Kacey8361

On 12/7/2019 at 8:59 PM, Villanelle said:

Looking at that it would seem they used common law marriage to get him residency there. Unless I am missing something... It still doesnt rub me right though for them to claim to be in a common law marriage for CA immigration and to claim to be single to US immigration. 

In Canada we were allowed to remain as common law when my partner moved there from the USA. 100% legit and legal. No marriage necessary. In the US you are not allowed to immigrate based on Common law status. Whether that rubs you the right way or not - we have been 100% truthful and legit through this entire process and in the end does not matter how it makes you feel. 

58 minutes ago, Boiler said:

Why do you need approval to leave?

Without approval, I ran the risk of my K-1 visa and application being forfeited. The K-1 Visa is only valid for a “one-time entry”. This is outlined clearly once your K-1 is approved and issued. Just so happened that my ex-husband/father of my children had a stroke the day before we entered the US. I had to consult directly with USCIS to be granted permission to leave the US and return to Canada to bring my kids to see their father (his future is very unstable at this point). I did not want to run the risk of having to start over - we can all appreciate how much time and effort goes into the K-1 process. 
 

@Villanelle I had to speak some “higher-ups” at USCIS  and put my unique scenario into writing (email). Also, send copies of everything via email as well. 
 

I think they also had to consult with CBP and Montreal. Not even exactly sure what took place behind the scenes. wish I knew who was all involved as I feel personally indebted to them for going the extra mile to allow me such a privilege. I understand wholly that this type of thing is not taken lightly and not given to every person. 
 

I am truly truly thankful. 
 

with all that being said, I would like to remind others that this site it a site for advice, direction, and often hope. I was saddened to see so many people so quick to say “not a chance” and such, rather than give advice. This is an unfortunate scenario, not one I would wish on anyone. I was not coming her for permission but rather to find those that had the ability to understand, guide, and offer some help. I was astonished at many of the responses from others, and then those who took it upon themselves to draw assumptions.  It has lessened my faith in my peers on this site and has certainly ‘cheapened’ the experience. I only hope that for anyone going through my unfortunate circumstances will find this thread and be offered a ray of Hope. Also, as a reminder - if something so urgent and important does occur, to report directly to USCIS rather than take words offered here as gospel. 
 

where there’s a will, there’s a way. And while the whole Visa process seems daunting and almost autonomous - there are real people that stand behind these policies and process these applications that are willing to listen and understand! Again, much gratitude for them, for the process, and for those that are here to truly help. 
 

cheers. 

Just now, geowrian said:

The ability to leave was never in question.

The ability to leave under emergency circumstances and not have my application scrapped was. That was my initial query - not the million other assumptions that were made. 

Update: Approved to leave. 
so so glad it was up to the immigration officers I met with today and not some of you! 
 

have a great day! 

4 hours ago, JFH said:

Trouble is, many times we never find out. I often wonder what happens to all those posters. 

No no no! We didn’t get married. Same partner. Haha. 

Just now, ADW & JOP said:

K1 is a one-time entry. You won't be able to get this all sorted in time. If you must visit Canada, then you should sort out your affairs first before crossing the border, otherwise you will need to start from scratch.

Thank you. I found a similar thread here where it was possible. In a total bind here. Have affairs in US that need to be taken care of andouille emergencies in Canada. 
 

when it rains, it pours 🤷🏻‍♀️

3 minutes ago, Lemonslice said:

Do not enter the US and go to Canada first?

Impossible! The vehicle I am renting is from the US - will be entering US in the morning. Was going to bring this matter to their attention tomorrow when I cross. 
 

at my interview last week the lady said to me “you must not leave, and then re-enter US before you are married” to which I thought “no kidding, why would I?” Then this happened. 
 

totally freaking out

Help! 
 

Just got K-1 approval today. Entering USA in the morning, and just learned that my children’s father (who lives in Canada) has just suffered a stroke 😞 

needing time take the kids to see their father. Cannot do so for another 2 weeks. (Dec -8) This is a must! 
 

What do I do? Staying in Canada is not a possibility for right now, will be married next weekend (Dec 14)
 

Can I expect trouble upon re-entry into the USA?

thank you. 

4 hours ago, klgck said:

Oh that's weird! Mine took a few hours for it to be able to be tracked on Canada Post. The tracking shows estimated delivery is the 9th for me. I will be picking mine up at the post office, so I'm not sure if that makes a difference?

Oh hell naw! Mine said that after a while too. I wasn’t having it. I called and picked mine up at the depot at 630. Couldn’t stand to be here a moment longer than necessary. We are off tomorrow morning! 

11 minutes ago, klgck said:

Hahaha you have been too! So exciting. Supposed to arrive on the 9th.

How do you know that? My tracking does not give a delivery date. I assumed it was going to be tomorrow 

40 minutes ago, klgck said:

Yay! Me too ☺️ finally you can leave Montreal soon!

You’re issued too?! Yesssss! So happy for you. You've been so patient; unlike me. Lol 

2 minutes ago, Thrillhouse said:

Woohoo!! Au revior Montreal! 😄

Omg for real. Forever. ✌🏻

2 hours ago, Kacey8361 said:

Thank goodness @klgck !! 

@Thrillhouse @klgck

visa Issued! AIS website still says “Status: Appointment” but CEAC says issued. Whew. Sweet relief. 

11 hours ago, klgck said:

That's awesome! Great planning on your part. That will be a very loooong but very fun trip. Hahaha that's funny. So excited for you both  

That is so so exciting!! Wish I had you planning my events! So organized - love it! 

13 hours ago, klgck said:

 

Yes! Finally in administrative processing after checking 10x a day hahah. So exciting that you got your passport, @Thrillhouse! Is it a big package? 

Really hoping you get yours soon, @Kacey8361!!!

Thank goodness @klgck !! 

3 hours ago, Thrillhouse said:

 

Aww man, that sucks. I'm sorry you have to wait around, especially with kids in tow. I have a good feeling about next week through.

Thanks girl! All the best to you!! 

Just now, Thrillhouse said:

Yes ma'am, got it in hand less than 45 minutes ago. Still gobsmacked. 😯

 

Any updates on your end? Ditto @klgck!

Nothing for me 😞 assuming I’ll be here for another weekend 🙄🙄

17 hours ago, Kacey8361 said:

I hope so too!! Really trying NOT to be homeless in Montreal. Hahahaha. Kidding. Sort of. Lol 

@klgck any update for you? @Thrillhouse I see you got your Visa! Congrats so so happy for you! Bon Voyage!! 

1 minute ago, klgck said:

I'm really hoping you get yours soon so you can head out! Too much time in Montreal haha. 

I hope so too!! Really trying NOT to be homeless in Montreal. Hahahaha. Kidding. Sort of. Lol 

2 minutes ago, klgck said:

I stayed at an Airbnb very close by (10 min walk from consulate). We got the whole apartment for $42 a night and it was so nice. 

That’s so great. We only have this Airbnb till Friday. No idea what I’m gonna do if no passport by then. *insert panic here*

1 hour ago, Oscean said:

Hello 

Can I have any good hotel/motel suggestion with parking for interview day ?  (looking for some economic stay, I am gona drive from Toronto to Montreal ) 

 

TIA

I am renting an Air BbB. Seemed the most affordable and the place is super cozy. As for parking, there’s quite a bit around the interview place, I think I paid $15 for a couple of hours. 
 

37 minutes ago, Thrillhouse said:

CEAC status updated to "Issued"! Just got the Purolator notice! 😮

Congrats, girl!! 
when does it say purolator will deliver? 

21 hours ago, Terribelle said:

I'm a Canadian applying for a K1 visa in order to move to the USA with my partner. Our visa interview is on Wednesday (Yay).

Its occurred to me that I haven't been requested to bring any evidence to prove I'm allowed to bring my 11 year old with me to the USA, other than any court documents or custody agreements my Ex and I have. We divorced very amicably, and all we have is our Separation Agreement. Will this be enough to allow her to get a visa? Will it also be enough for us to cross the border once we get our visas or is there some kind of permission form I should also get my Ex to sign?

I tried a google search but all I've been able to find is the Canadian consent letter for children traveling abroad, which I'm not confident will apply to this situation.

Anyone with experience able to point me in the right direction?

Hello! 
 

Just went through the same process and had my interview last week. I had gone to a lawyer before my interview and had him notarize a typed letter signed by me and my exhusband. The letter basically stated that he gives permission for our children to move permanently with me to the US. They did require this letter at the interview and stated to me that many don’t even think to bring one. 
 

best of luck at your interview. 

On 11/24/2019 at 1:21 PM, chiggins82 said:

I just found out that for the past 3 years, my husband has been chasing on me with another person, long distance and outside the US. 

 

I'm not looking for advice around immigration, but I had nowhere to turn for advice. I'm totally alone here and I'm scared to call my family because I don't know what to do.

 

I just uncovered this this morning. I don't know everything, but there are email exchanges going back 3 years. Love letters, he sent her gifts, he spends the day on Skype with her when I'm out of town. He emailed everyday how much he loves her. Sounds a while lot like how we emailed when we were dating.

 

I have nowhere to go right now and I don't know what to do. He says he wants to stay with me and work it out. Where do I begin

I am so sorry that you have to endure this. 3 years is a long time. Sounds like there was more than enough time for him to correct his actions - but chose not to. Is he sorry, or sorry that he got caught? Anyways, not place to judge. 
 

Don’t be afraid to reach out to friends and family. While it is difficult, it is far better than having to deal with this solo. Seek support for you. Make decisions you can live with and do whatever you need to do to heal. 
 

this is a sad story, and I hope you find peace in this situation. 

1 hour ago, klgck said:

Yay! Mine still says received, hoping it changes later today/this week.

I’m totally confident that it will.