint stuff to prove my case and of course we had dna testing.
8 months after submitting the NOID and N14. Both my GC and citizen were approved.
Note: I did not retain an attorney for the NOID and N14.