DeeDee&Sam

i absolutely hated here at first because i was coming from a big city into the middle of nowhere. took me over a year to adapt. i still hate this place more than anything, but i love my husband so i stay for him until we find a way to move. it seems to me like she never loved you. if she loved you she would learn to accept the new way of life. im sorry

I think that was terribly rude. everyone with curly hair knows that making it look "tamed" is most of the times impossible. i dont know if it was racist but it was rude. don't let everything bother you, try to just ignore the thoughts. ive never been a victim of racism because im white, but ive been a victim of nationality based discrimination and i know its hard to cope with. you'll always find someone to treat you like that, here on vj as well, even though this is an immigration forum. dont let them get to you. you being strong will be the worst punishment you can give them. they love to see you down, dont give them the satisfaction. *hugs*

just letting everyone know i followed your advice and told my husband to file for unemployment even if he got fired. the place where he worked pretty much refused to talk to the ones investigating the claim and he was approved. this will be a lesson hopefully not to listen to what people say and check into it by ourselves. thank you so much

honestly, i don't think he was using you for the GC. thats a common phrase when someone gets mad at their spouses. it's something to make you hurt intentionally, words said at rage. now the thing with the dollar bills was pathetic. i've been through something very similar with my husband's family, but in the end he realised they were wrong and chose to be with me and me only. you're husband is not a man enough, he's a brat who needs to grow up and realise he has a wife and a new life and not hang by his daddy's pants like a lil' kid

. File for unemployment. People often think that only laid-off employees are eligible for these benefits. However, in most states, fired employees can collect too, as long as they weren't fired for intentional misconduct. It can take a while for benefits to kick in, so file right away.
http://money.usnews.com/money/blogs/outside-voices-careers/2012/06/25/10-things-you-should-do-immediately-after-being-fired
http://unemploymenthandbook.com/unemployment-articles/all-about-unemployment/181-can-you-get-unemployment-if-you-get-fired

wow...the guy's a complete sex freak. thats blackmail, i consider it emotional abuse. i wish the best for your friend. no woman should be treated like a sex toy

put you in jail?????? for what reason? he cant put you in jail, dont give importance to that nonsense. you can always go home, but if you really wanna stay, you can apply for VAWA, the mental abuse is a little harder to prove but you can always try.
now lets be serious if she wants to stay its HER choice and hers only. i gave up everything i had in my country so going back would be suicidal without anything there. let's not judge this

im so sorry...i dont know you, but reading this brought tears to my eyes. i dont know how you can be so strong. if anything happened to my husband i would do something stupid. i hope you get the strenght to continue your life in a close to normal way, because i know theres no way to actually get over the passing of the person you love the most

LOL. "Normal guys do not want their wives to get multiple piercings, that's something stupid kids do that don't know what they want in life.". based on that part of the message it seems i'm a stupid kid who doesn't know what she wants in life. basically, he did call me a stupid kid, without calling me one. i'm entiteled to opinions too. they can say whatever, i can surely say THAT IS WRONG. end of story.

OFF TOPIC: that's what stupid kidz have? well i'm sorry but i really think i'm far from a stupid kid, yes i have multiple piercings, teaching degree and university so how am i supposed to be a stupid kid? i will take personal, because i don't think is fair and right for you to say BS like that about people with piercings.

after following tbone's advice and also spamming uscis with phone calls this week, they approved it and very very surprisingly, the aos was approved and greencard mailed on the SAME day. didnt know it was possible but got to see it myself. to everyone having trouble with uscis , dont't just stay there and wait. REMIND them, that you exist and their people get payd from YOUR money to do their job. thank you everyone <3 god bless

wow...the guy's a complete sex freak. thats blackmail, i consider it emotional abuse. i wish the best for your friend. no woman should be treated like a sex toy

OFF TOPIC: that's what stupid kidz have? well i'm sorry but i really think i'm far from a stupid kid, yes i have multiple piercings, teaching degree and university so how am i supposed to be a stupid kid? i will take personal, because i don't think is fair and right for you to say BS like that about people with piercings.

wow...the guy's a complete sex freak. thats blackmail, i consider it emotional abuse. i wish the best for your friend. no woman should be treated like a sex toy

without being judgemental and risk my butt to be banned from the topic all i can say is get ready for a longgggggggggggggg and annoying process. if your new relationship works out without colateral damage it would be a miracle from heavens. and please don't use the vawa word people. he'll get ideas

6 months in the US, but the OP says they've been talking for few months. few might mean 2-3-4 months. thats like 3 months of no cheating marriage? definately red flag

6 months in the US, but the OP says they've been talking for few months. few might mean 2-3-4 months. thats like 3 months of no cheating marriage? definately red flag

6 months in the US, but the OP says they've been talking for few months. few might mean 2-3-4 months. thats like 3 months of no cheating marriage? definately red flag

without being judgemental and risk my butt to be banned from the topic all i can say is get ready for a longgggggggggggggg and annoying process. if your new relationship works out without colateral damage it would be a miracle from heavens. and please don't use the vawa word people. he'll get ideas

6 months in the US, but the OP says they've been talking for few months. few might mean 2-3-4 months. thats like 3 months of no cheating marriage? definately red flag

without being judgemental and risk my butt to be banned from the topic all i can say is get ready for a longgggggggggggggg and annoying process. if your new relationship works out without colateral damage it would be a miracle from heavens. and please don't use the vawa word people. he'll get ideas

6 months in the US, but the OP says they've been talking for few months. few might mean 2-3-4 months. thats like 3 months of no cheating marriage? definately red flag

without being judgemental and risk my butt to be banned from the topic all i can say is get ready for a longgggggggggggggg and annoying process. if your new relationship works out without colateral damage it would be a miracle from heavens. and please don't use the vawa word people. he'll get ideas

without being judgemental and risk my butt to be banned from the topic all i can say is get ready for a longgggggggggggggg and annoying process. if your new relationship works out without colateral damage it would be a miracle from heavens. and please don't use the vawa word people. he'll get ideas

without being judgemental and risk my butt to be banned from the topic all i can say is get ready for a longgggggggggggggg and annoying process. if your new relationship works out without colateral damage it would be a miracle from heavens. and please don't use the vawa word people. he'll get ideas