Kingdomcome84

Many may not know how help you with a psychologist in your state, but I'm sure people here would be able to help you with your situation if you explained your story in detail. you would get many responses and alternatives of help 

It doesn't get enforced.

I periodically visit VJ long after my marriage failed and i've yet to see anyone comeback to complain about being bill by the govt for benefits

but i still recommend the US citizens to pull it if possible.

I-864 never gets enforced. especially not under this Biden Administration 

10 hours ago, Scandi said:

https://www.uscis.gov/report-fraud/uscis-tip-form

I just filled out this form but you cant attach files. I also heard there are local field offices out there to send the paper documentation. can anyone correct me on that if im wrong

3 hours ago, aaron2020 said:

Since you never filed an I-485 for her, forget about her and move on with your life.
 

She can't adjust status without your participation.  

If she tries to file under VAWA, she would still need to show how her marriage ended - annulment because she's a bigamist.  Fraud and bigamy will be reasons to deny her a green card. 

I know for sure she's already started or will start the VAWA process. she took out a false protection order on me in august 2020. One thing i do know for sure is that local courts and the USCIS dont cooperate. The Annulment decree needs to be handed to USCIS by me. Im assuming no one here has donr this before

7 hours ago, Boiler said:

Was it annulled on the basis she was already married?

yes it was annulled based on bigamy

7 hours ago, Dashinka said:

It is not clear, has the I485 been submitted yet?  Assuming it has been submitted, the important thing for you is to withdraw the I864 which can be done by sending a letter to USCIS.

 

Good Luck!

I caught her in an affair 3months into us being married so i never go to apply for i485. her friend advised her to take out a protection order on me right after she moved out in May 2020

A little back story. Foreign fiancé entered with K1 in July 2019, lots of issues during our 90days but still married her in October 2019 within the window. 3months after being married i caught here having an affair after a very bad influenced girlfriend of hers started coming around. Pandemic hit and made things even worse during lockdown. Wife moved out in may 2020 to live with that same friend. I also discovered during the lockdown she had a whole other husband she's currently married to back home in her foreign country. I kept all the evidence and gathered as much as needed to support my case. I filed for annulment in November 2020. Trial was held March 2021 and was granted in my favor. Her appeal was denied earlier this month. Annulment Decree arrived in my hands as of a few days ago

for those who have done this before, I need to know what branches of the USCIS do i submit this to? i will include all the supporting evidence that i used to will the court case

I'm giving my response based on me having went thru your same journey and also brought a spouse from Nigeria. USA is very relaxed with immigration once the beneficiary steps foot on US soil,  and this is whether the beneficiary gets married to their sponsor or NOT. Him staying in the US is no longer up to you if the marriage ended even if he's at fault on why it ended. There many loopholes that lawyers, home shelters and church organizations that know how to work the system. Even if they don't get their paperwork based off marriage to you, most immigrants plan to stay in the US for the rest of their life until a massive government amnesty thus pardoning all immigrants. The last government amnesty was 20yrs ago right before Clinton left office. Biden has has plans to reinstate mass amnesty to all immigrants  

This is why everyone on this forum responds with "finding your happiness and moving on" because nothing can be done that you would have control of. I've felt the pain your going thru because it sucks for your love, affection, money & time to have been used. I wouldn't worry about the 864 sponsorship because its NEVER or rarely enforced. Hope you get well and stay strong

On 11/17/2020 at 2:49 PM, Ray.Bonaquist said:

A human being is not a sack of potatoes. A human being who has left their country and family and career and relocated to a different country for “love” should not just be cast out (into the outer darkness where there’s weeping and gnashing of teeth) just because of divorce, or other minor transgressions of the law.

Everyone in Nigeria wants out of the country if the opportunity presents itself.  Love is just the easiest way to get out. Petitioner falls in love and pays for everything and the beneficiary get a free ride whether its for love or not

On 9/28/2020 at 9:43 PM, lanalexis said:

I wrote here sometime ago about getting scammed by a Frenchman who was seeking gay relationships during our short marriage. My annulment has just been granted and I want to thank everyone here for their support. It has been a very long road, but justice has prevailed in my situation. If you are a victim of immigration fraud, please don't give up. If you're having doubts about the intentions of your partner like I did, please investigate and keep digging until you have answers. 

did a lawyer represent you at the trial?

Bigamy is being already married to someone while married to me at the same time. 

Didn't divorce the first spouse before marrying second spouse

So my question is would USCIS void a self-petitioning spouse i360 VAWA on basis of Bigamy. OR is an annulment only useful when its due to fraud/misrepresentation

I am going thru the same as OP. My foreign spouse also aborted my child within 7 months of marriage without me knowing and claimed miscarriage.  She's been denied VAWA emotional abuse and she filed a protective order against me so she can make up physical abuse. i petitioned to change the existing divorce case to an Annulment based on bigamy and by my surprise, the court agreed to set aside the divorce to here my annulment case first which the status hearing is set in 2wks

My question is if i win the annulment based on bigamy, isn't this enough for USCIS to deny the foreign spouse VAWA claim? Does the annulment has to based ONLY on fraud/misrepresentation for USCIS to void the VAWA claim?

I had a new question I want to ask regarding VAWA

if VAWA is denied for the beneficiary and removal proceedings begins, Can beneficiary still AoS thru the original petitioner in the midst of the removal proceeding process and succeed with adjusting status?

If she went thru with filing AoS without your behalf, be ready for the K1 wife to makeup a nasty VAWA case against you as her last means to try to stay in the USA

3 minutes ago, geowrian said:

Usually through reports from a psychologist and/or professionals at shelters.

I always see these facts can be made up because you can. These claims get filed months or years later. these claims are loopholes in the system.

VAWA needs to stick to just police reports, restraining orders OR such emotional abuse claim that shows proof that the event happened while the marriage was ongoing.

15 hours ago, Pinkrlion said:

It is covered with documentation. 

how does one prove emotional abuse? and what's worst is how can one prove their spouse caused the emotional abuse? and how do you get documentation relating to this

14 hours ago, Rob007 said:

i think yes. we got married in 2016 and they asked why there is no photos of your marriage. she told the 1st year my grand father passed away the 2nd year her uncle passed away and 3rd year i was finishing my school so didnot had a time to go back. which is true in every year. 

she might have said we'll get married soon.

if my wife told we are getting married soon and the Co took a note for it. so it seems the only way to get out of AP is getting married traditionally. but how do we let them know we got married?

 

lot of things going on my head..

Thanks Arken for the reply and do share me more if you could think of anything.

Your saying your wife may have told the CO at the interview we'll get married soon AND you here posting on VJ that your married already. Im confused trying to understand your case and if I was a CO, i'd be confused too. 

Are you married now or not?

were you married before your wife's interview?

if you were married b4 your wife's interview, then why would your wife might be telling the CO we'll be getting married soon

something isn't adding up and that's why your case is on hold for that very reason

On May 21 my fiancé had her interview .

On June 6 it changed to "Application Received"

On June 20 it change to "Administrative Processing"

its been stuck on AP ever since going on 8wks from the interview till now.

I don't pay attention to the K2 status. the K1 is all what matters

you previous thread you created you stated the consulate sent you a response after 1yr in AP:

Visa applications are adjudicated in accordance with the provisions of the Immigration and Nationality Act (INA) and applicable federal regulations.  Your case has been denied under section 221(g) of the INA.  An application may be denied under section 221(g) of the INA when required or supporting documents are incomplete or while the consular officer verifies information submitted in support of an application.  Please be advised the completion time for this process may take 90 days and in some cases six months or longer. The Consulate is unable to issue a visa if the applicant’s visa application is still pending administrative processing. The consulate is also unable to waive or influence the amount of time that this processing may take. Please be assured that you will be contacted as soon as this process is complete..

Your case was denied. does the embassy still have your passports till this day?

Will my father and step-mother be able to petition me instead if I decided to divorce my husband? There's a long wait time b4 parent can petition for you

What will happen to my marriage-based I-130 and I-485 that's still pending? If your husband pulls out his Affidavit of support, you'll be out of status

Will I have to go back to my home country if I decide to go this route? if you go back to you country, you will be barred/ denied re-entry due to your current status/ immigration intentions

Im sure it means the last time someone opened or did anything with the passports/ application etc

14 hours ago, Unknown4 said:

Hi temi,I went for my k1visa  interview on 10 of May 2019,since then my status remain READY it never change to nonthing till now

So what status did it change to now?

June 20 (mine just change to "Administrative Processing")