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7 hours ago, discoverusa said:

I would ask for your possesions back in the divorce in lieu of spousal support. Physician=makes money! 🙂

Hi, yes thats what I want to try to do. Given my spouse’s behavior I know I'm in for a long battle! Thanks to Almighty I recently got a full time job offer from PricewaterhouseCoopers Accounting Firm in NY and will have decent income...so I'm just wondering if I'll get any spousal support..I did want a compensation because of the trauma he's putting me through, how's he deceived me, threatened me falsely but not sure if that will go in my favor. 

I just want to get rid of him, get belongings back and then  see if any support/compensation is gettable. 

2 hours ago, payxibka said:

Divorce can take place in either state where the parties currently reside.   Where she used to live or where the attorney's office is located does not matter.  Her choice was NY or husband's current state of residence.   If the case was filed in Texas it would be because the husband is a Texas resident or Texas would not have jurisdiction.

Hi, Yes I filed in texas because he's been resident of Dallas since many years. I couldn’t have filed in NY because I didn't meet necessary requirements to file for divorce in NYC. 

19 minutes ago, Timona said:

OP, other have addressed your divorce issues. I will ask on your GC.

 

Since you got it in 2019, have you filed to remove conditions? What is the residence since date written on your GC? 

You are technically still married, so you will have to file as such and then as soon as you get the divorce certificate, send that in and request USCIS to switch to divorce waiver option.

 

I understand it is taking long in your divorce due to his whack-a-mole behavior. However, 4 months is a lot. Divorce in Texas is 60 days, I believe, which is 2 months. You should have got your divorce long ago. Push your lawyer or do it yourself. 

Lastly, unless your belongings are $5000+, for the sake of your sanity, just let him keep it. They can be replaced. 

Hi, 

Just to clarify to everyone I was lucky when I got my CR1 visa it was already past 2.5 years of our marriage so I got 10 years GC upon entry so I don't have to worry about 2 years conditional residence removal procedure. 

However, I didn't know much when I was in dallas with my ex spouse. He took full advantage of my lack of knowledge and tried to intimidate me saying "it doesn't matter if I have 10 yrs visa because moment we are divorced he'd inform USCIS and get me deported on the basis of fraud and nonsense". I was scared for a while and only gained confidence after speaking to several immigration lawyers that it won't be so easy for him to get me deported now that I have a 10 permanent GC.

He'd even try to say he'll get annulment as this was fraud marriage. It's so shameful to think that this guy who's a physician by profession, so called well behaved, polite person could turn out to be monster. He was trying to pressurize me in every possible way to stay away from divorcing. Reasons only best known to him and his parents

Yes absolutely I'm pushing my lawyer to file motion for default judgment asap so that I can get divorce granted. 

I sincerely want to thank everyone from the bottom of my heart who took out time to send me good wishes and their precious advices!! It all means a lot!! I will not give up and I will fight through it and come out stronger. 

12 minutes ago, Diane and Chris said:

I believe OP lived in Texas and is now in NY. 

Hi, yes im currently living in NY but I filed for divorce in dallas texas and my lawyer is based in dallas.

56 minutes ago, USC4SPOUSE said:

I just want to say that is just terrible, and I am sorry you are going through this. Focus on your future and learn from the past as you let go of it. Things are things. You came out of this in one piece even though it may not feel that way right now.

 

all the best to you,

 

USC4SPOUSE

Thank you!! 

2 minutes ago, laylalex said:

She was already permitted to do drop service at his house, so she doesn't need to worry about service. Her husband passed the time he had to respond, so she can now get the divorce entered by default, if I am reading correctly what she wrote. I agree her lawyer (if she has one?) needs to get moving on the default now that the time is passed for him to file something.

 

OP, your best revenge is moving on and living your very best life. I wanted to punish my ex so badly when he left me and basically took everything out of our joint bank account, cut off my access to our credit cards (I was only ever an authorized user), etc. I had a rough time in the months that followed until I got organized and took control. I kept on top of the divorce and asked a lot of questions. My lawyer was very sympathetic and fought hard for me. It was good to have someone hold my hand while I got my footing again because I was heartbroken and my whole world had been turned upside down. If you can afford a lawyer, get one. If not, there are often self help clinics at the courts to guide you. Rely on your friends and family, don't be ashamed of what has happened. 

 

Best of luck. You are going to come out of this stronger and happier in the end. Losing possessions can feel hard but in the end, they're only things, even if they seem dear to you. Sometimes it's better to let them go if you must in order to take care of yourself. 

I'm so sorry to hear about you. But you're right!! I have to fight and get out of this and move on with life

6 minutes ago, JeanneAdil said:

get on the butt of your lawyer as there are things to do 

 

Texas Rule of Civil Procedure 106 requires that the process server first try to deliver the papers in person or by certified mail. 

You can ask the court to serve them in another way if trying to serve them in person or by certified mail didn't work. Texas rules now let you serve people by e-mail or even social media. This is called substituted service.

Yes initially we tried serving through police constable. He opened the door and misbehaved without giving away his identity and closed door on the lady constable. But the lady identified that as my spouse looking at his driving license. Then we decided to go with substitute service and went with private processor. 5 more attempts were made. In those 5 attempts he/some male from his fam opened door and were not ready to take papers or reveal where my spouse was. On other occasions the processor noted that there were shadows inside house who'd purposely not open door and wait till he left. 

After all this chaos, we again got another motion for substitute service where court asked processor to leave papers at his door because he was intentionally avoiding taking them..

11 minutes ago, milimelo said:

Since you lived in the same house, you could’ve gone to police and had an officer come out with you so you can get your possessions. 

Actually I left that house and flew to NY to my extended family because I didn't have anyone in dallas. Back then he claimed he'll file for divorce and send my belongings. I wasn't even in that state to think so much. I was still in shock that how could he be so harsh...its only later I realized it was his ploy to keep me away from getting out of it. 

While I was in that house he'd tell me repeatedly let's get divorced, I was a burden on him, parasite etc...all kinds of things. So when I decided to leave I was sure he'll end it because he wanted to!! I fail to understand why is he subjecting me to this nightmare today if it was him who wanted a divorce in the first place. So frustrating

Just now, Boiler said:

Do you have a Divorce Lawyer, you make it sound like you do not.

No I do. I filed for divorce 4 months ago. But my spouse wasn't taking papers. Everytime processor went to serve he'd not open door. Till date he's trying to manipulate me saying if he files response I'll get deported. All rubbish claims! After 5 attempts court ordered to drop papers at his door. After which he'd have 25 days or so to respond...that deadline has already passed and he didn't respond to that petition till date. I know I can probably still get divorce but I'm worried what if he keeps hiding makes it even more painful and frustrating. All my belongings are with him at his home. 

10 minutes ago, mushroomspore said:

I'm so sorry for your pain and trauma. But unfortunately this isn't really an immigration issue. It's a domestic issue and USCIS has zero jurisdiction over that. It is not their job to investigate or punish US citizens unless those US citizens are involved in extremely intense immigration-related crimes like human trafficking rings or visa mills. While your marriage definitely sounds like it was abusive, it does not fall under what USCIS and the courts would legally consider criminal and fraudulent in terms of immigration. The good thing is that your ex has no power or authority over your immigration status. That is 100% your responsibility. And you should consult a divorce lawyer. Divorce laws vary state by state, but I'm pretty sure most states (if not all) do not require both parties to approve the divorce. You should document his abusive behavior and give it to your lawyer to present in divorce court. Report your ex to the police as well and get a police escort to get your stuff back. Divorce and move on.

Thank you for your advice! Appreciate it Yes now I'm looking  to get a default judgement by court if possible so that I can get divorce and get my belongings but my only regret is I couldn't really punish him for destroying my life and putting me through this hell. Hoping for the best 

2 minutes ago, payxibka said:

No punishment will be forthcoming from the immigration side, so nothing there for you

Ohh all these past 2 years he kept accusing me of fraud and malicious things and said he'll only return my belongings after divorce but he didn't file. If I asked he'd say if I force things he'll get me deported because I'm a fraud. Its unfortunate but I'm the one whose been betrayed and cheated 😔

Hello Everyone,

Few years ago I was an active member of this forum. After a wait of 2.5 years I got my visa and moved to US. Unfortunately I didn't know what was awaiting me. Once I moved my husband started treating me badly, was subjected to emotional abuse, he forced me to sleep in separate room. This continued for 2.5 months. He wanted a divorce. So once I got my card I left his house in 2019. After that he told me he'll file for divorce and I should sign. I agreed to do so because I was emotionally broken and didn't want to ever return to man who had no feelings or respect. But in that process he held on to my wedding jewelry, my clothes and purposely held those so that I don't demand any compensation or alimony. I even begged him that if he doesn't have feelings then file for divorce and let go of me. He always threatened me he'll get me deported if I claim for anything. Nevertheless, finally this year after waiting for 2 years I filed for divorce and claimed for belongings, my jewelry, and compensation for frauding me, traumatizing and leaving me stranded. Currently he is yet to respond to court order. I am afraid he'll hide my belongings and not give divorce. Is there any way I can get help from authorities or complain to immigration for frauding me. I want to punish him but don't know what resources are available for someone like in my situation. Will appreciate any advice!!

Hello,

My maternal uncle applied for my parents and his other sister. Their cases are now with NVC. We're arranging necessary documents at this moment. Currently my uncle who's the petitioner is unemployed. Though he has some decent funds in his account but doesn't have a job/monthly pay stubs. He is looking for a joint sponsor with whom he can jointly co-sponsor  for my parents. Can someone guide me about what documents are required and if any prerequisites are needed to become a joint sponsor? Thanks in advance 

Regards

2 minutes ago, SusieQQQ said:

If he has aged out on CSPA, he will not be eligible for a visa. If he is still under 21 on CSPA calculation when a visa becomes available, then he will be eligible. Have you calculated his CSPA age? (Need birth date, priority date, approval date).

Hi,

Thank you very much for your reply.  No I didn't How can I calculate his age on CSPA?

Hi Everyone,

Hope everyone's staying safe. I had a question. My uncle had applied for my parents and brother under F4 visa category. They received NVC letter last month. However, when we checked my brother's name was missing in accompanying list. He is 28 now but unmarried and has been in the USA on student visa for past 5 years. He completed his Bachelors in NY and currently pursuing his MBA in NY. We're all extremely stressed out about his name being removed. Can anyone guide us as to what we can do in this situation and add his name so that he can attend consulate interview along with them. We heard from others that we can send letter to NVC so my question is who should be sending the letter? The petitioner or Principal Applicant or my brother? Does that work? Any help will be appreciated!!

Thanks in Advance

Hi Everyone,

Hope everyone's staying safe. I had a question. My uncle had applied for my parents and brother under F4 visa category. They received NVC letter last month. However, when we checked my brother's name was missing in accompanying list. He is 28 now but unmarried and has been in the USA on student visa for past 5 years. He completed his Bachelors in NY and currently pursuing his MBA in NY. We're all extremely stressed out about his name being removed. Can anyone guide us as to what we can do in this situation and add his name so that he can attend consulate interview along with them. We heard from others that we can send letter to NVC so my question is who should be sending the letter? The petitioner or Principal Applicant or my brother? Does that work? Any help will be appreciated!!

Thanks in Advance

13 minutes ago, aleful said:

hi

 

was a request for evidence sent maybe and your uncle didn't receive it? did he move at any point?

 

a long time has passed, I'm not sure if an attorney can do anything, they usually give you 30 days to appeal? Maybe an attorney can get a motion to reopen the case? I don't know if there is anything he can do

 

 

Yes he moved out to a new address during that period. We don't know anything. My uncle had applied for my khala along with moms application. We found out that Hers was sent to nvc and on that very same date my moms case got closed. My khala lives in Bangladesh and my mom lived in Dubai back then. I cannot understand anything. 

We used to check status online regularly and last update was her case was received in local office in 2011. We were just waiting patiently...plus There's no RFE thing online either...its just too shocking 

Hello,

My uncle is a US citizen and had applied for my mother under F4 category in 2007. Last online update we had was in 2011 which said case was received in local office. Recently my uncle contacted uscis to get an update on the case and he was told that the case was administratively closed and I130 is not pending anymore. Can anyone explain what does USCIS mean? Its just so shocking..😪😪what

 can be our next option now?..can any immigration attorney help us in anyway. I'd appreciate any advice and help

1 minute ago, SusieQQQ said:

Depends what country she is resident of. Some allow mail-in /online renewal if same visa type, most require another interview. 

She lives in Bangladesh and is a Bangladeshi passport holder.. So does she need to fill out form and take interview appointment? 

Hi everyone,

My aunt had a 5 years multiple tourist visa to USA which expires today. Just wanted to find out what's the procedure for renewal? I mean does she just need to simply fill out a new d260 non immigrants visa application form, submit and get an interview date? Or Is it any different? 

Can someone please help me so that I can guide her better. Thanks in advance 

 Hi,  On 11th April USCIS updated my case status saying "card was mailed" and the tracking showed it was out for delivery in mesquite TX on 13th morning... That was a rainy day so maybe they didn't deliver. At night USPS updated status showing "Awaiting delivery scan" which means there's no evidence of it whether it was delivered or not.. I waited patiently but it's Tuesday evening and I still didn't get it😞😞. I tried calling USPS to talk to customer service but couldn't get actual person on phone.. I'm extremely worried now!  any idea how we can reach customer representative in phone?? Any help will be highly appreciate. Please help me! 

OMG I'm also awaiting the delivery of my card. On 11th April USCIS updated case status saying "card was mailed" and I was given USPS tracking number. All was good.. and the tracking showed the carrier was out for delivery in mesquite TX on 13th morning... That day was a rainy day...i didn't get any delivery..at night USPS updated status showing "Awaiting delivery scan" which means there's no evidence of it whether it was delivered or not.. It's Tuesday evening and I still get my card 😞😞. I tried calling USPS to talk to customer service but couldn't get actual person on phone.. I'm extremely worried now! any idea how can reach customer representative in phone?? I need to know where's my card

11 hours ago, GigglesRR said:

Hello,

 

How do you check the status of the Green Card? My husband entered the US 3/30 and recived his social security card on 4/8/19 via mail. USCIS status still says they sent our file to the Dept of State... seems like it is never up to date. Any info is much appreciated.

 

Thank you.

Hi. I signed up and created an account with USCIS to keep a track of my Green cards status. There's another way. You can also check your status online by going on their website 

https://egov.uscis.gov/casestatus/landing.do

All you need is the receipt number that was given to you when you paid the immigrants fee for the processing of green card. I was tracking it both the ways... Hope this helps. 😊

Hi everybody!

Thankfully my online status says "card produced- non DACA". It has been mailed. Hoping to get it soon! 😊😊

I was just wondering what's DACA got to do with spouse visa. Can anyone explain what USCIS means by Non DACA thing?