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tcy

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  1. Hi, yes thats what I want to try to do. Given my spouse’s behavior I know I'm in for a long battle! Thanks to Almighty I recently got a full time job offer from PricewaterhouseCoopers Accounting Firm in NY and will have decent income...so I'm just wondering if I'll get any spousal support..I did want a compensation because of the trauma he's putting me through, how's he deceived me, threatened me falsely but not sure if that will go in my favor. I just want to get rid of him, get belongings back and then see if any support/compensation is gettable.
  2. Hi, Yes I filed in texas because he's been resident of Dallas since many years. I couldn’t have filed in NY because I didn't meet necessary requirements to file for divorce in NYC.
  3. Hi, Just to clarify to everyone I was lucky when I got my CR1 visa it was already past 2.5 years of our marriage so I got 10 years GC upon entry so I don't have to worry about 2 years conditional residence removal procedure. However, I didn't know much when I was in dallas with my ex spouse. He took full advantage of my lack of knowledge and tried to intimidate me saying "it doesn't matter if I have 10 yrs visa because moment we are divorced he'd inform USCIS and get me deported on the basis of fraud and nonsense". I was scared for a while and only gained confidence after speaking to several immigration lawyers that it won't be so easy for him to get me deported now that I have a 10 permanent GC. He'd even try to say he'll get annulment as this was fraud marriage. It's so shameful to think that this guy who's a physician by profession, so called well behaved, polite person could turn out to be monster. He was trying to pressurize me in every possible way to stay away from divorcing. Reasons only best known to him and his parents Yes absolutely I'm pushing my lawyer to file motion for default judgment asap so that I can get divorce granted.
  4. I sincerely want to thank everyone from the bottom of my heart who took out time to send me good wishes and their precious advices!! It all means a lot!! I will not give up and I will fight through it and come out stronger.
  5. Hi, yes im currently living in NY but I filed for divorce in dallas texas and my lawyer is based in dallas.
  6. I'm so sorry to hear about you. But you're right!! I have to fight and get out of this and move on with life
  7. Yes initially we tried serving through police constable. He opened the door and misbehaved without giving away his identity and closed door on the lady constable. But the lady identified that as my spouse looking at his driving license. Then we decided to go with substitute service and went with private processor. 5 more attempts were made. In those 5 attempts he/some male from his fam opened door and were not ready to take papers or reveal where my spouse was. On other occasions the processor noted that there were shadows inside house who'd purposely not open door and wait till he left. After all this chaos, we again got another motion for substitute service where court asked processor to leave papers at his door because he was intentionally avoiding taking them..
  8. Actually I left that house and flew to NY to my extended family because I didn't have anyone in dallas. Back then he claimed he'll file for divorce and send my belongings. I wasn't even in that state to think so much. I was still in shock that how could he be so harsh...its only later I realized it was his ploy to keep me away from getting out of it. While I was in that house he'd tell me repeatedly let's get divorced, I was a burden on him, parasite etc...all kinds of things. So when I decided to leave I was sure he'll end it because he wanted to!! I fail to understand why is he subjecting me to this nightmare today if it was him who wanted a divorce in the first place. So frustrating
  9. No I do. I filed for divorce 4 months ago. But my spouse wasn't taking papers. Everytime processor went to serve he'd not open door. Till date he's trying to manipulate me saying if he files response I'll get deported. All rubbish claims! After 5 attempts court ordered to drop papers at his door. After which he'd have 25 days or so to respond...that deadline has already passed and he didn't respond to that petition till date. I know I can probably still get divorce but I'm worried what if he keeps hiding makes it even more painful and frustrating. All my belongings are with him at his home.
  10. Thank you for your advice! Appreciate it Yes now I'm looking to get a default judgement by court if possible so that I can get divorce and get my belongings but my only regret is I couldn't really punish him for destroying my life and putting me through this hell. Hoping for the best
  11. Ohh all these past 2 years he kept accusing me of fraud and malicious things and said he'll only return my belongings after divorce but he didn't file. If I asked he'd say if I force things he'll get me deported because I'm a fraud. Its unfortunate but I'm the one whose been betrayed and cheated 😔
  12. Hello Everyone, Few years ago I was an active member of this forum. After a wait of 2.5 years I got my visa and moved to US. Unfortunately I didn't know what was awaiting me. Once I moved my husband started treating me badly, was subjected to emotional abuse, he forced me to sleep in separate room. This continued for 2.5 months. He wanted a divorce. So once I got my card I left his house in 2019. After that he told me he'll file for divorce and I should sign. I agreed to do so because I was emotionally broken and didn't want to ever return to man who had no feelings or respect. But in that process he held on to my wedding jewelry, my clothes and purposely held those so that I don't demand any compensation or alimony. I even begged him that if he doesn't have feelings then file for divorce and let go of me. He always threatened me he'll get me deported if I claim for anything. Nevertheless, finally this year after waiting for 2 years I filed for divorce and claimed for belongings, my jewelry, and compensation for frauding me, traumatizing and leaving me stranded. Currently he is yet to respond to court order. I am afraid he'll hide my belongings and not give divorce. Is there any way I can get help from authorities or complain to immigration for frauding me. I want to punish him but don't know what resources are available for someone like in my situation. Will appreciate any advice!!
  13. Hello, My maternal uncle applied for my parents and his other sister. Their cases are now with NVC. We're arranging necessary documents at this moment. Currently my uncle who's the petitioner is unemployed. Though he has some decent funds in his account but doesn't have a job/monthly pay stubs. He is looking for a joint sponsor with whom he can jointly co-sponsor for my parents. Can someone guide me about what documents are required and if any prerequisites are needed to become a joint sponsor? Thanks in advance Regards
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