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Its best you contact your congress man since you have all required docs. My fiance had his on the 29th and with everythign he went with they did not ask for anything, not even a single proof. All the CO did was ask him bunch of questions. It really depends on the CO and some CO are not just happy that two people are in love.

You just have to find a way for both of you to meet each other or you will not be eligible to file the 1-129f and even if you decide to marry both of you have to be present for the ceremony. I don't understand how you two can go for that long without seeing each in real life and you have been in a relationship for 5 years.

Loving America and loving your wife are two different things. Applying for America visa several times before meeting your wife is a red flag because it might seem like your desperately looking for a way to finally get to USA since you've been denied several times.

Wow that is very hurtful and mean and to lie that she was denied because she is too pretty for you is an INSULT. Well now you know that your in the relationship all by yourself, she should have just be honest with you. Three things, she either does not want to be with you becasue she thinks she is too pretty for you or there is someone else or she does not want to live in the US.

Loving America and loving your wife are two different things. Applying for America visa several times before meeting your wife is a red flag because it might seem like your desperately looking for a way to finally get to USA since you've been denied several times.

any advice on what to do next when a k1 visa is denied and in the process of being sent back to NVC

Nope. She did not look at anything. We brought email correspondence, more photos, Fb conversations, a site plan for our new home we are building in Ghana with both names, a copy of a tattoo of his name on my wrist and the date he proposed and MYSELF.

Nobody is judging anyone. And if you could marry someone 40 years older than you then good for you.

very well said Nurseling, I myself is a Nigerian female, and I can't imagin a Nigerian man wanting and willing to marry a woman who can never carry his baby, with the kind of culture Nigeria have I seriously doubt that this man is in for this for better, for worst and until death. He will leave her once that green card has been issued. So its best like you and others say to put this guy on a trial and tell him she rather move to Nigeria and live with him, and see how his reaction will be and see if he will accept that, maybe live with him in Nigeria for maybe a year or even 6 months and see if he can proudly intoduce you to his friends as his wife. Do that before even applying for him. I know you love him and he have probaly got you into thinking that he loves you but make sure that this man truely loves you and is genuine so you don't end up being hurt in the future.

Its very obvious this guy is only with you because he wants to use you to get over here so so desperate and its a shame. My only advice to you is to run for your life, you can do better because when he gets over here, he will endure for maybe 2 or 3 years and once he gets his green card or becomes a citizen he will disappear and marry someone his age. Nigeria men are not stupid and no reasonable Nigerian man who wants to be with a woman who is 40 years older than him, a woman that can't give him children only if he wants something from that woman. iF your the man and his the woman maybe ya. The CO will know its for immigration purpose only and deny it but you never know, miracles do happen so goodluck.

very well said Nurseling, I myself is a Nigerian female, and I can't imagin a Nigerian man wanting and willing to marry a woman who can never carry his baby, with the kind of culture Nigeria have I seriously doubt that this man is in for this for better, for worst and until death. He will leave her once that green card has been issued. So its best like you and others say to put this guy on a trial and tell him she rather move to Nigeria and live with him, and see how his reaction will be and see if he will accept that, maybe live with him in Nigeria for maybe a year or even 6 months and see if he can proudly intoduce you to his friends as his wife. Do that before even applying for him. I know you love him and he have probaly got you into thinking that he loves you but make sure that this man truely loves you and is genuine so you don't end up being hurt in the future.

Just try and work things out with your husband, talk to him, make sure the decision you make is not base on your anger, take time to think about the whole thing before canceling anything. Every relationship has its ups and downs and I hope you two can work it out. Good luckl

Loving America and loving your wife are two different things. Applying for America visa several times before meeting your wife is a red flag because it might seem like your desperately looking for a way to finally get to USA since you've been denied several times.

Its very obvious this guy is only with you because he wants to use you to get over here so so desperate and its a shame. My only advice to you is to run for your life, you can do better because when he gets over here, he will endure for maybe 2 or 3 years and once he gets his green card or becomes a citizen he will disappear and marry someone his age. Nigeria men are not stupid and no reasonable Nigerian man who wants to be with a woman who is 40 years older than him, a woman that can't give him children only if he wants something from that woman. iF your the man and his the woman maybe ya. The CO will know its for immigration purpose only and deny it but you never know, miracles do happen so goodluck.

very well said Nurseling, I myself is a Nigerian female, and I can't imagin a Nigerian man wanting and willing to marry a woman who can never carry his baby, with the kind of culture Nigeria have I seriously doubt that this man is in for this for better, for worst and until death. He will leave her once that green card has been issued. So its best like you and others say to put this guy on a trial and tell him she rather move to Nigeria and live with him, and see how his reaction will be and see if he will accept that, maybe live with him in Nigeria for maybe a year or even 6 months and see if he can proudly intoduce you to his friends as his wife. Do that before even applying for him. I know you love him and he have probaly got you into thinking that he loves you but make sure that this man truely loves you and is genuine so you don't end up being hurt in the future.

Its very obvious this guy is only with you because he wants to use you to get over here so so desperate and its a shame. My only advice to you is to run for your life, you can do better because when he gets over here, he will endure for maybe 2 or 3 years and once he gets his green card or becomes a citizen he will disappear and marry someone his age. Nigeria men are not stupid and no reasonable Nigerian man who wants to be with a woman who is 40 years older than him, a woman that can't give him children only if he wants something from that woman. iF your the man and his the woman maybe ya. The CO will know its for immigration purpose only and deny it but you never know, miracles do happen so goodluck.

Its very obvious this guy is only with you because he wants to use you to get over here so so desperate and its a shame. My only advice to you is to run for your life, you can do better because when he gets over here, he will endure for maybe 2 or 3 years and once he gets his green card or becomes a citizen he will disappear and marry someone his age. Nigeria men are not stupid and no reasonable Nigerian man who wants to be with a woman who is 40 years older than him, a woman that can't give him children only if he wants something from that woman. iF your the man and his the woman maybe ya. The CO will know its for immigration purpose only and deny it but you never know, miracles do happen so goodluck.

Its very obvious this guy is only with you because he wants to use you to get over here so so desperate and its a shame. My only advice to you is to run for your life, you can do better because when he gets over here, he will endure for maybe 2 or 3 years and once he gets his green card or becomes a citizen he will disappear and marry someone his age. Nigeria men are not stupid and no reasonable Nigerian man who wants to be with a woman who is 40 years older than him, a woman that can't give him children only if he wants something from that woman. iF your the man and his the woman maybe ya. The CO will know its for immigration purpose only and deny it but you never know, miracles do happen so goodluck.

Its very obvious this guy is only with you because he wants to use you to get over here so so desperate and its a shame. My only advice to you is to run for your life, you can do better because when he gets over here, he will endure for maybe 2 or 3 years and once he gets his green card or becomes a citizen he will disappear and marry someone his age. Nigeria men are not stupid and no reasonable Nigerian man who wants to be with a woman who is 40 years older than him, a woman that can't give him children only if he wants something from that woman. iF your the man and his the woman maybe ya. The CO will know its for immigration purpose only and deny it but you never know, miracles do happen so goodluck.

Its very obvious this guy is only with you because he wants to use you to get over here so so desperate and its a shame. My only advice to you is to run for your life, you can do better because when he gets over here, he will endure for maybe 2 or 3 years and once he gets his green card or becomes a citizen he will disappear and marry someone his age. Nigeria men are not stupid and no reasonable Nigerian man who wants to be with a woman who is 40 years older than him, a woman that can't give him children only if he wants something from that woman. iF your the man and his the woman maybe ya. The CO will know its for immigration purpose only and deny it but you never know, miracles do happen so goodluck.

Its very obvious this guy is only with you because he wants to use you to get over here so so desperate and its a shame. My only advice to you is to run for your life, you can do better because when he gets over here, he will endure for maybe 2 or 3 years and once he gets his green card or becomes a citizen he will disappear and marry someone his age. Nigeria men are not stupid and no reasonable Nigerian man who wants to be with a woman who is 40 years older than him, a woman that can't give him children only if he wants something from that woman. iF your the man and his the woman maybe ya. The CO will know its for immigration purpose only and deny it but you never know, miracles do happen so goodluck.

congratulations!! i will have interview next week too!!hope it will have positive result too

Sounds unprofessional lol. But hey congrats on the approval. You got a funny interviewer. He most probably fed up with asking the standard questions lol.

With everything you've said, its obvious this woman does not love you neither does she respect you, no woman who loves and respects her fiance/husband will ever screw around with another man and to even get pregnant by him, that alone tells you that this has been going on for a long time under your nose because she did not get pregnant the 1st time. Trust me once a cheater is always a cheater, do yourself a favor and move on with your life without this woman, I believe you can do better and its better now than 20 years later you find out that none of your kids belongs to biologically . People make mistakes but some mistakes are unacceptable. This woman does not want you and she is probably using you to come here and once she becomes a citizen she will divorce you file for her lover the father of her kids. Please think twice, dont be in love and stupid at the same time, she cheated on you,lied about it, got pregnant by another man and your still willing to work it out?. Marriage should be built on trust and there is obviously no trust on this one. Getting pregnant by another man is shameful and a big slap to you face. This woman is not the one for you and your not the one for her and God is trying to prove it to you. Am sorry that your going through this and the only way this mistake can be fixed is by you withdrawing your petition not by worrying if she will be approved or if she will have an abortion, if she will ever change, or if you will ever trust her again. Don't make life difficult for yourself.