abhi_meli

with all the issues you have,financial problem,young daughters to take care of,I wouldn't plan to go see a guy with just 4 months of online relationship.You are a mature woman,take your time.

Never leave nothing blank.put an or none

USCIS forms instruction clearly says "If an item is not applicable or the answer is none,then leave the space blank"

Thanks for advice. I will put N/A as I also did same on I-130.

Anyone thinks that this can be a big deal at the interview? I didn't put the name in native alphabet on I-130 either, stupid me...

Go through the instructions for DS-260 before writing "NA".

thing is , no direct number, and my flight is monday, its written in pen (dx perhaps) envelope is sealed, 72hrs for an email response, and its the weekend pratically

Do not worry about it at all.

Why are you being,so impatient? It's only been 4 business days and you have started nagging them.It will arrive soon.

Thanks for all the replys. I do feel like this a scam at times.. I will try to answer the one posters questions. I have tried many times to see it from her side. She has been here 11 months. We have been married for 8 months. I filled out paperwork 3 months after we was married. She just got her combo card 2 weeks ago. I never told her I wouldn't fill out paperwork, I just put it off, cause of all the tampo.. I think her walking the streets especially at night is relevant. It's not safe. Would you be OK with your wife walking the streets at night and u call her and she doesn't answer ? I'm not trying to be smart, but I think a young woman from another country walking the streets at night is asking for trouble..She wants to work, but then doesn't like it after a hour of it and quits, but complains about being home and yes I did pay her the same amount I pay my other workers. She said it wasn't enough and then said it was abuse.This is my first marriage, so I pay no alimony to my ex. We was together for 10 years. She gets mad when I spend money on my daughter, she says that is her money. If she had access to my accounts they would be drained. She thinks money here flows freely. She spends it faster, then I can give it to her. I also send her mother money every month, just like I have from the start. Yes there was red flags from r start of talking. She asked for monthly money at first and during the 2 years she was in the phils, which I sent her every month. She also not only ask me to treat her whole family, all 15 of them why I was there. She also volunteer me to treat her 25 Co workers one day to lunch. Never Asked ne, Just Volunteer me.

Make sure,whenever you let her know your plans,you are with a trusted witness in case she decides to ruin your life by false allegations.I would suggest you spend money and get a good lawyer because that kind of woman is dangerous to deal with.You should have realized that she is a gold digger.

I am going to play devil's advocate because there are two sides to every story and this is only one. No answers required, but I wonder if you looked at it from this perspective. If you still love her and value your wife, perhaps this is how she might feel and does not know how to communicate it properly. Remember, she is coming from a different country with a different culture and traditions.

No judgement, just a different perspective. I would like to think that you both love each other, but just have not figured out how to communicate properly. I hope that you can get past this detour in your life and find a way to move forward together. If you cannot, then I hope that you can both find a way to move on with separate lives, wherever they may lead you.

Good Luck

I finally filled out the paperwork and sent it in. Since then she has joined many private online groups. Keeps her phone on private code and puts it face down. If I get close to her, she pushes the back button. She is on her phone non stop. She locks herself in the bathroom for hours on it.She has thrown away all the clothes and shoes I bought her. She also threw away all r wedding pics and frames.I ask her don't you even appreciate it. She said u was forced, u had no choice, cause if u didn't fill out paperwork I would of said you verbally abuse me and r gas lighting me.

How do you defend this?Yes,he should remember she is from different culture and tradition but she should also remember that this is not Philippines and he is from another culture and religion.Shouting and yelling and making drama is absolutely non sense.This woman has absolutely no appreciation for her husband who brought her here into a country where she can live a much better life than Philippines.

There is nothing to worry about.It's just been 10 days.You will get it very soon.

Leave it blank or not applied.

Beneficiary can also call the NVC and request for the case number.You should call them early in the morning as soon as they open otherwise be prepared to wait long hold time.You should have the information about the Petitioner ready for identification purposes.

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DUH! Your case is approved.You will get the green card soon.Enjoy.

No need to worry.It's not late yet.You will receive it in few days.

In English it translates as Temple.

The most well-known gurdwara is the Harmandir Sahib (popularly known as The Golden Temple) in Amritsar, Punjab, India.

Nope, A gurdwara (Punjabi: ਗੁਰਦੁਆਰਾ, Gurduārā or ਗੁਰਦਵਾਰਾ, gurdwārā; meaning 'door to the Guru') is the place of worship for Sikhs. They did not get married in the Golden Temple.They got married in a hindu temple which is fine but the consulates in India look at all these details.

I am Hindu and my wife is Christian.I wouldn't wanna get married in a Gurudwara,I would either do it in a temple or a Church.That is not normal and the Consulates in India look at all these things.

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Sikhs have Temples, Gurdwara's.

Sikhs do not get married in "temples" they get married in "gurudwara"

We didn't really have an official wedding ceremony. We got married in the court and had a very small intimate wedding ceromony at a temple that we didn't book, just showed up too. I don't see how a giant overpriced wedding would prove anything.

Do you understand my point or you don't? When did I say a giant overpriced wedding would prove something? They might ask you to show the pics of the wedding,the names and contact details of the people who attended the wedding.You said your husband is "SIKH" then how come the wedding ceremony was in a "Temple"? Put yourself in the Consular Officers shoes and then decide...A guy denied student visa earlier found a USC online and married her during first meeting and did the wedding in a temple when he is a sikh.Did any of his relatives attended the wedding?

Question for the OP did u delay filing AOS on purpose? If so l can see why your wife "snapped". She is sitting in the house with tight finances and no job? Her husband won't file for her so she can work and help provide for the family? It sounds like life is no better for her here than it was back in her country.

Even if he delayed filing on purpose,she cannot just go on a rampage in the house with kids sleeping.It does not give her any right to slap her husband. Every story has two sides but if his side is all true then she can't act this way.She should remember she is in a Civilized Country.This is not Philippines.

It's time to do some self study.Read the guides on the top.

They have processed your case pretty fast,just be patient.They will process it as soon as possible.You do not need to call and nag them.There is many people here waiting for more than a year.

It does not matter much but put yourself in the Consular's shoes.Would you trust a couple who just met 2 months ago and decided to get married or you would trust the couple who has taken their time and worked on their relationship for 2 years.You should have met within last two years.Self analyse your case and look for the red flags,you might have.You will need to provide the evidence of meeting plus evidence of a bona fide relationship.The more evidences you front load in your petition the better.Best of luck.

They do not have time to look at the chat records or emails during the Interview,if they need further evidence they will keep his passport and hold the decision and ask him to submit the proofs via mail.But that doesn't mean you shouldn't bring the evidence.They need to see the contents,just the emails back and forth does not prove anything.Print the chat records of the first few days of every month.But the chat records and emails and pictures are just secondary evidence they do not hold much weight.You should have the list of people who attended your wedding.The wedding function receipts etc etc.If your in laws and your family could write affidavits stating that your relationship is genuine then it would help also.best of luck.

Am I allowed to go to the interview with my husband?

Technically you are not allowed to enter the mumbai embassy with your husband but sometimes they do allow the USC's.

I do not think you need to worry about getting married after meeting him for the first time.However, people from Punjab(Sikhs) have committed the most Visa Frauds,they will do anything to settle abroad and the Consulates in India are aware of that and therefore are strict with them during the Visa Interview.But that doesn't mean everyone from Punjab is same.Since you guys are already married I don't think there is going to be any issue.Prepare very well and make sure he is confident in answering.Best of luck.