abhi_meli

My OCI took almost 4 months. Due to Covid they are backlogged

If I was your fiance, I would make best friends with the postman in his area. It is true, getting a mail in India is a difficult thing. He will receive some paperwork before the interview.

20 hours ago, Mavan said:

Gec,

Sorry to hear about this. No worries. DO NOT LEAVE the house and talk with your wife. ONLY BOTH OF YOU CAN SOLVE THIS MATTER.

No matter what happened, this is manageable and i really want you to enjoy your marriage life with your wife that petitioned for you. Whether she snores or she doesn't know how to cook, dude, it is your responsabilisity , as the head of the family to manage this situation. I guess you have been together for a while. So, you know her very well.

You mentioned that she wasn't snoring when she came to Ghana. Now, that she snores, you pretend that she is annoying. Dude, you cannot abandon your wife to sleep on the couch. While awaiting on things to come back to normal from the lockdown, she can have a televisit  with her doctor for some guidelines to solve her health condition (breathing). Snoring is a health condition.  If she is overweight, she can just exercice to loose some weight, work on her breathing. Even during the lockdown, you can find lot of resources to solve her problem.

YOU CANNOT REJECT YOUR WIFI BECAUSE SHE IS SNORING. NEVER NEVER NEVER.

Whether you work days or the grave yard shift,  YOU MUST TAKE CARE OF YOUR WIFE. If you really LOVE this lady, do not leave. Take some time and talk to her. Forget about going to the police department. You can also seek advice from a counselor (family expert).

 

Just consider her text as a joke. She is just messing up with you. She wants to see if you can leave the house knowing you just came to the US.

 

NEVER THINK OF DIVORCE whatever happens. TAKE TIME AND TALK TO YOUR WIFI TO SOLVE THIS PROBLEM.

 

 

GOOD LUCK for everything and stay safe.

 

Shalom

 

He is working all night long and needs to sleep during the day. How would you feel if your wife/husband doesn't care about your need to rest? No, it is not solely his responsibility, both of them are adults need to work this out together. Stop with this "Head of the household" BS. He is not rejecting his wife because she snores, he just wants to sleep in peace after working all night long. Lastly he's not the one who is thinking about the divorce, his wife is. Although there is two sides of every story and we do not know her side.

There is more to this story. If your wife is so immature that she's willing to divorce you just because you need sleep then you will be better off without this woman. Things will definitely be tough for quite some time but you will get through this. Ask your wife to stop bsing and tell you the real reason. If you think you and her can workout that's awesome, otherwise pack your bags, divorce her and start a new life. Make sure you genuinely try to save this marriage and document everything. You'll need to prove that your marriage was a genuine one. It will be difficult as you guys have not spent a lot of time being married but it's doable. I wish you best of luck. 

how about moving to another state? Is that an option for you? 

Hi, I am an Indian born US Citizen applying for first time OCI. The instructions on the Indian government website and CKGS are contradicting and very confusing. I will really appreciate if you can guide me in the right direction. I have few questions, which are as follows:-

1- How many photocopies of the documents do I need to send with my application? 

2- Should I self attest all the photocopies?

3- Do I need to send " affidavit in lieu of originals"?

4- I cannot find "additional particulars form"

5- Do I need to send my cancelled Indian passport? 

He will have to pass the written and driving test just like everyone else. Having Indian license doesn't mean anything here in US. His auto insurance will be high like new drivers and it will eventually come down after few years. I had to pay $250/pm. Best bet would be to take lessons from driving school. 

9 hours ago, Nitas_man said:

Know how bad this mess is?  

 

The perfect legal solution

 

1.  Send 3 divorce texts.  Register that divorce in Pakistan.

2.  Girl marries someone else for short time, consummates that marriage

3.  Husband divorces girl.  Resets her to “free to marry” under local law.  She can’t divorce him either LOL.  She might be stuck at that point?  

4.  “Proxy husband” remarries her in person

5.  “Proxy” files petition, which requires both his previous divorce from her and new husband’s divorce from her plus his new marriage certificate

 

At that point, it is a “normal” case.

 

A greencard holder who told his “wife” he can’t travel to marry her but could travel to consummate the marriage is a dirtbag to begin with because he lied to her.  He’d be getting EXACTLY what he earned.

 

I’m out of this one.  I get in trouble editorializing about laws / beliefs / practice in that region. 

 

Lord have mercy!!!

11 hours ago, missileman said:

🤣  or photos of sheets, etc......

lmfao!!!

On 7/31/2019 at 5:33 PM, Nitas_man said:

Lighten up doc.  

Could be a nurse.

Do you own research. There is plenty of information given here about how to assemble and organize your package. Use the "search". 

If I was you, I would call the travel docs site people and ask them what to do.

Helli friend, 

You need to prove strong ties to your country. You look desperate to go and live abroad and visa officers are well trained to find out the truth. There is no harm in trying but make sure you have strong ties and intention to come back to your country.

I always keep my passport and my green card in my wallet and that wallet is in my pocket while travelling. I also take pictures of all the important documents through my phone before travelling. Your post is very helpful for other people in the same limbo.

I would not wait posting question here and waiting for replies. This matter should be discussed with an experienced immigration attorney. Hope everything goes on well and you don't get back to Udta Punjab.

Forget about that I129f petition and start planning for CR1. Fire that lawyer of yours and do it on your own. I never trust them, specially in India where they purposely create problems just to get more money out of the clients. I have had personal experience with the lawyers over there. The forms and the process is pretty straight forward. Just do your research and you will get CR1. If you keep running after your I129f petition then you will loose more time. 

Most likely, it is a Glitch. It has happened before to many people.

I applied in May, 2018 and still did not hear anything back. Be patient! 

I think it's a Stokes Interview. There is no other reason to call you guys again when both of you were interviewed already. Why were you guys making comments at each other? Some officers become suspicious when people get too friendly or too relaxed. Take it seriously this time and just answer the questions and try not to act like as if you are there to meet a friend. 

What color form did you receive?

YOU ARE A CITIZEN OF WHICH COUNTRY???🤔

All the information is given in this forum. You need to look for it and do your own research.

In simple words, your money can't help you in this case. Either follow the law of the land or face consequences later.

14 hours ago, dilip said:

Received 18 months notice on 8/6/2018, applied to move condition- Nov 27, 2017

It's not "move" it's "remove".

People like them makes it difficult for other people's family to get a Tourist Visa . I hope one day USCIS will do something about people who bring their relatives on tourist visa and apply for their green card.