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    NEWLOVE13 got a reaction from Nathaniel Aduteye in Pickup   
    My husbands was issued on the 22 and they haven't sent it does anybody know how long it take... I want to buy his ticket
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    NEWLOVE13 got a reaction from Ghanaishere in Pickup   
    No he just went after a week and that site didn't help
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    NEWLOVE13 got a reaction from Ghanaishere in Pickup   
    Our journey is finally over hubby picked up hiS passport today
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    NEWLOVE13 got a reaction from NikLR in Expecting first Child   
    not so much higher than it was then they're lots of people getting approved and I was one of them first time around..its all about having your information in order and organized most importantly know your spouse
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    NEWLOVE13 got a reaction from eviee567 in AP, denial , and any other kind of status that anybody is going through   
    Try your senators hun it kinda worked for me they had my husband passport forever until I called them
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    NEWLOVE13 reacted to Ischnura in Husband Deportation   
    Or maybe he's being logical and planning ahead. If you suffer from anxiety and depression you need to get help not just abandon your family life because the two clearly don't mix. Have you thought your husband might also be working so much because he also doesn't know how to cope with or manage your anxiety and depression either?
    EDIT: Why should he 'go back'? He's built a life here the past three years. Sounds like you're the one who's changed.
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    NEWLOVE13 reacted to Ischnura in Husband Deportation   
    Oh wow how entitled are you?! The man works his fingers to the bone and because you don't like how he's supporting his family you not only threw divorce in his face you want him shipped away from where he's clearly worked hard to build a life.
    You can't have him deported and hopefully he moves on without you.
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    NEWLOVE13 got a reaction from aaron2020 in Your journey will soon be over   
    I know it's easier said than done but this will soon be over and a thing in the past I can say that now after two years of this process and everything is finally over hubby pick up his passport yesterda.... The one thing I've learned from this process is your time is not everyone else time so try to be patient and everything will fall into place in perfect timing

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    NEWLOVE13 got a reaction from MrsBonsu in Excitement and temptation   
    True I'm patient
    well I'm trying to be lol
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    NEWLOVE13 got a reaction from MrsBonsu in Excitement and temptation   
    Lol at least someone is anxious like me I think my excitement has taken over
    I know that's the best thing but I'm so ready for him to be here I can't compose myself lol I want to buy it before it goes up I found one for 1014
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    NEWLOVE13 got a reaction from FarrahIdir in AP, denial , and any other kind of status that anybody is going through   
    this is for anybody that is in AP or was denied or haven't started or whatevr else I saw this and thought of everyone going through this now it will get better just trust time and i know this is easier said than done but it will

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    NEWLOVE13 reacted to LoveinGhana! in July 2015 I-130 Filers   
    OMG.....WOOOOHOOOO case approved!!! We just got a text message!!! Happy Dance!!!!!
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    NEWLOVE13 reacted to HFM181818 in Report rude consular officers   
    kingjulian: I am going to out on a limb and suggest that you (a) have never been a CO and (b) have not personally monitored the interviewing at all of the embassies in Africa.
    Therefore, your opinions about what goes on there is, well, without facts.
    Countries in which visa fraud is rampant only make it more challenging for COs when it comes time to render a decision. While many complain about 'fairness' and 'rudeness', what they likely really mean is that the CO isn't fair if a denial takes place (same for rudeness)...do any of you have absolute proof of any of your statements beyond hearsay? I thought so.
    A CO has had weeks of training, more weeks of experience interviewing long before they are assigned to the IV section (in most cases). Their denials, even under 221g, are reviewed by a more senior consular officer.
    As far as taking notes, etc, a USC spouse will only be permitted to attend an interview at the option of the CO...there is no legal right to do so. And while a USC has a right to submit a petition, no foreign born spouse has a right to a visa. Big difference.
    The COs can ask just about any question they wish of an applicant. And while they are not supposed to outright lie, they can, under certain circumstances, be somewhat obtuse in their questioning. If I had been handed fake documents, which I had not verified as yet of being fake, if the applicant told me ' that piece of paper is from my employer, saying I make this much or have this title..' or if I had been handed a (likely) fake diploma (usually when doing DV applications), I might have said, 'well, I have a letter from the university that says something different..' (which was true, I did have a letter from that university...of course, it might have been nothing more than a welcome letter or something, but a letter I did have..) and sometimes the applicant, fearful of being denied permanently, might own up to the fake papers. Now some of you might think that was tricky, on the other hand, who was trying to commit fraud against the USG? Certainly not me.
    Yep...the applicant was.
    Documents were reviewed and often verified long before the applicant hit the window...and I cannot tell you how much fraud is out there....I only remember from my assignments in different 'developing' countries (never served in Africa, but heard countless stories from colleagues)....
    A favorite ploy was to submit photos that allegedly claimed that the couple had met or been together numerous times....and many of those were photo-shopped! How did I know? Easy. The planet earth has, last time I checked, only one sun. So where on the planet can two people, alleged standing or sitting together, cast shadows in two different directions? Answer. Nowhere.
    Once one piece of 'questionable' evidence is noticed, well, the case is not going to get better quickly.
    And as I said before, a CO, doing an IV interview, is about to hand over permanent residency to someone....and I personally wanted to make doubly sure that my decision was correct. If it took some additional time, or if I could not approve the application, then I either asked for more evidence or sent the thing back, marked, 'not clearly approvable' and let USCIS deal with it.
    There are lots of ways a CO can attempt to get to the truth...one technique I used was to wander the waiting area, listening or watching 'couples' waiting in line. Genuine relationships generate body language that phony ones don't. Conversations often were last minute answers to presumed questions....if I heard robotic, memorized answers, well, that case was likely to be send back. None of these techniques are perfect, but then, the applicant pool is far from perfect.
    Scandinavian countries are part of the VWP....why? Because their citizenry has an infinitesimal visa abuse and fraud rate. Ghana, well, is not on the VWP and will never be, because the visa abuse rate is sky high. Blame the troubles on those who abused the privileges or tried to commit fraud a fairly high percentage of the time. It's not the CO's fault.
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    NEWLOVE13 reacted to kingjulian in Report rude consular officers   
    well, seems like you're a consular officer in disguise. lol.. I wish you were here in Ghana to see what goes on in the embassy room. I once applied for a non immigrant visa last year to go see my girlfriend last year. I was only asked 2 questions and was denied...all other people in the line as me were all denied...this consular officer who interviewed us was busily chatting with her co worker and not even looking at our faces or docs we have presented... if u are a consular officer pls say so and give expert advice to couples who's life's are falling apart
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    NEWLOVE13 got a reaction from MrsBonsu in anybody from ghana ???   
    Hello everyone this process is soo draining cant wait for it to be over
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    NEWLOVE13 got a reaction from TwoChickies in APPROVED !!!   
    GOT APPROVED TODAY GOT RFE IN JAN AND I JUST RECIEVE THE TXT FOR APPROVAL HANG IN THERE EVERYONE YOUR TIME IS COMING
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    NEWLOVE13 got a reaction from THETIMEISNOW in were going to make it   
    to all my people filing for the spouses in ghana and anywhere else were going to make it god will get us through
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    NEWLOVE13 got a reaction from curiousgeorgina in October 2014 Filers (I-130 Petition) CR1 Spouse Visa Process   
    Good luck guys thus is the longest part i filed in August and im still waiting for my noa2
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    NEWLOVE13 got a reaction from KofiB in were going to make it   
    to all my people filing for the spouses in ghana and anywhere else were going to make it god will get us through
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    NEWLOVE13 got a reaction from kamson in anybody from ghana ???   
    Have u.been there before
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    NEWLOVE13 got a reaction from michey8988 in Approved after 7months and 11days:))   
    congrats but i have a question Im about to go see my future husband in ghana in feb and ive heard the k1 was faster but we want to get married did your cr1 take 7 months total?
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