Novembro

Favorite post of ever?
SI, MAN!

Favorite post of ever?
SI, MAN!

You would high-five it in a box
You would high-five it with a fox
You would high-five it in a house
You would high-five it with a mouse
You would high-five it here or there
You would high-five it ANYWHERE!
(Oh, poop... last post in thread... response invalid...)

This particular client is a 12 year old boy. On my off days, I work with him through my company's In-Home program. He has Muscular Dystrophy, specifically Duchenne's. He and his older brother both have it, but he also is diagnosed with a behavior disorder. So getting through yesterday with only minor issues was amazing for him. I was so proud.

This particular client is a 12 year old boy. On my off days, I work with him through my company's In-Home program. He has Muscular Dystrophy, specifically Duchenne's. He and his older brother both have it, but he also is diagnosed with a behavior disorder. So getting through yesterday with only minor issues was amazing for him. I was so proud.

This particular client is a 12 year old boy. On my off days, I work with him through my company's In-Home program. He has Muscular Dystrophy, specifically Duchenne's. He and his older brother both have it, but he also is diagnosed with a behavior disorder. So getting through yesterday with only minor issues was amazing for him. I was so proud.

Oh boy that's one of my biggest pet peeves on vj.
THANK THA LAWD I GOT APPROVED!!!!!!1!!!11

Oh boy that's one of my biggest pet peeves on vj.
THANK THA LAWD I GOT APPROVED!!!!!!1!!!11

So before I go to do my errands for the day (shopping and speaking to bank.. *sigh*), I leave you with two rants/thoughts:
1) I strongly dislike two-faced people (if you couldn't already tell. Plus my hate is reserved for one person and one person only). The kind that are rude, venomous and arrogant to you (and then get you reported to a Moderator when you won't take their ####### - which then makes them a troll), and then all sweetness and light after the fact. Add to the fact they seem to have gotten special treatment in their process and it's insult to injury. I hope Karma will invoke itself. In the meantime, that person may find themselves the lone occupant of my ignore list.
2) A thought: When you get that lovely NOA2 that says the magic words "your petition has been approved" and then you come onto the forums and ask "what does this mean?" I have to wonder... How bloody obvious do they need to make it? A big red stamp with "APPROVED" on it, maybe?
(Also, Kneel before Zod. Errands.. bleh..)

Try this and tell me how amazing it is!
http://www.recipebyphoto.com/grilled-nectarine-bowls/

The professor had a Philippines delicacy......
Chicken gonads.....

Copy the link to the original image and post in the 'image' bar on here. Same as posting a photo.

Thread is all sad this morning

The vj'ers throwing shade in this thread are pretty disgusting.
OP- incredibly sorry to hear this has happened to you. I hope you have people around you that can offer their love, support and understanding. You need it (and a couple thousand hugs)! I sincerely hope that you are able to come out of this, however you chose to come out of it, in a positive way. You deserve love, so don't give up hope.
Hugs.

I am so sorry that you are going through this. Please take the advice people give you on this board with a grain of salt because there are many VJers that come from different cultures / countries where terminating a pregnancy is seen as "wrong or immoral". I am sorry that judgmental people will be immigrating to this country. It's a shame, really.
There is no right or wrong answer. What you need now is a strong support system. You need lots of love. Turn to your family for love and support. I have no doubt they will help you the best they can. I don't know if you believe in God or a higher being but pray for the answers - for they are in your heart. This is an extremely personal choice that only you can answer. No one else.
I will keep you in my prayers and I am sending positive vibes your way. Life throws challenges at as but I can assure you that once you work through this challenge, you will be stronger than ever before.
And for the people who are borderline trolling here (calling her a control freak, etc.) I hope that your visas get denied and you never come to the US.

You've got your mother in a whirl
Shes not sure if you're a boy or a girl

I am very sorry to hear all you are going through, I can only tell you what someone else already said, dont listen to anyone trying to push their beliefs on you. They will not be there in the days weeks and years to come. You only know what is best for you. I believe that no one should have the right to tell you what to do with your body, there are many good reasons to decide either way. If you need open honest ears to listen you can find them here hidden among the overbareing better than tho zeloits. As for him, it sounds like he would have been bad for you in the long run, hard to see him being a loving supportive husband.

It's only been a couple of days. Any chance he might change his mind?
Also, Holy Pro Life on this thread! Shame on everyone for trying to sway you on this very personal decision.

Wow, this is a heartbreaker.
I agree that being close to family is the most important, and take things a day or even an hour at a time. Try to avoid major decisions right now, what you need to do will become clearer as the days wear on. Take care of yourself and find someone you can talk to.
Also, to the above, the OP was asking a rhetorical question. She wasn't asking for your thoughts on a difficult and personal decision.

I am terribly sorry to hear about your personal circumstances... I can't even imagine what you are going through, especially when you were supposed to be starting a new and amazing chapter in your life.
I will back up what a few others have said and advise you to ignore the bible bashing pro-lifers in this thread. VJ is sadly overrun with people that want to force their own lifestyle opinions down your throat rather than give simple visa advice or congratulations on visa progress which is what we are supposed to be here for. If you two had come to the decision to abort the baby, and you felt comfortable with it, why would you change your mind now, especially considering the circumstances and considering the position of its potential father? People on this site just make me shake my head at humanity sometimes... people that I'm sure have no qualms walking past a homeless person on the street but feel the need to convince someone they don't know and will never meet to make an intensely personal decision with huge and lasting ramifications. These people don't know you or your situation so the advice they give can only be misguided, misinformed and most likely for selfish reasons to do with their own personal views. I advise you to make this decision yourself without any outside influence. That is the only advice anyone here should be giving you, and shame on anyone that does the opposite.
Once again, I am terribly sorry to hear that this has happened to you. My thoughts are with you.

Someone said lame joke?
Why did the tomato blush?
Because it saw the salad dressing.

Someone said lame joke?
Why did the tomato blush?
Because it saw the salad dressing.

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! NOOOOOOO!
Go to a real shop with real needles! Getting your ears pierced at a commecial shop (ie: Claire's) is like asking to be pierced with a dirty heroin needle by a drunk toddler.

Proud of you.
Pics would require him being here.
Ring up the NVC and ask. Fingers crossed.

Woooo congrats and welcome!