Peter_Pan

And you wonder why American marriages fail. This is the frame of mind you expect people to have? Be selfish, put yourself first, if an issue arises, don't spend much time on it, divorce and move on. Really, people?
And what happens when you really are "insecure, crazy, imagining things, too suspicious or don't allow him time with his "friends"? When the relatiosnhip crumbles because you are too selfish and think it is everything about you?
I am not divorced, and hope I will never be, but I can tell you this: I have NEVER dated a guy that bad mouthed his exes in any way. Cause you know, at some point we might be those exes we delight so much in trashing today.

Health insurance sucks, paid vacations are non existant, ditto for maternity leaves, guns everywhere and super costly education. No, I don't love the US (America is a continent, not a country), but, alas, sometimes you have to make some sacrifices in life.

What a douche! 1000 years ago 1 in 4 women died in childbirth. I am guessing that when he has a tooth ache he doesn't grab some tongs and removes the painful tooth? He takes medicine for headache, no?
So he gets to enjoy the benefits of modern medicine, yet you are supposed to give birth like in the Stone Age? #######!

I know I wouldn't like to be judged by my family's activities.

And you wonder why American marriages fail. This is the frame of mind you expect people to have? Be selfish, put yourself first, if an issue arises, don't spend much time on it, divorce and move on. Really, people?
And what happens when you really are "insecure, crazy, imagining things, too suspicious or don't allow him time with his "friends"? When the relatiosnhip crumbles because you are too selfish and think it is everything about you?
I am not divorced, and hope I will never be, but I can tell you this: I have NEVER dated a guy that bad mouthed his exes in any way. Cause you know, at some point we might be those exes we delight so much in trashing today.

What a douche! 1000 years ago 1 in 4 women died in childbirth. I am guessing that when he has a tooth ache he doesn't grab some tongs and removes the painful tooth? He takes medicine for headache, no?
So he gets to enjoy the benefits of modern medicine, yet you are supposed to give birth like in the Stone Age? #######!

Omg, poor woman. I really feel bad for women who are born so poor they really don't have many options in life.
Same goes for Nigerian/mena guys and much older American women.

What a douche! 1000 years ago 1 in 4 women died in childbirth. I am guessing that when he has a tooth ache he doesn't grab some tongs and removes the painful tooth? He takes medicine for headache, no?
So he gets to enjoy the benefits of modern medicine, yet you are supposed to give birth like in the Stone Age? #######!

What a douche! 1000 years ago 1 in 4 women died in childbirth. I am guessing that when he has a tooth ache he doesn't grab some tongs and removes the painful tooth? He takes medicine for headache, no?
So he gets to enjoy the benefits of modern medicine, yet you are supposed to give birth like in the Stone Age? #######!

Omg, poor woman. I really feel bad for women who are born so poor they really don't have many options in life.
Same goes for Nigerian/mena guys and much older American women.

What a douche! 1000 years ago 1 in 4 women died in childbirth. I am guessing that when he has a tooth ache he doesn't grab some tongs and removes the painful tooth? He takes medicine for headache, no?
So he gets to enjoy the benefits of modern medicine, yet you are supposed to give birth like in the Stone Age? #######!

I know I wouldn't like to be judged by my family's activities.

I am not judging you at all. I find it perfectly truthful. Alot of pinays go for a old white Kano because he has money and can help provide for her and her family. Me and my fiance really hate seeing it to be honest. If I had a peso for everytime I heard someone say to my Mahal how lucky she is because I am "Young and Guapo", I am 28 mind you. I would be the richest man in the Philippines right now.
It's just sad because there are ALOT of smart and beautiful women in the Philippines, and that they have to settle for Old Men. Because most (not all) of the local men could care less about having a family. But only want to smoke, drink, and gamble, and also have sex. Then as soon as the girl gets pregnant they are long gone.
Last example: I was in the Davao airport waiting on a delayed flight to Manila. When sitting across from me was a Old White guy and a pretty young pinay. I saw the Eagle, Globe, and Anchor tattooed on his arm. So being a former Marine myself struck up a conversation with him. Turns out he was in the Marines during the VIETNAM WAR, and that the pretty young pinay was his "WIFE". I was so taken back and shocked I got up and walked away.

There's a smart way to keep your young Pinay wife by your side.
1)Live in a state that is pretty much still considered the wilderness
2)The chosen home town must have a population of about 400
3)That population should only have adult males being 50 years and up (not even 49, 'cause that's a stone throw away from 35)
4)Make sure you have a gun right above the fire place (incase she gets any 'bright' ideas)
5)The rest will work out itself

I am perplexed to the highest degree as t0 how desperate he is in justifying and proving. To each of his/her own but in love and marriage there should be physical attraction, that is the first. Heck! I don't want to wake up every morning and see a wrinkled old man lying next beside me. Coming forward to voice my mind doesn't mean I don't respect anybody's wife. And again, there are few Pinays who are really a real gem, family devoted and all.

I know I wouldn't like to be judged by my family's activities.

I know I wouldn't like to be judged by my family's activities.

I know I wouldn't like to be judged by my family's activities.

100 days? Lol, I got my NOA2 afer 151 so you still have some waiting to do.

Well, so it happens the noise has this annoying habit of travelling, and then it isn't in her house anymore. Now, if she could only bend the laws of physics.

Not really, she said so herself. Read the thread again. Also, add the insults to it, and you get the type of person she is.

Everybody knows babies are loud. What I don't get is why parents think other people should put up with them - and I am not even talking about babies crying for a specific reason (those can't be helped and it is no one's fault). I am referring to the cases - very much like this one -, when the parents feel entitled to ruin everyobody's silence because it is their baby.

Why? Because I think your rights end the moment mine start being disregarded? The humanity! We live in a sociery and we should respect each other - and yes, that includes not driving a loud car in the middle of the night, and not allowing your child to throw a temper tantrum in the middle of a shop.
Do you want to scream every night from the top of your lungs? I'm sure there is a tundra or a desert for you out there. If you are in the city, expect to be fined.

I hate people with louds motorcycles/cars, absolutely hate them - they are so loud they wake me up at least 4-5 times a night, and I suffer from insomnia too. They are so loud you actually have to cover your eats. I wish they would all crash into each other and spill their petty useless brains on the sidewalk.

I learned English from TV, then I took some classes for 4 months ( 2 hours per week) to make sure grammar is in place - all that in a non-native environment. Some people are just naturally gifted at leasrnign foreign languages. Oh, and I know idioms, and slang from several English speaking countries as well, without ever setting foot in one.