Look, I am stating what I did for my wife to get her green card. You aren't reading the definition...you seem to be stuck on consummation as being just meeting. The definition is sexual intercourse AFTER marriage. Even if you had kids before marriage, that does not consummate marriage. We provided the proof of travel and an affidavit. Technically if you met and did not consummate the marriage you would be in violation. So go to your interview and say you haven't had sex after marriage and see how that goes. So thanks for that screenshot of one item, but it missed the actual rule that the original post was asking for.